Originally posted by: devil_drivers
Peaches, JP and pj..Excellent analysis!
May I now be permitted to present my humble point of view?
OK!
This is just a show and we are supposed to just sit back and enjoy and not work our Grey cells. Indeed?
I'll be lying through my teeth if I say this show hasn't affected me! It has..more than I would choose to! And so have been other people and that's the reason the show got so popular in the first place.
People actually had started identifying themselves with the protagonist; esp dowdy, hard-working, intelligent young girls from the lower strat who had assumed that it was their lot to suffer misery and rejection..they now found their hopes and aspirations re-kindled through the protagonist of the show! We cannot deny this, can we?
I absolutely identify with Jassi..I have learnt a lot from her..honesty, goodwill, perserverence, good humour, self-will…have lived with her…her pain, her happiness..her wrath..her hurt..Yes SIR! I CARE WHERE THIS SHOW'S GOING!
I want it to send the right message like before! We should not forget that Jassi is beautiful who was made to look ugly.
One moment and Voila..she was beautiful! What about those who are born ugly?No make-up..no make-over can make them even tolerable???
The unfortunate message it's now sending by transforming Jassi into Jessica is that ugly people are born to suffer!
And Peaches, DON'T DARE ME! I USUALLY WIN!(Wink!)
I don't discourage or disapprove a woman who wants to look good. Like pj says it's her birth-right! But, if you say it's the looks that instill confidence in her and are the pre-requisite to gain this world's respect and acceptance, I HUGELY DISAGREE!
I have always tried to stand up to the standards and subscribe to the unwritten rules set by our society and this world. I felt miserable! I could neither be true to my new self nor could I completely kill the natural instincts of my old self!
The lesson I have learnt is that THE WORLD SEES YOU AS THE PERSON YOU WANT TO BE….THE PERSON YOU PORTRAY YOURSELF TO BE..THE PERSON YOU PUT ACROSS TO THEM….!
I don't believe in flaunting even an inch of sinful flesh nor in embellishments yet I get more respect, love and lift than the so called daring beautiful women!
Because I believe in myself..I have faith in my abilities,..I give and take respect..I stick to my principles and goals as far as I can! You get what you give!
IF YOU THINK YOU ARE DEFICIENT, HELPLESS AND DOOMED TO SUFFER THEN LOOKER OR NOT, YOU WILL BE TREATED LIKE SHIT BY THIS WORLD!!
This is unfortunately the way of this world where Dog eat Dog!
Jassi needed a mental and physical make-over. Yup! But, no justification for the conversion of Jassi into Jessica!
Not because modeling is wrong or inferior though, personally I don't much approve of modeling but because I believe in the container theory of mine that every individual is like water in a container. You may change the container but the water will remain the same! Yes..the temperature of the water may be changed..it may boil..it may freeze..it may become gas..but..the attributes of the water will remain the same!
Here, the change from Jassi to Jessica is dramatic, unconvincing and unrealistic!
('m sorry I'll have to get personal again but my thoughts and impressions are formed from my experiences) If I have to as much as switch over from full arm to half-sleeves, I'll feel like I am being paraded naked (Sleeveless..?Horror!)
But Jessica carried it off like she's being doing it all her life, as if Mona Singh suddenly took over Jassi…!
Jassi as Jessica should have felt and looked uncomfy..must have bumbled and stumbled. Clumsiness is not a habit that can be weaned off overnight!(Again from personal experience!)
She's doing all this for revenge, right? Where's that cold-blooded resoluteness that accompanies a severly wronged woman, whose living in hell..for whom every second of this switch-over is a torture? I agree the coldness does seep in sometimes like when she reacted to the model who was fired by Purab but that looked to me more like arrogance!
And I'm afraid I don't subscribe to her idea of revenge! I would definitely not hide my true identity to take revenge, now that I have the trump card; Kohinoor with me!
I would rather confide in my best friend than in the reticent Buddha who due to his weird sense of sacrifice, slinked away two days before the engagement and me and my family a laughing stock!
And I would definitely make some financial arrangements for my family even though they are angry with me because I know that they love me too much and I believe that hurt and anger is directly proportional to the love you share!
I will try at least once to convince my father that I have not betrayed his faith that I need him..somehow will make him come around! At least will try!
Jassi's abandoning her family, without even trying is not acceptable. She should at least collaborate with Nandu to protect her family from the Police and law and try to track down the wrong-doers while she pursues with her revenge plan.
I don't believe Jessica is using Purab!
He offered her the contract for whatever reasons and showed her a new path which she grabbed. She had always made it clear to him that he was nothing more than a friend. The pity with people is that they believe things will change.
Neither do I believe in the hypocritical sanskaars laid down by the society but then you have to live in this society..you just cannot shun them unless you are willing to be termed eccentric or be condemned as an iconoclast! Esp when your family does care about what society thinks about you.
Jessica's doing all this to get back to her family. Right?
How then is living with Purab going to help? People will talk, esp when she's going to become a super model.
Will her Papaji understand and accept this situation when he comes to know the truth? Will he not disown Jesssica as well? And will this not breach his trust further and create more complications?
That is why I believe in direct and plain speaking. She should have barged into the Walia household and made Billu listen to her….give her a chance! One can exercise so much right on one's father who considers you as the apple of his eye!
Purab has not yet learnt his lessons!
In spite of Jassi telling him plainly that she is doing this with a purpose
and there can be nothing between them, he is still heading speedily heading towards another heart-break!
Now that she hopes to avenge whoever they are, I think she needs to specify clearly to Purab where they stand. I mean if I was her, I'd confide entirely to him about my design or I'd tell him clearly to just keep off from my private life! Pure Business!
And I honestly believe that no one can use you unless you choose to!
You may allow yourself to be used maybe due to excessive and self-less love or any other reason, but then you will be responsible for the consequences too! Laying the blame at another's door is absurd!
I'd like to wind up by saying that I am not against the Jessicas of this world but I am against the illogical reasoning and the unconvincing portrayal of the journey from Jassi to Jessica!
The angelic innocence… the .. charm…the gullibility combined with the 'never die' attitude f Jassi…the Jassi who was comfy with her self..inspite of rejection and cruelty still hoped to make her way in the world..had implicit faith in herself..didn't need to take the cover of Jessica...that endeared me to Jassi….that made me yearn to be her..is lost!
I cannot nor do I want to identify myself with Jessica!
Jessica certainly doesn't make me proud!
ARMAAN JASSI FOREVER!
WOW!!!!!!! I'm speechless.. that was awesome devil_drivers!!👏