Love - An enigma

After watching the ' Hate Arman' scenario of Jassi and ' Get Arman by any means' scenario of Mallika, I just had this doubt.

What is love?

Does Jassi really love Arman? If so just because he had a misunderstanding (believe me, circumstances were really convincing) ,will the love she felt for him change in to hate? So, if the man you love questions you, you set about destroying him.....is that so?

And does love mean possessing people like material things? You want to have something by hook or crook means you love that something?

So many questions, but for me, love is what is described in this beautiful poem by 'Thomas Moore'.

I thought I will share it here. What do you think?

Believe Me, If All Those Endearing Young Charms

Believe me, if all those endearing young charms, Which I gaze on so fondly to-day, Were to change by to-morrow, and fleet in my arms, Live fairy-gifts fading away, Thou wouldst still be adored, as this moment thou art, Let thy loveliness fade as it will, And around the dear ruin each wish of my heart Would entwine itself verdantly still. It is not while beauty and youth are thine own, And thy cheeks unprofaned by a tear, That the fervor and faith of a soul may be known, To which time will but make thee more dear! No, the heart that has truly loved never forgets, But as truly loves on to the close, As the sunflower turns on her god when he sets The same look which she turned when he rose! Thomas Moore

nice one blue

just one bad episode and hate jassi camaign has started

i m tired of reading all this posts

now somebody needs to cheer me up

all this drama on tv and we have world war 3 here
all have gone in aggresive mode

Originally posted by: chatterbox

nice one blue

just one bad episode and hate jassi camaign has started

i m tired of reading all this posts

now somebody needs to cheer me up

all this drama on tv and we have world war 3 here
all have gone in aggresive mode

CB,

It is not just one bad episode and it is not hate Jassi campaign. I know you loved Jassi enough to have 'Likejassi' as your username. Me too loved Jassi, once upon a time.

But,

The Jassi I loved was a straight forward simple middleclass girl, who had great values......

Who loved her family and cared for them.......

Who refused to take bribe................

who gave two hundred percent to her job and company..............

Who was willing to sacrifice anything for her friends..........

Who believed in truth, who had confidence and intelligence enough to tackle any problems directly...................

Who told what she believed...........

She never had a cheating bone in her body.......................

Who loved one man with all her heart even when she had no hope of getting him.

But she is not the chairperson of Karishma Fashion House who stood in front of Arman and sneered.

My Jassi would never have Changed her name to Jassica Bedi to take revenge on Mallika.... ( BTW, I never saw that so hyped revenge. Mallika is still scot free)

My Jassi would never have stayed in the home of a single man before marriage even if he was saint reincatnate.

My Jassi would never have abandoned her ageing parents.....

My Jassi would never have run away from her own wedding....

My jassi would never have impersonated Neha Shastry and entered in to a sacred profession where children are involved.

My Jassi would never have prearital sex, even with Arman.

My Jassi would never have acted upon impuls with false information supplied by Pervert lal and Party.

My Jassi would never have allowed herself to become a pretend wife(You are playing with the emotions of families here)

My Jassi would never have involved in clandestine dealings to destroy another human being whether it is Arman or not...

And last but not the least,

My Jassi would never have stopped loving Arman, even if he married Aiswarya Rai. (She loved him when he was engaged to Mallika)

Just imagin your sister or daughter doing all these things? How will you feel?

For me love is the most important thing in this World. I just can't tolerate people who make a joke of it, period.

blue i wud again apologise as i dont want to hurt anyone's feelings and i understand that u all feel jassi made a joke of the love

and i wud also feel bad at what u wrote if something similar was done by my daughter or sister
i was again only tryin to say to everyone to calm down as the makers r to be blamed for showing love in such a poor way

i have nothign against anyone
not even against jassi's attire

i also was very angry with jassi when she ran off the weddign without confronting the truth. and her bhashans was the one which got me angry thats why i changed my id

and i m not jassi nor do i have any armaan
but this was jst a drama which raised my dreams and i found myself gettin caught in the fantasy world
but there r lots of real issues
so i was telling everyone to relax

once again i m sorry if i hurt anyone

CB, you didn't hurt me.....
But you don't know for how many years we were emotionally involved with these characters.....

You have no idea how many hours I spend to make that banner you see on top of this forum....

How many sleepless hours our updaters spend to make updates...

And the list goes on and on....

So we feel very bad when we see such things...

And all of us know the reality...
That it is only a serial...
It has nothing to do with our lives....

Still, it is really painful....

Sorry If I hurt you.... 😊

i have tolerated all that blue has said, but i find it difficult to swallow that jassi of yesterday was so insensitive that she could not see love and tears in armaans eyes. ok, revenge has clouded her thinking. in that case what is the difference between her and mallika?

Originally posted by: bluelotus

CB, you didn't hurt me.....
But you don't know for how many years we were emotionally involved with these characters.....

You have no idea how many hours I spend to make that banner you see on top of this forum....

How many sleepless hours our updaters spend to make updates...

And the list goes on and on....

So we feel very bad when we see such things...

And all of us know the reality...
That it is only a serial...
It has nothing to do with our lives....

Still, it is really painful....

Sorry If I hurt you.... 😊

nahi re hurt nahi and u think i dont understand that one who is totally smitten by what she sees and one who is emotional enough to think she wud fulfill her desires by this. i know and understand all this. so waht if icame in late on the forum but i do appreciate the efforts put up byeveryone.

this show had affected me too emotionally but now i m out of it so just wanted everyone to relax too and i m sure once jassi realises what she has done and that janda scene wud come everyone wud forget all this

Originally posted by: Mauritian

i have tolerated all that blue has said, but i find it difficult to swallow that jassi of yesterday was so insensitive that she could not see love and tears in armaans eyes. ok, revenge has clouded her thinking. in that case what is the difference between her and mallika?

i know maritan it is difficult to swallow all this and i also find it odd that she cant see armaan's tears and repentance in his eyes.

ya u r right that badla is just etched in her mind but i think the saying goes

every cloud has silver lining, right

so all wud be ok but lets all not get too much affected by this now

bas yahi kahna tha

and i hope mods dont come running after us now😆

agree with you blue.....

though yes i think she still loved armaan after he got married to mallika...

infact in naintal she signed as his wife...but what beats me is just because your fiancee questioned you....how is that he became non-deserving of you?

what was the need to run away...?till today i havent got an answer to that question....

you now why i want armaan jassi to unite...

once upon a time jassi loved armaan unconditionally...

and today armaan loves jassi unconditionally...

and i believe in love...

i dont care who loses....thier love shouldnt or should i say this time armaan's love shouldnt!

GO BLUE!!! 👏 👏

JASSI SUCKS! 🤢 🤢 🤢

bluelotus..you said it so very well...Jassi is completely wrong in acting soo funny when her love of life Armaan asked just to tell..no nothing happened that night..he had begged her just to clear his little doubt..wherein he says..he wants it from her mouth as she always speaks truth..and now..she wants to beleive pervertlal..and not her.."love"..all ridiculous..but you know it is the stupid brains of tarun ghatyal who wants to ruin sony...!!! So..we have to take what we love and ignore the rest of the crap...!!! I am only hoping they show Jassi cry and cry and cry and beg for her Armaan...within few days..!! otherwise I will go mad... 😡