ZINDAGI MEIN RISRTEY HONA ZAROORI NAHIN.. - Page 2

Originally posted by: NKSUDHIR

Yes, I agree. It is true that Zindagi mein Rishtey hona zaroori nahi, magar rishey mein zindagi hona bahut zarooi hai'
Arman showed all his feelings in one dialogue. He did fabulous acting showing his feeling to his mother. I hope she understood him.

Really, in real life too, we carry along so many meaningless rishteys that sometimes, I wonder what do we get out of from these risheys without life. I have a big family, seriously, some people in my family has lost their 'Wazood' upto that extent where, it doesn't matter to me if they are happy or sad or crying or whatever.

On the other hand, I have some best friends who are everything for me. We share our good and bad times together. If God gives us chance to live with people we love, life is full of joy. But, I think, we are humans and we get to see all kinds of people in our lives.

Neelam

some very accurate observations👏

blood relations do not need be always the meaningful in the world. for any realtionship to be meaningful there should be honesty in it. hypocrisy in relationships can only give pain. but many people live them because in india the popular preoccupation is "log kya kahenge"

Mauritian wrote:

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blood relations do not need be always the meaningful in the world. for any realtionship to be meaningful there should be honesty in it. hypocrisy in relationships can only give pain. but many people live them because in india the popular preoccupation is "log kya kahenge"

Well said Mauririan. Family oriented people do live some relationships just for other people sake 'Dunia dari nibhaney key liye'.

But on the other hand, some blood relations or cousins or in-laws family members are so nice that you wonder if they are 'Bhagwan ka roop' or something. If you really trust in God, he always balance out things in your life. HE help you to deal with Mixture of good and evil people.

thanks nksudhir... u can just address me as jassie....thx for e info....i will say it is a form of a mixed blessing to a certain extent... 😉

Thanks alot for posting this topic. I agree it was very heart breaking comment but it is so true. So many times people try to do right for love but it does not turn out that way. In real life sometimes people make you fall in love with them but leave you without any further notice while you sit around and think what went wrong. On the other hand some people like to fight for their love while others have no regards for their lovers feelings. In A & J's case their love for each other was not enough to bring them together because of their miscommunication. I think when you in love, you should talk over anything you think is hurting the other persons feeling, ignoring is a very harsh punishment in love. I wonder how many hearts have broken because one lover ignored the others effort.

Originally posted by: Sharila

Thanks alot for posting this topic. I agree it was very heart breaking comment but it is so true. So many times people try to do right for love but it does not turn out that way. In real life sometimes people make you fall in love with them but leave you without any further notice while you sit around and think what went wrong. On the other hand some people like to fight for their love while others have no regards for their lovers feelings. In A & J's case their love for each other was not enough to bring them together because of their miscommunication. I think when you in love, you should talk over anything you think is hurting the other persons feeling, ignoring is a very harsh punishment in love. I wonder how many hearts have broken because one lover ignored the others effort.

Thats true Sharila. Sometimes i feel that Purab and Jassi had more of understanding between them.. They talked to each other very clearly and if there is a miscommunication , they would fight on it and make it clear . But when it is J & A , god know why but they don't seem to be very open to each other . Specially where communication is concerned. 😕

Very well said SHARILA 👏 .

Love is a bond shared between two people that cares for one other very deeply from the heart, ❤️ and that bond stays strong in good and bad times and you can even go to hell and back and your love even grows stronger and still be there for eachother.The two people that fall apart they are not willing to let their love grow ,so they sacrifice there love for one another by not taking that chance. 💔.Sad but so true!!

Thanks ranveer and pl-person. I don't understand that how can someone be so cruel not to understand other persons feelings. That what the other person must be going through in their life when once left. But like not anyone cares at that point.

If we can put ourselves into the other person's shoes many problems of life will be solved.But it rarely happens.I wonder how can there be zindagi in rishte without first having a rishta.

i guess itz a whole issue pf egoism and selfishness....what do u guyz think?

Originally posted by: jassie_17

i guess itz a whole issue pf egoism and selfishness....what do u guyz think?

BINGO! very well said. I agree with you so much.