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Posted: 9 years ago
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Just because a girl is married -

1. She doesn't have a right to live on her own.
2. She had to adjust always no matter what the situation is
3. She had to compromise with all her happiness at every stage of life from husband to children she must give her all
4. She has to respect all the opinions it doesn't matter she likes or not
5. She has to worship her husband every time every condition
6. She can't counter attack to any injustice
7. She must please all in laws of her
8. She should wear all signs of marriage otherwise its a sin
9. She must do all the pooja, vrat, karva chauth does not matter her husband feel the same for her or not
10. She can't think about herself for even 0.01 seconds
11. She has to bear anything thrown to her
12. She can't take divorce because she has done all the rituals of marriage it doesn't matter whether she is happy or not
P.s: All thanks to the tv shows which have depicted this belief in audience from long years.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yes!

The depiction of marriage on the small screen has given the MOST false image of what marriage is actually like.

It's just a way to show a submissive FL who has to fall in love with her husband, must go out of her way to fix issues in the family.

Fortunately Vividha does none of these!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: *Reemz*

Yes!

The depiction of marriage on the small screen has given the MOST false image of what marriage is actually like.

It's just a way to show a submissive FL who has to fall in love with her husband, must go out of her way to fix issues in the family.

Fortunately Vividha does none of these!



Well agreed with ur points and the results we can all see the sole reason of being called cheap, lusty etc what not. My point is when i being a man can understand this WHY CAN'T THE WOMEN DO?? That's why i am disappointed with these names.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: *Reemz*

Yes!

The depiction of marriage on the small screen has given the MOST false image of what marriage is actually like.

It's just a way to show a submissive FL who has to fall in love with her husband, must go out of her way to fix issues in the family.

Fortunately Vividha does none of these!



That's where the problem occurs. Well agreed with ur points and the results we can all see the sole reason of being called cheap, lusty etc what not. My point is when i being a man can understand this WHY CAN'T THE WOMEN DO?? That's why i am disappointed with these names.

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