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I apologize in advance because this post is not about the plot of Jamai Raja. However, I felt that this was necessary for the forum environment in general.
What is the difference between an argument and a discussion? An argument is a friendly exchange of ideas, while an argument can get ugly. One of the main reasons I joined the forum was so then I could have discussions with many people across the world about one thing we all have in common: Jamai Raja. Never did I realize that there would also be people here that would turn discussions into arguments. However, today, I am not here to tell people to be friendly. That is up to each person's conscience as to whether they want to be friendly or not. I am here to tell you all that each person has a circumstance in their lives that is affected by what the people around them say.
I really do not know how I am going to go about saying this, but I want to say something about it. I am in an abusive relationship. Jamai Raja and the other shows I watch are the way I leave my terrible world and go into another world. I am not allowed to talk to the people I choose and I am forced to live a certain way. Even though I have made changes to my life, I am still unable to stop watching Jamai Raja because it is my escape. I joined this forum to gain a set of friends who I thought would help me leave my depression and help me in ways that you all may not know. However, I have to keep this life of mine secret. The bottom line is, I would like you all to realize the impact your words have on the people around you. I would like to request that you all think before you say something, even if it is on an online forum. Even if you will not meet these people, if you do tell them something negative, it will have an impact on their lives, because however much you try, you will not be able to understand their circumstances unless you know them personally.
I am a little hurt by the actions of some people on this forum, and I am saying this because I would like to be honest. Please do not judge or belittle people who come to this forum for a bit of relief from their lives. I am going to take a bit of a break from coming on to the forum, but I shared my example so then other people would not be harmed.
With lots of love,
Roshni
Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi 2
Mannat Har Khushi Paane Ki
