Analysis

At this point the conclusion I've come to is that neither of them is wrong in their place. (Well besides the faking death part. That was plain cruel.)

Their stances though aren't wrong. They're both right in their place. The conflicts risen from their differing perspectives.

The only thing Sid knows is how to love Roshni. She's everything for him. He sees no one else besides her. While its poetic from love's stance in reality its a different story. He's ignoring how his state, his obsession and love for Roshni has hurt his family. How his parents are hurting seeing him walking around like a lifeless body, pretending to be happy when he's actually heart broken and stuck in the same place where Roshni and him drifted apart.

For Roshni her perspective is right too. One one relationship begins outweighing all other relationships. When it becomes the reason for others pain sometimes its better to just leave it behind. Take it in the sense of two people hurting is bettering than 10 people hurting without fault.

I'm by no means saying their relationship is actually the source of problem. Whatever happened in the lives of their families was done by other people. It's on them. However, it was always related to them. (Thank TRPs for that) I can see how Roshni's linking it to herself. (She hates that she was partly the reason why the people she cared about have suffered so much. In other words she blames herself. Resents herself. As Ragini she wants to be strong, to be in conrol because as Roshni she was weak and helpless. She couldn't pull back from Sid. She couldn't save those around her.)

I know many are bashing Roshni and saying that she doesn't deserve Sid's love. I don't think its for anyone to decide what she deserves or doesn't deserve because love is love. It's not about deserving nor does it comes with the condition of being loved back with the same intensity. Sid will love her regardless. Even if he hates her he will love her. And its the same for Roshni. It doesn't matter if she's Roshni or Ragini. It doesn't matter if she stays away from Sid or decides to move on with someone else. The part of her that can love will always love Sid and only him.

Frankly and very honestly if I were in Roshni's place i probably would have done the same thing. I would have left Sid too. (I don't mean by faking my death btw. I meant clean break) After going through what she's been through I probably would have thought the same thing about my relationship. No matter how much I love someone I would rather I hurt than hurt everyone around me. I know Roshni is hurting Sid in the process but she thinks it would hurt them both less by living separately then living together and slowly watching everyone around them die or be destroyed. (She's wrong about that. Its hurting just the same. The life she's living isn't a life, its a punishment on both her and Sid.) I can imagine running out of strength to bear all of this because you can only take so much before you lose it. I think she's breaking apart. She's trying not to. She's tried pulling herself and her life together but nevertheless she's a mess inside. Damaged, destroyed, refurished all combined into one.

For people who say Sid went through just as much please note that not everyone has the same level of strength. It's not Roshni's fault that she doesn't have the strength. Some things just are. Everyone has a limit. Different capacities. She feels that she's reached hers.

Also for those who said how is she numb. No one can be completely numb and usually when people say they are numb they mean it towards positive emotions. You're unable to love, feel happiness. Your smile feels fake to you, it requires effort. I see that with Ragini. She tries to keep all of her emotions boxed but Sid is her weakness. She can't control herself around him, not completely, no matter how much she wants to. Ragini's weakness is Roshni and Roshni's very being is connected to Sid. So it doesn't matter who she is, he will effect her.

Personally I find Roshni's character more real and relatable than Sid's because of the fact that she's flawed and damaged. That's just me though. Others might find Sid more relatable. For me though Sid is extraordinary. He's practically the epitome of perfection. Normal people aren't like that.

Originally posted by: can_pak

At this point the conclusion I've come to is that neither of them is wrong in their place. (Well besides the faking death part. That was plain cruel.)

Their stances though aren't wrong. They're both right in their place. The conflicts risen from their differing perspectives.

The only thing Sid knows is how to love Roshni. She's everything for him. He sees no one else besides her. While its poetic from love's stance in reality its a different story. He's ignoring how his state, his obsession and love for Roshni has hurt his family. How his parents are hurting seeing him walking around like a lifeless body, pretending to be happy when he's actually heart broken and stuck in the same place where Roshni and him drifted apart.

For Roshni her perspective is right too. One one relationship begins outweighing all other relationships. When it becomes the reason for others pain sometimes its better to just leave it behind. Take it in the sense of two people hurting is bettering than 10 people hurting without fault.

I'm by no means saying their relationship is actually the source of problem. Whatever happened in the lives of their families was done by other people. It's on them. However, it was always related to them. (Thank TRPs for that) I can see how Roshni's linking it to herself. (She hates that she was partly the reason why the people she cared about have suffered so much. In other words she blames herself. Resents herself. As Ragini she wants to be strong, to be in conrol because as Roshni she was weak and helpless. She couldn't pull back from Sid. She couldn't save those around her.)

I know many are bashing Roshni and saying that she doesn't deserve Sid's love. I don't think its for anyone to decide what she deserves or doesn't deserve because love is love. It's not about deserving nor does it comes with the condition of being loved back with the same intensity. Sid will love her regardless. Even if he hates her he will love her. And its the same for Roshni. It doesn't matter if she's Roshni or Ragini. It doesn't matter if she stays away from Sid or decides to move on with someone else. The part of her that can love will always love Sid and only him.

Frankly and very honestly if I were in Roshni's place i probably would have done the same thing. I would have left Sid too. (I don't mean by faking my death btw. I meant clean break) After going through what she's been through I probably would have thought the same thing about my relationship. No matter how much I love someone I would rather I hurt than hurt everyone around me. I know Roshni is hurting Sid in the process but she thinks it would hurt them both less by living separately then living together and slowly watching everyone around them die or be destroyed. (She's wrong about that. Its hurting just the same. The life she's living isn't a life, its a punishment on both her and Sid.) I can imagine running out of strength to bear all of this because you can only take so much before you lose it. I think she's breaking apart. She's trying not to. She's tried pulling herself and her life together but nevertheless she's a mess inside. Damaged, destroyed, refurished all combined into one.

For people who say Sid went through just as much please note that not everyone has the same level of strength. It's not Roshni's fault that she doesn't have the strength. Some things just are. Everyone has a limit. Different capacities. She feels that she's reached hers.

Also for those who said how is she numb. No one can be completely numb and usually when people say they are numb they mean it towards positive emotions. You're unable to love, feel happiness. Your smile feels fake to you, it requires effort. I see that with Ragini. She tries to keep all of her emotions boxed but Sid is her weakness. She can't control herself around him, not completely, no matter how much she wants to. Ragini's weakness is Roshni and Roshni's very being is connected to Sid. So it doesn't matter who she is, he will effect her.

Personally I find Roshni's character more real and relatable than Sid's because of the fact that she's flawed and damaged. That's just me though. Others might find Sid more relatable. For me though Sid is extraordinary. He's practically the epitome of perfection. Normal people aren't like that.