Decoding Roshni's Reason cum POV

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Posted: 9 years ago
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What's up good people? 😊
(I'm back 😆)
Finished watching today's watching epi and finally we're presented with Roshni's POV, or what we say "reasons". 😆

So, Roshni blames Sid and her love for the destruction of her "loved ones"( or shud we say she thinks that their love is the sole reason that she lost almost everyone in her family, sounds superstitious, isnt it?😕) How come an educated girl like Roshni believes in this stuff called 'bad omen' and all?(Some people might think that, no offence though) But here's the thing it's not being superstitious or anything, the fact that Roshni lost both her parents has affected her hugely, she's emotionally broken into pieces, and when u r going thru an emotional turmoil, it's obvious a lot of people like Roshni, believes certain things to be the root cause of their mental or physical problems. It's purely a psychological matter. 😕 The thing that Roshni keeps telling always that "Roshni is dead" and addressing herself with new name(which is her new identity) means, for her that chapter of 'Sid Roshni fighting for their family thru all odds' is closed. She wants to forget that she was once Roshni, who went thru hell from losing her long-lost father, then her mother; that's a past for her. Now with these new identity of Ragini desai, as if, she has taken a rebirth and this is her second chapter of a whole new life, where she wants to be alone(w/o Sid) so that no love causes furthermore destruction. 😕

Moreover, she doesn't hate Sid. As she said she can never hate Sid cuz he was the one who taught her how to live life. She assumes their love can only bring more and more problems rather than happiness. The right word to use wud be 'tabahi' as she stated. Basically, she has always loved Sid but according to her, after losing her parents, she thinks their love is a curse to other people's live around them(she meant her loved ones). Here is more to this statement of hers, actually what she really meant was, their love cud be the reason that she might lose Sid someday, thus she stated their togetherness will only cause destruction of her loved ones( which includes Sid too). That's why probably she is ready to stay away from him, rather than being with him, as it's more "safe" for her and Sid(according to Roshni). (My theory)

I think, the justification of Roshni by the writers is 'OK'. It's kind of valid taking all the situations in account but however there are some loopholes as well. How come Roshni decided on her own that staying away from Sid wud cause both of them good? Like she also took decision on Sid's behalf w/o knowing what Sid might go thru after her fake death news? Or she actually knows what Sid is going thru, as in today's epi she clearly said, if Sid got to knw bout her being alive, he wud do everything possible to get to her, also she said Sid ney ussey deewano ki tarah pyaar kiya hai, means she knows Sid loves her too much to let her go just like that(irrespective of the hurtful words Roshni said to him). Jab itna jaanti ho Sid ko, then yeh to pata hoga that what he is going thru right now? 😡😡 I'm sorry but Roshni is being SELFISH here. She's thinking bout how much she has been hurt, whereas Sid equally suffered too(still suffering). If Roshni has lost both her parents, then Sid has lost his beloved Sasumom and Roshn(who he thinks is dead). And if Roshni thinks staying away from him is better for them, she's actually punishing Sid unknowingly or knowingly(if unknowingly, then she hasn't realized the depth of Sid's love for her) I don't think her emotional turmoil is a STRONG REASON enough to justify this. 😡

P.S Roshni being a successful CEO of a renowned fashion company, how come she doesn't knw bout the numerous articles(also being chanted repeatedly by side characters) being posted of 'Sid The Casanova/playboy in town' and his recent IV on marrying another girl?😆 No logic here! 😆

P.P.S This ain't a bashing of Roshni or defending Sid, just wanted to pointed out Roshni's POV and from a viewers POV. That's it.

P.P.P.S And guys pls do share ur views too. Thanks. 😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I absolutely love the way you write and your explanation is rational.

Forever we've seen MAHAN Jamai sacrificing for others happiness. But now finally the day has come when we saw MAHAN Beti, selfless queen, sacrificing everything for greater good (Saving other lives by staying away from Sid) 😲 😆 Instead of running away, she needed to confront Sid and a mutual decision could have been way better than this crap. Again her justification was blah 🥱

Anyway, what was the point of her becoming sacrificing queen when herself came to the city where Sid resides 😡 She should have stayed where she was living instead of coming back to his life. Once Sid sees her, he won't stop unless he gets her back in his life and she is well aware of that 😲 I don't understand her motive of staying away 😆 and now returning back to his life 🤔

I don't want SidNi together. They have suffered enough it's time they finally move on 😆

Edited by paru10 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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One of the most sensible post I had read in recent times👏👏 Well said👍🏼
Edited by imaginative - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I think it can be seen that even during Raghu track, Sid had lied to Roshni as well. He was there in front of her. Saw her grieving yet he kept lying and hiding from her. Yes he was protecting her and helping her get her confidence back. I feel to some extent it is the same. Yes the time difference is different but it is protection of those they love. Sid wanted to protect Roshni and DD. Roshni too wants to protect Sid. She feels that being together has only brought troubles and losses. RV, Misha, Shabnam, and then Yash. All came in and their relationship created problems. She knows how much Sid loves her, she even had said that Sid has for sure kept Roshni alive in his heart. She knows it but fears that is she came to him then he would want to be with her and she too wouldn't be able to resist. And if they get back together then those similar problems may arise again. And if she loses Sid (meaning if anything bad were to happen to him, she would never forgive herself). So she is protecting him. So being away with another identity and never coming f2f with Sid she can assure both families would be in peace. Sid did what he thought was best for Roshni and Roshni is doing what is best for Sid. I do not think Roshni is being selfish here.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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very nice post and u equally pointed out the pros and cons of Roshni's decision👏👏
I am seeing it like she is in trauma and physcologically unstable to realize her mistake. Soon she'll realize her mistakes seeing Sid with Aanya & understand how hurt he was bcz of her and mend things to come back to Sid😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ChurriCreationz

I think it can be seen that even during Raghu track, Sid had lied to Roshni as well. He was there in front of her. Saw her grieving yet he kept lying and hiding from her. Yes he was protecting her and helping her get her confidence back. I feel to some extent it is the same. Yes the time difference is different but it is protection of those they love. Sid wanted to protect Roshni and DD. Roshni too wants to protect Sid. She feels that being together has only brought troubles and losses. RV, Misha, Shabnam, and then Yash. All came in and their relationship created problems. She knows how much Sid loves her, she even had said that Sid has for sure kept Roshni alive in his heart. She knows it but fears that is she came to him then he would want to be with her and she too wouldn't be able to resist. And if they get back together then those similar problems may arise again. And if she loses Sid (meaning if anything bad were to happen to him, she would never forgive herself). So she is protecting him. So being away with another identity and never coming f2f with Sid she can assure both families would be in peace. Sid did what he thought was best for Roshni and Roshni is doing what is best for Sid. I do not think Roshni is being selfish here.


@bold U can't even compare Ragu track and this.. He was not staying away for 6 months and watching the tamasha of her suffering. He was in coma and even when he gained consiousness the 1st thing he did was to run back to Roshni. Whatever he did after that was to pull her out of misery.

But in these 2 yrs Roshni never turn back to see how Sid is doing. Whether he is dead or alive. She just imagined things and lived her life. I would have accepted the argument if Roshni kept a tag of how Sid is doing atleast from far or did something to make his misery less
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: imaginative


@bold U can't even compare Ragu track and this.. He was not staying away for 6 months and watching the tamasha of her suffering. He was in coma and even when he gained consiousness the 1st thing he did was to run back to Roshni. Whatever he did after that was to pull her out of misery.

But in these 2 yrs Roshni never turn back to see how Sid is doing. Whether he is dead or alive. She just imagined things and lived her life. I would have accepted the argument if Roshni kept a tag of how Sid is doing atleast from far or did something to make his misery less


Yeah you can't compare the two but they both happened in two different circumstances. So in that circumstance Sid was right but when he saw her suffering he continued to lie even though she was in pain. If he wanted to get her out of misery he could have told her truth immediately but he didn't. Roshni will do the same thing...when she comes f2f with him she will lie straight out and continue to do so in order to protect him and others. I don't think either are wrong but they did similar things in different circumstances. Raghu track Roshni thought Sid might have really been dead and she continued to grieve him. And now Sid is doing it too...The only difference is time...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I feel the exact same way. She took away Sid's choice from him. Seperating is one thing but making someone thing your dead is another thing entirely.
Lol TV shoes aren't that logical. If the character begin thinking logically how will the plot work. 😆

In reality I'd never go back to that city. I'd probably be aware of my ex-husband being the happening casanova as well because well I read newspapers and other magazines to keep track of competition.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Bang On post paani😆👏
Yes roshni took the decision on her own about their love and this is what Sid will tell and he will show the mirror and gradually she will realise she herself gradually killed their love a d Sid suffered cos of her decision😉
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ChurriCreationz

I think it can be seen that even during Raghu track, Sid had lied to Roshni as well. He was there in front of her. Saw her grieving yet he kept lying and hiding from her. Yes he was protecting her and helping her get her confidence back. I feel to some extent it is the same. Yes the time difference is different but it is protection of those they love. Sid wanted to protect Roshni and DD. Roshni too wants to protect Sid. She feels that being together has only brought troubles and losses. RV, Misha, Shabnam, and then Yash. All came in and their relationship created problems. She knows how much Sid loves her, she even had said that Sid has for sure kept Roshni alive in his heart. She knows it but fears that is she came to him then he would want to be with her and she too wouldn't be able to resist. And if they get back together then those similar problems may arise again. And if she loses Sid (meaning if anything bad were to happen to him, she would never forgive herself). So she is protecting him. So being away with another identity and never coming f2f with Sid she can assure both families would be in peace. Sid did what he thought was best for Roshni and Roshni is doing what is best for Sid. I do not think Roshni is being selfish here.

My point is Roshni thinks or rather is assuming that she is protecting him by staying away, and in case of Sid's lie(raghu track), bout being Raghu not Sid, he was certain of what he was doing: saving his family from the clutches of Shabnam. He knew the effects of his actions and he wasnt in vacation for 6 months. He came back with a motto to save Roshni and her family. Moreover he protected Roshni by being with her as 'Raghu'. He kept his secret of being Sid, so that it somehow doesn't ruin his "plans", later when the time came he did tell Roshni who he really was. The main difference of Roshni and Sid protecting each other is, Roshni thinks running away from the problem is the ans, where Sid believes in fighting the problem together. About Roshni being selfish(from a general POV) she isn't certain bout the probabilities that might occur, she is assuming that keeping herself away from Sid wud protect both of them, also she knows how much Sid loves her, she is punishing him directly or indirectly. As I said she might not have realized the depth of Sid's love for her, hence what he might be going thru. She is just assuming things as of now. Nevertheless, both have suffered equally, it's just the matter of handling things by both of them are way different.

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