Double standards, much??

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Just imagine.. Instead of Sid, Roshni was dead trying to save him. There is also an MMS issue against her. Simran was trapped in jail for Roshni's murder and Sid is trying to get her out, going to meet her daily, giving her food etc.

Hoh... Now let me predict the scenario in the forum and other social media sites. The reaction goes like this..Mahaan Sid, his priority is only his mom, he is running behind solving his mom's case, his priority is never Roshni , he didn't do anything for 6 bloody month (can you believe it) ,Roshni's priority is always Sid but his priority is never Roshni..blah blah blah

Where are the priority theorist now?? The most loose argument I have heard from them is Sid is always Roshni priority. Really?? Sid was her priority when she forced him to marry Misha, Sid was her priority when she left Shabnam scott free because she was her papa's khoon, Sid was her priority when she ran to police station to prove her mother innocent minutes after her husbands death, Sid was her priority when for 6 months she couldn't do anything to clear his name in MMS issue. Wah!!! What a logic..Priority theory would be applied only for Sid. Even after giving his life for her, if still somewhere he slightly misplace his priority, the priority theorist spring into action. Now they are in silent mode..

Not only priority, even mahanata has the same argument. If Sid does something mahaan it is like Sid's mahanata. They'll start Sid bashing even when an OLV or spoiler is released, the situation will be entirely different when actual episode airs. (How much Sid bashing happened in spoiler which said Sid brought Shabnam to DD's house but it was DD who brought her). On the contrary if Roshni does some mahanata it is SIDNI mahanata. They'll somehow club it with Sid, even when in Shabnam case it was Roshni's mahanata for her papa's khoon. Sid merely agreed (Maybe because he is a puppet husband). Then there are 1000 justifications like CVs made Roshni mahaan to justify Sid mahanata, Sid rubbed his mahanata to Roshni.. Lol etc, etc. None of this defence is applicable to Sid. I watch a hell lot of shows like KKB, YHM, TEI, ETR, TSM, SR to name a few and almost all FL are foolish or Mahaan. But the difference is that all their Mahanata was for their husband or his family's happiness or safety which they think is right which may be obviously wrong but Roshni is the only wife who does mahanata for a 3rd person (eg. Misha or Shabnam) which have nothing to do with her husband or his family. Still she gets away more easily than others

Roshni was not much affected by Sid's death except for the fact that she sheds tears occasionally because she lost a security guard or problem solver who can clear mess in her family, which she is unable to handle. If everything was OK in her family, she may have easily moved on. This gives a feeling that she just want guys to help her and her family. Whether it is Yash or Sid (May be tomorrow she'll bring home a Sid look alike too to save her mother). Yash was good friend when he was helping her during Bangkok track and after but when Sid came back to her life to solve problems, Yash is out. She loved Sid with all heart when he was doing everything for her and her family, but she don't give a damn when he died. The new argument is she has hope that Sid will come back from dead because body was not found. Hence she is cool about it. But what about the first 2 days when she was wearing white and white believing he is dead, still with the same reaction is no body's question. Yes she misses him & hopes he come back so that she can magically get rid of her family problem. Still SidNi cum Roshni fans are like Aww poor Roshni baby, she is so heartbroken and not in a state of mind to think, so she didn't cry for Sid, she is very strong so she easily moved on to take care of her family, how can she just sit and cry for Sid, shouldn't Khurana's take care of her even if she never cares or enquires whether her sasuraal people are dead or alive, poor Roshni. If this sort of behaviour was shown by Sid (even if mentioned in a wrong spoiler), the same set of fans would have started a morcha against him. But when it comes to Roshni, they would somehow find 101 reasons and justifications (even though many don't make any sense) to protect her and justify her actions

These are the observations of a fairly silent member of the forum who doesn't like Roshni (don't take effort to call me a Roshni hater, I'm doing the honour myself) about the UNBIASED nature of views in the forum. All Roshni fans / lovers are free to counter the arguments pertaining to the post.

P.S I know I'll get 2 types of replies to this post. Either personal attacks (which is against IF rules and can be reported) or will drag Sid bashing when you have nothing to comment on the post. No need to waste time on both, which will only show you have nothing to defend Roshni. I'm open to read ONLY substantial points against the points raised in my post, why anyone thinks what I said in my post is wrong. Other wise just read and ignore, my intention is just to put across my views, I don't bother if no one replies

P.P.S No need to thank me for increasing forum activity, the pleasure is all mine.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I don't know about double standards but i certainly get your point... There are some issues with Roshni's characters but that is entirely writers fault.. They haven't really dealt with Roshni's actions correctly or haven't given any justification... But i feel that this show is different from others as this is from Siddharth's point of view and not from FL's point of view that's why there are no justification's like in other show's it is from FL's point of view so there are no justifications for ML's... There will always be error for Roshni's actions... There might be somethings that are not justifiable for Siddharth's action also but then that is writers fault for consistency in character and logic...

PS: I love both Roshni's and Siddharth's characters equally... And in love with SidNi...
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Just imagine.. Instead of Sid, Roshni was dead trying to save him. There is also an MMS issue against her. Simran was trapped in jail for Roshni's murder and Sid is trying to get her out, going to meet her daily, giving her food etc.------ ok I am imagining it right now in my mind still looks the same only thing its Sid and not Roshni who had to bare Shabnam nonsense for the past six months

Hoh... Now let me predict the scenario in the forum and other social media sites. The reaction goes like this..Mahaan Sid, his priority is only his mom, he is running behind solving his mom's case, his priority is never Roshni , he didn't do anything for 6 bloody month (can you believe it) ,Roshni's priority is always Sid but his priority is never Roshni..blah blah blah... yep also I think that is what some would say like how some are saying now how Roshni is doing nothing but cry so same to same reaction to both scenario

Where are the priority theorist now?? The most loose argument I have heard from them is Sid is always Roshni priority. Really?? Sid was her priority when she forced him to marry Misha, Sid was her priority when she left Shabnam scott free because she was her papa's khoon, Sid was her priority when she ran to police station to prove her mother innocent minutes after her husbands death, Sid was her priority when for 6 months she couldn't do anything to clear his name in MMS issue. Wah!!! What a logic..Priority theory would be applied only for Sid. Even after giving his life for her, if still somewhere he slightly misplace his priority, the priority theorist spring into action. Now they are in silent mode..------how can Sid be her priority when a mental girl is running round the place threatening to jump off a building if she don't find a husband, also Roshni sacrificed her love so that Sid can marry his best friend who was fake rape and he was blaming himself ...About the MMS how can she clear his name when her own mother went on national tv telling her she disowned her and Roshni searched for the evidence but couldn't find it as when Sid died her world was torn apart as her family was broken , her mom was in jail and the only person who could have helped is now dead...Finally Roshni didn't run to prove her mother innocent she ran to tell the police they had the wrong person who killed her husband and the killer is still roaming around

Not only priority, even mahanata has the same argument. If Sid does something mahaan it is like Sid's mahanata. They'll start Sid bashing even when an OLV or spoiler is released, the situation will be entirely different when actual episode airs. (How much Sid bashing happened in spoiler which said Sid brought Shabnam to DD's house but it was DD who brought her). On the contrary if Roshni does some mahanata it is SIDNI mahanata. They'll somehow club it with Sid, even when in Shabnam case it was Roshni's mahanata for her papa's khoon. Sid merely agreed (Maybe because he is a puppet husband). Then there are 1000 justifications like CVs made Roshni mahaan to justify Sid mahanata, Sid rubbed his mahanata to Roshni.. Lol etc, etc. None of this defence is applicable to Sid. I watch a hell lot of shows like KKB, YHM, TEI, ETR, TSM, SR to name a few and almost all FL are foolish or Mahaan. But the difference is that all their Mahanata was for their husband or his family's happiness or safety which they think is right which may be obviously wrong but Roshni is the only wife who does mahanata for a 3rd person (eg. Misha or Shabnam) which have nothing to do with her husband or his family. Still she gets away more easily than others...Roshni accepted it was her fault that Shabnam killed Sid she did not deny that it wasn't her fault that Is just how both Sid and Roshni are they love to help people who don't deserve it and that's the one thing everyone dislike about them

Roshni was not much affected by Sid's death except for the fact that she sheds tears occasionally because she lost a security guard or problem solver who can clear mess in her family, which she is unable to handle. If everything was OK in her family, she may have easily moved on. This gives a feeling that she just want guys to help her and her family. Whether it is Yash or Sid (May be tomorrow she'll bring home a Sid look alike too to save her mother). Yash was good friend when he was helping her during Bangkok track and after but when Sid came back to her life to solve problems, Yash is out. She loved Sid with all heart when he was doing everything for her and her family, but she don't give a damn when he died. The new argument is she has hope that Sid will come back from dead because body was not found. Hence she is cool about it. But what about the first 2 days when she was wearing white and white believing he is dead, still with the same reaction is no body's question. Yes she misses him & hopes he come back so that she can magically get rid of her family problem. Still SidNi cum Roshni fans are like Aww poor Roshni baby, she is so heartbroken and not in a state of mind to think, so she didn't cry for Sid, she is very strong so she easily moved on to take care of her family, how can she just sit and cry for Sid, shouldn't Khurana's take care of her even if she never cares or enquires whether her sasuraal people are dead or alive, poor Roshni. If this sort of behaviour was shown by Sid (even if mentioned in a wrong spoiler), the same set of fans would have started a morcha against him. But when it comes to Roshni, they would somehow find 101 reasons and justifications (even though many don't make any sense) to protect her and justify her actions...So because she didn't throw herself down and cry like her life was leaving her makes her not mourn her death properly ok wow...nice point it seems grieving differently from others is wrong can you tell me if Sid was in this position would he have operated any differently would he have cried like a baby while he know his family was in need of his help

These are the observations of a fairly silent member of the forum who doesn't like Roshni (don't take effort to call me a Roshni hater, I'm doing the honour myself) about the UNBIASED nature of views in the forum. All Roshni fans / lovers are free to counter the arguments pertaining to the post...Well I like both Sid and Roshni and I see both their faults not everyone is perfect and its clearly shown both them are lacking some qualities

P.S I know I'll get 2 types of replies to this post. Either personal attacks (which is against IF rules and can be reported) or will drag Sid bashing when you have nothing to comment on the post. No need to waste time on both, which will only show you have nothing to defend Roshni. I'm open to read ONLY substantial points against the points raised in my post, why anyone thinks what I said in my post is wrong. Other wise just read and ignore, my intention is just to put across my views, I don't bother if no one replies

P.P.S No need to thank me for increasing forum activity, the pleasure is all mine...you are most welcome to come and make a post that will either cause a war in the forum or just go out without any comments

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: stephie34

Just imagine.. Instead of Sid, Roshni was dead trying to save him. There is also an MMS issue against her. Simran was trapped in jail for Roshni's murder and Sid is trying to get her out, going to meet her daily, giving her food etc.------ ok I am imagining it right now in my mind still looks the same only thing its Sid and not Roshni who had to bare Shabnam nonsense for the past six months


I was asking u to imagine the entire Shabnam scenario as Sid's like Shabnam is torturing Sid family instead of Patel. Why are you imagining things in tunnel vision😆 What I was saying is if Simran was in jail and Sid went to see daily, you people would have made a mountain out of molehill. Whether Shabnam was torturing Sid or Roshni. Now the same people are silent. They can see Roshni's love for DD, but not Sid's love for his mother🥱
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Originally posted by: stephie34

Hoh... Now let me predict the scenario in the forum and other social media sites. The reaction goes like this..Mahaan Sid, his priority is only his mom, he is running behind solving his mom's case, his priority is never Roshni , he didn't do anything for 6 bloody month (can you believe it) ,Roshni's priority is always Sid but his priority is never Roshni..blah blah blah... yep also I think that is what some would say like how some are saying now how Roshni is doing nothing but cry so same to same reaction to both scenario


How was this answer related to the points I raised😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: stephie34


Where are the priority theorist now?? The most loose argument I have heard from them is Sid is always Roshni priority. Really?? Sid was her priority when she forced him to marry Misha, Sid was her priority when she left Shabnam scott free because she was her papa's khoon, Sid was her priority when she ran to police station to prove her mother innocent minutes after her husbands death, Sid was her priority when for 6 months she couldn't do anything to clear his name in MMS issue. Wah!!! What a logic..Priority theory would be applied only for Sid. Even after giving his life for her, if still somewhere he slightly misplace his priority, the priority theorist spring into action. Now they are in silent mode..------how can Sid be her priority when a mental girl is running round the place threatening to jump off a building if she don't find a husband, also Roshni sacrificed her love so that Sid can marry his best friend who was fake rape and he was blaming himself ...About the MMS how can she clear his name when her own mother went on national tv telling her she disowned her and Roshni searched for the evidence but couldn't find it as when Sid died her world was torn apart as her family was broken , her mom was in jail and the only person who could have helped is now dead...Finally Roshni didn't run to prove her mother innocent she ran to tell the police they had the wrong person who killed her husband and the killer is still roaming around



Of course u can give 1000 justification for Sid not being her priority. The biggest achievement is that YOU AGREED there are times when he was not her priority. This is not understood by some people who claim Sid is ALWAYS Roshni's priority. Always is the key word here. There are people in this same forum who has claimed it several times, they may know what I'm saying😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: stephie34


Not only priority, even mahanata has the same argument. If Sid does something mahaan it is like Sid's mahanata. They'll start Sid bashing even when an OLV or spoiler is released, the situation will be entirely different when actual episode airs. (How much Sid bashing happened in spoiler which said Sid brought Shabnam to DD's house but it was DD who brought her). On the contrary if Roshni does some mahanata it is SIDNI mahanata. They'll somehow club it with Sid, even when in Shabnam case it was Roshni's mahanata for her papa's khoon. Sid merely agreed (Maybe because he is a puppet husband). Then there are 1000 justifications like CVs made Roshni mahaan to justify Sid mahanata, Sid rubbed his mahanata to Roshni.. Lol etc, etc. None of this defence is applicable to Sid. I watch a hell lot of shows like KKB, YHM, TEI, ETR, TSM, SR to name a few and almost all FL are foolish or Mahaan. But the difference is that all their Mahanata was for their husband or his family's happiness or safety which they think is right which may be obviously wrong but Roshni is the only wife who does mahanata for a 3rd person (eg. Misha or Shabnam) which have nothing to do with her husband or his family. Still she gets away more easily than others...Roshni accepted it was her fault that Shabnam killed Sid she did not deny that it wasn't her fault that Is just how both Sid and Roshni are they love to help people who don't deserve it and that's the one thing everyone dislike about them



Didn't get the answer😕 I was not talking about Roshni accepting Shabnam killed Sid😕 I was talkng about fans not accepting Roshni was mahaan, in isolation, instead they will club it with Sid is also mahaan theory. The same won't be applied if Sid single handedly did some mahanata. Wasn't leaving Shabnam scott free Roshni's decision??
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: stephie34


Roshni was not much affected by Sid's death except for the fact that she sheds tears occasionally because she lost a security guard or problem solver who can clear mess in her family, which she is unable to handle. If everything was OK in her family, she may have easily moved on. This gives a feeling that she just want guys to help her and her family. Whether it is Yash or Sid (May be tomorrow she'll bring home a Sid look alike too to save her mother). Yash was good friend when he was helping her during Bangkok track and after but when Sid came back to her life to solve problems, Yash is out. She loved Sid with all heart when he was doing everything for her and her family, but she don't give a damn when he died. The new argument is she has hope that Sid will come back from dead because body was not found. Hence she is cool about it. But what about the first 2 days when she was wearing white and white believing he is dead, still with the same reaction is no body's question. Yes she misses him & hopes he come back so that she can magically get rid of her family problem. Still SidNi cum Roshni fans are like Aww poor Roshni baby, she is so heartbroken and not in a state of mind to think, so she didn't cry for Sid, she is very strong so she easily moved on to take care of her family, how can she just sit and cry for Sid, shouldn't Khurana's take care of her even if she never cares or enquires whether her sasuraal people are dead or alive, poor Roshni. If this sort of behaviour was shown by Sid (even if mentioned in a wrong spoiler), the same set of fans would have started a morcha against him. But when it comes to Roshni, they would somehow find 101 reasons and justifications (even though many don't make any sense) to protect her and justify her actions...So because she didn't throw herself down and cry like her life was leaving her makes her not mourn her death properly ok wow...nice point it seems grieving differently from others is wrong can you tell me if Sid was in this position would he have operated any differently would he have cried like a baby while he know his family was in need of his help



Yes she was grieving differently, I failed to understand😆 She will cry like her life was leaving if Sid was her life, if it is not the case, why would she cry like that😆 She can grieve differently by running to police station and push and pull the police men saying I want to see my mom😆 Why didn't she grieve differently when Shiv died, even then she know someone killed Shiv. Why didn't she run to the police station to say that the cuplrit is roaming free??

About Sid's reaction if Roshni died, I think he would have behaved differently and cried like a baby. Even without crying like a baby and staying strong what did Roshni achieve in 6 months?? Therefore crying for someone's lose has nothing to do with helping the family.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: stephie34


These are the observations of a fairly silent member of the forum who doesn't like Roshni (don't take effort to call me a Roshni hater, I'm doing the honour myself) about the UNBIASED nature of views in the forum. All Roshni fans / lovers are free to counter the arguments pertaining to the post...Well I like both Sid and Roshni and I see both their faults not everyone is perfect and its clearly shown both them are lacking some qualities


Who said everyone is perfect. Both Sid and Roshni are not perfect. The problem is when fans jump to bash a character and try all the way to cover up any wrong doing of other and still say we love both the characters.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: stephie34

P.P.S No need to thank me for increasing forum activity, the pleasure is all mine...you are most welcome to come and make a post that will either cause a war in the forum or just go out without any comments


Thank you for welcoming😆 Why would the post cause a war, you peacefully put across your points, I did the same with my points. I'm fully open to every valid arguments. If someone couldn't counter the points with valid points and make it a war zone putting illogical arguments, I can't do anything about it. The post going without comment is not at all a problem for me😆

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