I can never begin to understand what the show is trying to portray when it come to the story line relating to Sid big idea of adopting the child. This show now promotes child abuse and Domestic violence I can list a few reasons
1. Sid made the proposal at the time when Roshni is morning the loss of their child.
2. Sid did not only proposed an alternative to assist her to get over her grief he try will all his might to impose his belief of the solution on her, it was not a mutual understanding.
From looking at this entire line it shows nothing more but emotional abuse under the pretext of I know what is right for you and you have to accept what I choose and that's that.
On the other part, the people, the adults are so mean to one little child and when Sid who seems to care for this child so much believe he had to put up an act to show Roshini the child need her it was an entire act to show how all abused her verbally how can that ever be helpful especially when you are supposed to be the caring and responsible person.
I believe that the writers has gone in all the length to degrade the DD character, when she is a woman that not only raised own family but take up the responsibility of raising her husband's family as well , she did her duties well as an individual so there is no way she will treat a child that way.
This is not the first time this show has turn and twist event to show that Sid is right and he is a macho man, no problem if you want to do that but come up with storylines that will prove that in the end not one where he is oblivious of the feelings of his own wife which seems to be continuous.
Also why is it necessary to always make the women so weak at some time and because you love someone it means you have to accept all that they do and say , it don't always make them a bad person either its just that you have never correct them or be firm in what u like or don't like or let them see that their way of thinking is not all straight.
A marriage is a partnership a union between two people not a relationship where one is always right and the other is to follow.
Sid is not a bad husband nor as a person so why ?