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Posted: 10 years ago
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and i will re-post my comment from a couple of days ago where i believe that this show now promotes child abuse and domestic violence

I can never begin to understand what the show is trying to portray when it come to the story line relating to Sid big idea of adopting the child. This show now promotes child abuse and Domestic violence I can list a few reasons

1. Sid made the proposal at the time when Roshni is morning the loss of their child.

2. Sid did not only proposed an alternative to assist her to get over her grief he try will all his might to impose his belief of the solution on her, it was not a mutual understanding.

From looking at this entire line it shows nothing more but emotional abuse under the pretext of I know what is right for you and you have to accept what I choose and that's that.

On the other part, the people, the adults are so mean to one little child and when Sid who seems to care for this child so much believe he had to put up an act to show Roshini the child need her it was an entire act to show how all abused her verbally how can that ever be helpful especially when you are supposed to be the caring and responsible person.

I believe that the writers has gone in all the length to degrade the DD character, when she is a woman that not only raised own family but take up the responsibility of raising her husband's family as well , she did her duties well as an individual so there is no way she will treat a child that way.

This is not the first time this show has turn and twist event to show that Sid is right and he is a macho man, no problem if you want to do that but come up with storylines that will prove that in the end not one where he is oblivious of the feelings of his own wife which seems to be continuous.

Also why is it necessary to always make the women so weak at some time and because you love someone it means you have to accept all that they do and say , it don't always make them a bad person either its just that you have never correct them or be firm in what u like or don't like or let them see that their way of thinking is not all straight.

A marriage is a partnership a union between two people not a relationship where one is always right and the other is to follow.

Sid is not a bad husband nor as a person so why ?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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@Saralee3762: Sid has come up with adoption idea even before miscarriage..and after miscarriage Roshni asked sid to marry some other girl and was very low but seeing her happy with ayesha he thought Ayesha will help her from getting out of depression..so he suggested an idea of adoption...Roshni was against adoption not bcoz she doesnt like ayesha it was bcoz she was blaming herself for miscarriage not being a good mother...to make Roshni realize that she is a good mother Sid made a plan with kids...but Sid didnt impose adoption or gave any ultimatum to Roshni...
SidNi were desperate to become parents..it was both Sid and Roshni 's decision..Roshni is not weak..she was in depression phase thats it..

DD was butuchered completely ...😡her behaviour towards ayesha was not at all acceptable...
Edited by chandana....... - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: chandana...

@Saralee3762: Sid has come up with adoption idea even before miscarriage..and after miscarriage Roshni asked sid to marry some other girl and was very low but seeing her happy with ayesha he thought Ayesha will help her from getting out of depression..so he suggested an idea of adoption...Roshni was against adoption not bcoz she doesnt like ayesha it was bcoz she was blaming herself for miscarriage not being a good mother...to make Roshni realize that she is a good mother Sid made a plan with kids...but Sid didnt impose adoption or gave any ultimatum to Roshni...

SidNi were desperate to become parents..it was both Sid and Roshni 's decision..Roshni is not weak..she was in depression phase thats it..

DD was butuchered completely ...😡her behaviour towards ayesha was not at all acceptable...



Well said Chandana👏
How is Sid alone wrong in this whole adoption thing??😲 It was SidNi decision If adoption is a bad decision, it is a bad decision of both Sid and Roshni, not Sid alone😕 I don't understand how people just find any reasoning to blame Sid when there is visibly nothing wrong Seems like people watch the show to find out where sid goes wrong🥱..

@Saralee3762:
Were u hinting that by suggesting Adoption, Sid was attempting domestic violence or emotional abuse on Roshni😲😲 (Sorry that is what I gathered from point 1 and 2 of ur post)😕 That is a very serious allegation, hence had to make this long post..

I disagree with u on Sid imposing the desicion on Roshni or abusing her Did he threatened her saying if u don't adopt I'll kill u, divorce u or torture u As per my understanding that amount to abuse, not suggesting something and leaving the decision to Roshni. He made the proposal the next morning b'coz the previous night Ayesha was able to make roshni feel better.

And didn't u see how Roshni was behaving when DD sent ayesha away. if Roshni didn't want Ayesha in her life she wouldn't have sat there and cried miserably looking at the photo . I don't know about all the women in the world weak, but surely Roshni is an emotionally weak person, she have been portrayed like that from the beginning of the show and its b'coz of the circumstances she grew in. Every women is not a superwoman, a majority a emotionally weak like Roshni and its more realistic. Roshni needs some emotional support always and this time Ayesha was her support system. Sid knew how to bring her out of her depressed phase and that's what he did.. And today Roshni have come out of her grief may be b'coz of it.. Or else she would have always lived with the notion that she can never be a good mother, the plan Sid made was not to compel her for adoption but to change her notion that she is not a good mother. I agree the track was rushed but then we could even say Roshni agreed to the proposal too soon and now she don't even remember she had a miscarriage.. These are the flaws in writing, not something they do to glorify a character😕

I agree child abuse is shown, DD & NM are abusing, which is very bad🤢.. There is also an other side, very few people can love a kid from roadside like Sid and Roshni is doing. They are doing the maximum for an orphan kid which none of us may do😕.. And by butchering DD's character how is Sid's character glorified??😕 I didn't understand that connection. DD is a psycho character as of now, just b'coz she took the responsibilty of the family it doesn't mean she was not mean and couldn't treat a child like this.. DD had this pathetic behaviour to everyone except Roshni and nani.. She treats middle class people like dirt, so it is no wonder she treats ayesha like this

Anyway, that's just my way of seeing things.. When Sid is wrong I don't hesitate in saying he is wrong.. But when he is not, I won't blame him too. In this track I absolutely see no reason to blame him and he is one of the very right character as of now, even when I dislike this entire adoption track🥱.
But to each their own view.. we could find wrong in every person if we try hard to find it.. So, I understand ur POV..
Edited by zoopassion - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: paru10

Rose what have you done to urself! This is hilarious! This is their justification of social message SidNi saving a kid lol.. I don't see anyone saving her. All we see is poor girl being tortured.



@bold Looks like I have gone mad due to lack of SidNi romance🤣
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: pree8714

Rose what have you eaten tell me so much of humor omg you should actually start comedy nights with JR 🤣 yet again spot on 👏



Ha ha will have to start Comedy nights with JR soon 🤣
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Thank u😃😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: zoopassion


How is Sid alone wrong in this whole adoption thing??😲 It was SidNi decision If adoption is a bad decision, it is a bad decision of both Sid and Roshni, not Sid alone😕 I don't understand how people just find any reasoning to blame Sid when there is visibly nothing wrong Seems like people watch the show to find out where sid goes wrong🥱..

@Saralee3762:
Were u hinting that by suggesting Adoption, Sid was attempting domestic violence or emotional abuse on Roshni😲😲 (Sorry that is what I gathered from point 1 and 2 of ur post)😕 That is a very serious allegation, hence had to make this long post..

I disagree with u on Sid imposing the desicion on Roshni or abusing her Did he threatened her saying if u don't adopt I'll kill u, divorce u or torture u As per my understanding that amount to abuse, not suggesting something and leaving the decision to Roshni. He made the proposal the next morning b'coz the previous night Ayesha was able to make roshni feel better.

And didn't u see how Roshni was behaving when DD sent ayesha away. if Roshni didn't want Ayesha in her life she wouldn't have sat there and cried miserably looking at the photo . I don't know about all the women in the world weak, but surely Roshni is an emotionally weak person, she have been portrayed like that from the beginning of the show and its b'coz of the circumstances she grew in. Every women is not a superwoman, a majority a emotionally weak like Roshni and its more realistic. Roshni needs some emotional support always and this time Ayesha was her support system. Sid knew how to bring her out of her depressed phase and that's what he did.. And today Roshni have come out of her grief may be b'coz of it.. Or else she would have always lived with the notion that she can never be a good mother, the plan Sid made was not to compel her for adoption but to change her notion that she is not a good mother. I agree the track was rushed but then we could even say Roshni agreed to the proposal too soon and now she don't even remember she had a miscarriage.. These are the flaws in writing, not something they do to glorify a character😕

I agree child abuse is shown, DD & NM are abusing, which is very bad🤢.. There is also an other side, very few people can love a kid from roadside like Sid and Roshni is doing. They are doing the maximum for an orphan kid which none of us may do😕.. And by butchering DD's character how is Sid's character glorified??😕 I didn't understand that connection. DD is a psycho character as of now, just b'coz she took the responsibilty of the family it doesn't mean she was not mean and couldn't treat a child like this.. DD had this pathetic behaviour to everyone except Roshni and nani.. She treats middle class people like dirt, so it is no wonder she treats ayesha like this

Anyway, that's just my way of seeing things.. When Sid is wrong I don't hesitate in saying he is wrong.. But when he is not, I won't blame him too. In this track I absolutely see no reason to blame him and he is one of the very right character as of now, even when I dislike this entire adoption track🥱.
But to each their own view.. we could find wrong in every person if we try hard to find it.. So, I understand ur POV..



Well said 👏👏
Edited by daris - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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welcome 😃

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