I s It wrong if Bhola lives with in-laws

Guys I know its against societies norm...but why cant a boy go and live with his wife in his in laws place ....Do u think its wrong of Bhola ...He is just trying to keep his marriage happy...Esha is brought up in aisho arram and its tough to leave evrything and settle for nothing...I know she should have though of all this before...she didnt...she at that time didnt realize ....
We cant compare 2 person...Anya readily gave up everything...Esha couldn't...that doesn't mean she is good and Esha is bad...Its 2 different personality.Bhola knew Esha and her attitude...So its not Eshas fault totally...
What do u all says guys....

I think its not wrong. Some people think its wrong because of their mentality which is backward and mostly in villages people think like that.

i know a lot of people that stay in laws and even more ppl move into their own houses away from their parents - ppl need to grow up- i dont think there is nothing wrong with that either- but its just the way esha is acting which makes her a bit bithcy- i think in reality ppl would more likely to behave like esha than anya- i mean love is not everything cmon! who wants to stay in a stinky village!!!ive been there trust me its a nightmare!

i guess ESHA pretends & shows off!soooooo much ,that she is not supposed to do ,look at debbie she doesn't shows off!! that much.

i think instead of staying at haveli ,it wud be good if esha takes some money from her parents & renovate bhola's house ,she actually. can have a tv ,fridge ,a ceiling fan , cooking gas at her palce because i think these things cud be afforded by even a common man ( and i guess tv is really necessary for the dev. of a village) .

debbie & kishen don't have any son ,so they wud def. consider bhola as their son ,so if from that point of view they are helping bhola with their money then bhola shud def. take some amount of money & kishen ,debbie,aanya,bhola cud also help the villagers by getting all of them beneffited with the latest technology of computers, , technology of tv ,agricultural facilities, mobile phones ,medical facilities just like the SRK AS MOHAN BHARGAV IN THE MOVIE SWADES DID ,SRK HELPED THE VILLAGERS BY HIS MONEY & KNOWLEDGE ,SO I GUESS DEBBIE ,AANYA, BHOLA shud def. try to help the villagers . man!!!! they have got 500 crore RS.

after debbie & kishen all wealth wud def. go to aanya & esha ,so whats the harm if aanya & esha takes the money from their parents, they cud bring smile on many needy peoples with their money.

social norms are all man made ,not made by the GOD. if bhola considers debbie & kishen like his parents then he cud live there in haveli but not only for the materialistic pleasures.
he cud live there with his father & sona & continue his job of a farmer .

ya.there,s nothing wrong that if a damad[son in law]lives with his in-laws.
but in case of bhola,bhola is liking to stay in esha,s house bcoz of the materialistic pleasures which he never experienced before.n this is not right,i mean he shud not leave his own home for these materialistic pleasures. coz these pleasures are not more imp then our loved ones.
defi,ESHA can,N SHUD take some amount from her father, n can renovate bhola,s home and must stay there with bhola.s father n sona happily.

i guess the the village menTality tht DIL should always live in husbands hse...is been like tht for yrs...and no one cna chnage the olden age mentality..
altho we pl think its nothing wrong...to them the DIL should leave her whole fly and come live with husband's family...

but nw i feel sorry for Bhola's dad! He di so much so make Esha feel comfortable..

And Esha is also nothing less! She is too used to the luxury she used to experience in Mumbai tht even aft being so long in DNKT she has not let go of it yet...i donteven kno why she married Bhola...doesn seem to me as if she loves him...

Or maybe she does but just doesn't want to express it!

well whts the harm , comeon we are so judgemental
we fail to understand tht esha is used to city life,
n well dont we always live to earn more, n become more successful in life, so we always wannt to grow ahead
not bakward, so i think its perfectly ok 4 bhola to stay
at esha's place,, dont gals do this , so he can
also stay at esha place n go n visit his dadsometimes.
the way girls do, dont they stay at inlaws n go only
soemtimes 2 meet ther parents,
this bloody male dominated soceity made this ruls,
of girls moving , today when both r equal ,in most ways
y not for a change boys leave their parents,
let them also experience how it is to leave parenst
home n stay with inlaws

P.S n trust me this system of men moving into girls
place wud have better results becos we all know that
DIL's may not be that liked, but SIL's r very much luved.
SO lets change the society itself.
becos we only r the soceity and we only made the rules.
bull shit the soceity norms.n specially those parents
who only have daughters shud go for thsi only.

Anya has also been brought up in aish o aaram, but she is living in that ''jhompri'', So i don't think it has to be so difficult. If Esha had to do this, then she was better when she was not married... 😡

AYNI 😛

i don think bhola wants 2 stay at esha's place due 2 his luv 4 his wife but 2 the riches. tht is not rgt. anyway whn esha knew tht she wud not get the riches she experienced earlier after marrying bhola y did she marry him.

i don think its easy 2 break the norms in society. 4get villages in south india where almost every house has a s/w eng or doctor even people in cities will not agree 2 b a ghar jamai. ego also plays a big part here. most guyz boys feel a little circumspect abt living in wives house as they feel they may not get in same respect inside n outsde the house. unless n until there is a strong reason no guy will agree 2 it.

here DNKT is a village n they reaction by them is justifiable. staying in their house or in in-laws house is a personal decision. it is neither wrong nor rgt. its juzz the way v c it.

nothing wrong
but for his self respect
he shouldn't live with them