Discussion : Love v/s Family

In movies/serials we usually see that two people in love always choose there love over there family. In Jabb Love Hua's case ... Aanya left her engagement in the middle of the way. When Rahul found out about Aanya and Raghu, he made Aanya run away. At the end the point is same... Aanya chose her love over her family's honour and respect.

So, my point is that is this nesessary to show this unrealistic part in soaps/serials/movies when it has no connection to reality. Many of us would choose our parents because they raised us and gave us the respect we have. They have forgiven us after every mistake and guide us like a mentor.

Dicussion Questions

* Is it nesessary to show unrealistic scenes in soaps/serials/movies?

* Do you think Aanya will be able to confess her love infront of everyone? If she does, will she be able to get married to Raghu?

* If Aanya gets married to Raghu, will she be able to adapt the lifestyle of a villager? What problem can be created?

* Love v/s Family is a issue we should focus on in serials? yes or no? why?

Other comments and questions are welcome, just remember to keep IF rules in consideration.

Have fun discussing... (o btw, thank CM of Sony - manjot for this brillant idea)

Dicussion Questions

* Is it nesessary to show unrealistic scenes in soaps/serials/movies?
I think all things on the screen are unrealistic because that is the only way people watch...because they haven't seen such situations before so they always want to know what happens next. I think JLH does this very less, the reason why I like to watch JLH. But usually it is nesessary to do this because people will be hooked on watching.

* Do you think Aanya will be able to confess her love infront of everyone? If she does, will she be able to get married to Raghu?
I think Aanya will confess her love in front of everyone. Aanya isn't the typ of girl who be shy to say such things. But I also know deep down, she is a really sweet and good person. I think she won't say this until a long time because she won't want to hurt Gehena. Also because of the promise Raghu and her made together about not hurting anyone.

* If Aanya gets married to Raghu, will she be able to adapt the lifestyle of a villager? What problem can be created?
I think Aanya will adapt to the village life. Infact she almost has being felt "stifled" in the city. When she got to the village she felt home at last. Aanya has gotten used to the village life. I think she will learn everything else very easily. Also, she will definitely do all this for her Raghu!

* Love v/s Family is a issue we should focus on in serials? yes or no? why?
I guess yes. But nowadays, all characters in a serial chose love anyways. Only sometimes do you see a character who chooses their family over love. Its become sort of a concept on serials I guess.

Other comments and questions are welcome, just remember to keep IF rules in consideration.
Never any comments! IF and JLH forum is always great! Things just keep getting better!

Have fun discussing... (o btw, thank CM of Sony - manjot for this brillant idea)
Wonderful discussion...I had fun writing my comments. Great job for coming up with questions Manjot and thanks for putting this up Gurprit!

~Momo~

i agree with ya... it doesn't happend in a really life... ananya's character... can't ajust life in village 4 ever... rahul loves ananya 2... he gave away his love 2 someone... and ananya run away at da last moment.. 4 lifestyle she livez n goez 2 where she doesn't like... n i think raghu is not educated compair to rahul...

Dicussion Questions

* Is it nesessary to show unrealistic scenes in soaps/serials/movies?

It really depends. Soaps are everything other than "normal". Most things in serials are unrealistic. And what is realistic, is always exaggerated. I believe that there's a point where it's neccesary to show unrealistic scenes, but after that point it just become ridiculous.

* Do you think Aanya will be able to confess her love infront of everyone? If she does, will she be able to get married to Raghu?
I believe that Aanya will be able to confess her love infront of everyone. She is Aanya Shroff after all. She gets what she wants, when she wants it. I know for a fact that Aanya and Raghu will be happily married (or so I believe)

* If Aanya gets married to Raghu, will she be able to adapt the lifestyle of a villager? What problem can be created?
She will be able to adapt to the village lifestyle. In the previous episodes it has been shown that Aanya now prefers the village life over city life. They problems that may occur will probably be related to the disapprovals to A & R's marriage.

* Love v/s Family is a issue we should focus on in serials?

Yes or no? why?
No. This idea has been stretched, twisted, and tied in more than 1000 ways. It's getting tiring.

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My lecture of the day😉

If you love someone and you want to get married to them , you have the right to do so. And if your parents love you, they won't say no without a valid reason. Your parents can't see you unhappy.
But if your parents do say no, (and you know they love you to pieces) you are better off listening to them. Who knows, what you claim is love, could end up being infatuation😕.

But the bottom line is,

your Life, your Choices, your Future.

Originally posted by: krazee_gurl

My lecture of the day😉

If you love someone and you want to get married to them , you have the right to do so. And if your parents love you, they won't say no without a valid reason. Your parents can't see you unhappy.
But if your parents do say no, (and you know they love you to pieces) you are better off listening to them. Who knows, what you claim is love, could end up being infatuation😕.

But the bottom line is,

your Life, your Choices, your Future.

~Sonia

I agree