why so much hatred towards Aman ?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I have seen so many posts about hatred towards Aman ever since he started behaving like a 'would be husband'.
Everytime Neil says something to Ragini at odd times/insensitive we forgive him just because we know he loves her and he said it out of frustation.

Poor soul has been ridiculed enough by all, Thanks to Ragini for always showcasing him as her "would be husband" as per her convenience.

I wont be surprized that things are above his tolerance level now and he decided to not be puppet at Ragini's hand anymore and take things in his own hands.

Yes, his timing is wrong to talk about marriage. Wasn't Ragini insensitive to get engaged when her same SON was being put in jail ? This time he is only going away with his father, atleast he will sane there.

He was totally right in telling Neil to inform him when he comes next time since he doesn't want people to gossip about Ragini, which we have seen happening in past.

He was totally right in telling Neil to wait outside and not enter her bedroom. Neil is her ex-husband. and as Arav's father he asked for passport and Ragini was trying to find. She did not ask for his help. He is a guest at Ragini's house and should behave like one.

He did try to play the role of a father by offering his hospital to Aarav, he was trying to help out Ragini . And here people are calling him disgusting to not want Ragini's kids around ?
He has been there more for these children more than their own father did..

He was blamed to deliberately put Neil in Jail by not letting Ragini read the statement. It was Ragini who had the statement and was reading it. She never listens to Aman, then why did she listen this time ? He is very well aware of how Ragini feels for Neil and why would he deliberately do something which he knows will hurt Ragini more. Keeping Neil in jail would just prolong his stay in India and I am pretty sure he doesnt want it.


He realized that Ragini's troubles and problems related to her kids and neil are never going to end, so we cant expect him to wait till eternity to get married.

Its Ragini who brought this whole mess into her life. She thinks she owes to Aman for supporting her all along and should favor him with getting engaged. She is making his life worse by pulling him in her mess.


Like a married couple, he is taking decisions for them But all of Ragini's decisions were done to merely get a reaction out of Neil.


When he was acting like a wood-be husband (pun intended) people ridiculed him for not being a man to take stand for his wife and all. And when he is acting like a would be husband, we are calling him disgusting?
Not fair...



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Posted: 10 years ago
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I don't blame Dr Aman .. Ragini MUST be blamed .. for having 'used' him at her 'perils'. She went on with the fake marriage drama, knowing very well, he had a feeling for her .. She refused his proposal time and again .. and finally after she accepted .. now she's again going back to Nachiket .. Dr Aman is being treated unfairly.. It's obvious for him react otherwise .. He's always stood by her, no matter what..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I agree totally. Aman has been nothing but a true friend to her. She cannot be that dunce to not to see his feelings for her. Every time he raises the marriage topic she just keeps quiet. If she does not want to marry him she should clearly explain this to him. Aman has never forced himself on her. I dont want his character to turn negative. A person cannot be nice for 15 and odd years and then suddenly turn negative. It will be rediculous.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Perfect post. Finally I see someone highlighting all the points with respect to Aman's character. Thanks for the same. Even I find Aman's character the most sensible one. Next in the rank would be Aagham and Suhaani. I truly want only Aman and Ragini to get married. When the kids are happy with Neil why not he take everyone to US and give them a comfortable life and Aman and Ragini can be happy here in India.

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