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Posted: 10 years ago
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I have been watching this serial and sometime i feel is only love enough in a relationship ?? Neil and ragini love each other - there is lot of passion but see how their life goes on !!! is love and passion are the basis of relatioship ?? what happenes when a relationship goes on on a base of love and passion and absolutely no understanding and trust. I think storngly understanding, trust and care can bring love into a relationship but only love and passion can not stand strong alone !! i would never like to have a relationship like neil and ragini in my life --- no understanding , no care,someone else can easily influence their relationships with lies and all --- what is ekta trying to say ??? serial is named after itna karo na mukjse payar !!!! Does these words hold any value ?? ektas serials always shows such a lack of trust in couples -------- I am strong believer that where there is no respect , love can never happen

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think that these two respect each other immensely along with loving each other but yes the trust is completely missing from both sides.. you are right.. just love is not enough!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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They surely need to work on the trust and understanding angle.
Too much of love is toxic for sure
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Couldn't agree with you more. All your points were accurate, as for trust and respect in the show, currently its lacking however we being the audience can only that it will develop in the show.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: poetic

They surely need to work on the trust and understanding angle.

Too much of love is toxic for sure


Don't think they fall in the too much love bracket..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Both of them love each other and do respect each other. I think Neil trusts her more than she trusting him. He was quite sure that she can not give statement against him. This is not just love but the understanding of Neil about Ragini, his trust on her. somewhere he was sure that she can not do like this, n so he decided not to meet him.

The stories by Ekata are half treated... meant to create misunderstanding.. I agree that Ragini does not go to meet Neil because of Dr Aman but can she not call Neil to inform that she is not coming ..does she not have Neil's number...or at least call Agam to inform so as to avoid further MU or now she does not want to clear MU as she is moving ahead with Aman so what Neil feels abt her does not carry any meaning in her life.

Actually when Aman was slapped and Ragini did not listen to Neil, her mother should have told her the truth there itself or at least later. Nivedita had questioned her mother y'day was right (though I don't like Nivedita).

But yeh serial hai...aur wo bhi Ekata ki...so these things are bound to happen.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Well said that's why I find Aman and Ragini a better pair. There is no passionate relationship between the two but they both support each other well when the going is tough.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Well said that's why I find Aman and Ragini a better pair. There is no passionate relationship between the two but they both support each other well when the going is tough.[/QUOTE
I agree with you, i would never live in a relationship like neil and ragini myself --- just pure torture -- i would personally choose respect and honor any day over passion and misunderstandings and years of separation.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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without trust n understanding any relationship is bound to fail. love is definitely not enough. but I failed to understand if they truly love each other how they cant understand and trust each other 😕 . If after so many years they are still not able to trust each other then definitely they r not made for each other. its better if they move on in their life.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Perhaps they are meant for each other only because it's supposed to be so? What I mean is...it's a BT show and Neil and Ragini are the leads and so they are supposed to be in love.

But the Creative Head and writers haven't supported this "love story" with their screenplay. They fell in love all of a sudden, got married and had kids and the cvs never showed them bonding as a couple. Then they got divorced on a flimsy reason without trying or fighting to save their love and now they don't trust or respect each other.


Perhaps Neira and their epic love story are in the minds of the audience in the way they want to see them. They are supposed to be meant for each other but the show doesn't show that. Instead we see 2 people who don't trust or respect each other and instead use and barter their children to gain an upper hand on the other. No parental bonding and no stopping the children when they insult one or the other parent.


Maybe the cvs should have established a love story on screen before moving on to the bitterness. Maybe a proper love story through flashback perhaps, instead of hurrying through it. Then maybe the audience could empathise and root for the leads and their "love".


I don't think love is enough without trust or respect...here where is the love?
Edited by SuganthiS - 10 years ago

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