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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: randomsoul

And I wonder why couldn't he get DNA reports 15 yrs ago if she meant that much to him. He let her go..that should be enough of a reason for a woman to move on. And 4 yrs of a relationship is not long enough to be able trust a man completely, especially if he is a flirt and you have witnessed that. 4 kids in 4 yrs, Ragini's body must have gone through a roller coaster ride, which probably contributed to the insecurities and postpartum depression. As a doctor, he should've been able to handle it well. Plus family planning would've helped, given india's increasing population issue.

@bold very true..If she meant the world to him then was he sleeping all this while..
All the blames to her and he will be taking the good man Nachiket award and Ragini blamed for not believing him as he was good but allowed to flirt around with his track record.. đŸ„±
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Posted: 10 years ago
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no suprise here, i was hoping it wouldnt go this way, yes he did cheat on ragni, but he put another women above his own wife and kids, didnt tell her anything yet told everyone else, she should be happy he didnt cheat but she should be super angry as well. but of course it all raginis fault when the show portrayed it before as it being neils fault, i mean at least follow it through
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: --Anna--

For me, this is the most disgusting way to solve the issue though I am glad it is finally over. From the start, this whole thing has been ridiculous and with Ragini taking the blame - it is cringeworthy. I will never understand why is she apologizing. She did not trust him - Fine. But so dint he. If anything - let him apologize for the mistakes he committed. For accusing her of Rupali's death, for taunting her and Aman constantly and for being an egoistic man all throughout. I have no idea why NB is doing this - but this is a shameful end to the MU. Ragini was not at fault - and yet, she is made to suffer - that is just beyond my understanding. Neil - if he does not apologize - he will never gain any respect ever.đŸ„±



👏 exactly. The tables have been turned neatly to dump the entire blame on Ragini. Nachiket does not want to prove his innocence? His arrogance or hurt that he was distrusted matters more to him than the love he professes to have for his wife? He distrusted Ragini too and blamed her for his ex girl friend's death but of course, that is nought. Suhani had to clear that doubt from his mind, shameful that he couldn't ask Ragini about the phone call. After having lived with her and knowing her nature he still believed Ragini could want the death of Rupali. That is beyond unforgivable. Rupali was his ex girl friend, he had brought her home many a time for the night right in front of Ragini before his marriage, yet, he does not want to share Rupali's secret with his wife and does not want to clear her well founded doubts. What a total loser of a husband!

And even now, Nachiket does not want to go through the DNA test, he owes it to Ragini, the proof, the explanation, that was due her 15 years ago. She can cry all she wants over wasted time but the fault lies with Nachiket.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: bila_a

no suprise here, i was hoping it wouldnt go this way, yes he did cheat on ragni, but he put another women above his own wife and kids, didnt tell her anything yet told everyone else, she should be happy he didnt cheat but she should be super angry as well. but of course it all raginis fault when the show portrayed it before as it being neils fault, i mean at least follow it through




Really REALLY hope Nachiket says something tonight but I know I am hoping against hope..

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Nachiket will keep his arrogance and ego intact. After all, he is THE Pati Parmeshwar.
He has a right to keep a promise made to his ex, but yes he could also get upset on RK for keeping Ragini's secret. He is entitled to everything. What a MCP character they have created.
He had not fulfilled his duty as a husband , especially someone whose guroor was his ex -wife's love. I feel.
If R didn't believe then, he didn't also believe her about the telephone call.
Exactly why is he the only good person here ?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I just watched finished watching the episode. Did I hear Neil say that if trust needs proof - then there is no point of that relationship? Really?

I am so highly disappointed with Neil's character! So so so very disappointed. đŸ„±

I will never understand why NB is hell bent on putting the blame on Ragini's character but this is beyond ridiculous! Everyone keeps talking about Ragini's ego - but I don't see an ounce of it in her in the present situation. At least the woman has enough sincerity to apologize even if it is not her mistake! Neil still has lot of apologizing to do. He has continued making mistakes - again and again and him going off freely with nothing but ego - is crazy!!!

My suggestion to Ragini - let him go and let him get married to Nivedita. She deserves much better. She is better off alone - than be with a man who is blinded by his own ego. 😡


Edited by --Anna-- - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: randomsoul

And I wonder why couldn't he get DNA reports 15 yrs ago if she meant that much to him. He let her go..that should be enough of a reason for a woman to move on. And 4 yrs of a relationship is not long enough to be able trust a man completely, especially if he is a flirt and you have witnessed that. 4 kids in 4 yrs, Ragini's body must have gone through a roller coaster ride, which probably contributed to the insecurities and postpartum depression. As a doctor, he should've been able to handle it well. Plus family planning would've helped, given india's increasing population issue.


Bingo! I do not think he ever did love her enough. If he had - the first responsibility of his should have been to tell his friends secret to his wife. Especially in this case because the wife was having doubts and did express them to him. If after that she did not believe him - then Ragini could have been held responsible - but not now. It is immature to blame it all on Ragini. Also, if he expects her to 'trust' him - then how come he did not trust her when he accused her of Roopali's death? Where was 'trust' then? Also, why has he not apologized till now since he knows he accused her of killing someone? đŸ„±


Hahaha! I totally agree! The woman was pregnant almost all her married life. She must have gone through so much. And with Neil hiding the facts - it never helped the situation. I am so not in favor of him being let down so easily.


Edited by --Anna-- - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#28

Originally posted by: poetic

Nachiket will keep his arrogance and ego intact. After all, he is THE Pati Parmeshwar.

He has a right to keep a promise made to his ex, but yes he could also get upset on RK for keeping Ragini's secret. He is entitled to everything. What a MCP character they have created.
He had not fulfilled his duty as a husband , especially someone whose guroor was his ex -wife's love. I feel.
If R didn't believe then, he didn't also believe her about the telephone call.
Exactly why is he the only good person here ?


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So true..
why can't both of them be at fault?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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this is NB ka writing and honestly she has been totally unfair to ragini from day one...her potrayal of a single mother was so humiliating and then her own children treating her like trash...and if that wa snot enough ..she will be for her entire life living with the entire guilt of what happened 15 years ago and single handedly being blamed by everyone ..nachiket ,the children ,people around...

in order to create drama she has killed the characters and will do so...i have no issues with a flawed character and i love that ragini is no saint bu a human but why was it so hard to show neil as one as well...15 years you mature and grow ...but he still behaves like he did 15 years ago and asking her to trust him when the whole issue is that one major mu because of him is way too much..all her emotions are stemming from that fact...if he did not bother then why the hell bother now...let her go to hell ..you get back to your carefree life and let pam take care of the kids while you brood with a glass of whiskey staring out
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Posted: 10 years ago
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And the creative is a...Woman?

Wow...

Nachiket had taken wedding vows before he gave Rupali his word.
Where were his priorities and for that matter duties towards his children? He would rather see his family fall apart in order to keep his word?

And here Ragini is immersed in guilt????? As much as I was looking forward to this scene, it was a huge let down!

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