Why cant Nachiket and Ragini talk to each other - Page 10

Originally posted by: d3c3nt

It was lovely to see them together discussing Nishi even though it was in the car but they arrived at a decision together, Aarav should have been handled the same way both of them discussing it together.

N should tell R what Aarav is thinking so he can be handled better.

R telling N to move on, could have been the same repeat of what she did with Nishi, when N called her early morning she went to Nishi's in-laws and fixed the wedding. Same here when FL2 came to visit her on the rebound she went and told N to go ahead with FL2.

15 years back they could not communicate i could still understand as they were young, but now both are grown up with grown up kids they should learn to communicate with each other.

And... this is how the BT serials work.

Originally posted by: poetic

Oh yes, how could we forget the cupboard sharing and the room sharing sessions?😆

I still don't buy that reason he gave for leaving her 15 years back and how it was the best decision of his life. If indeed, he shouldn't be pining for her big time.

Even now, N tells RK that he will get engaged to Nive because he wants to show R that he is indeed doing what she wants, again putting the blame squarely on her.

Ragini did point it out to Chipku that she doesn't want to live with the extra burden of being the reason for Nachiket not moving on with life. It would be a big burden anyway.

Originally posted by: poetic

He should call Ragini out, sit her down and speak to her about the kids.

Not about the impending engagement or anything.

He should come clear on the involvements with kids.That is one bridge they must learn to cross.

N has taken a number of decisions that have been out of knee-jerk reactions. That for me is quite immature for a person who is now assumed to be 15 years wiser.

Each time he wastes energy on lampooning Aman I keep wondering if his brain cells are reducing by each interaction. Then he can't seem to take a call if he wants to move on out of choice or compulsion. And what about the kids? Doesn't he see that all of them have been affected in different ways.

Even Ragini needs to get off her high horse and introspect. N has some valid points when he does speak. She can't be belting the poor dad card when clearly her kids don't think any better of her.

So true Saabs..

Absolutely Sukhi,

I can understand the dismissal of kids sentiment, temperament issues and whatever flaws. But pls, don't be so shallow in judgement even after 15 years.

Ideally for me, N should have been jealous of R moving on and cribbed over it. But if he couldn't get over it, he should just ask her straight without beating around the bush and NOT go get engaged!

I expected some level of involvement with the kids after Nishi's wedding. It seems he has forgotten about Suhani all together until one night he realises that Delhi trip seems to have gone on for too long.

Originally posted by: sun29

that scene was so well written ,the one where they were talking like parents about nishi...

it was not like nachiket did not have time to inform ragini regarding aarav..the issue and him giving money happened some days back and even suhani was safe ,then why he chose not to even tell her about aarav...he should have told aarav that let me talk to your mother and get back to you instead of going behind her back and giving him money and then his fiancee throws it on her face in her house...this is indeed disrespecting ragini's position in her child's life...

and this is what both nishi and aarav has been using ..going to theri father who will go agains thtier mother and fulfill all their stupid wishes without even letting her know much...mercifully he had the decency of letting ragini know about nishi's wedding instead of ragini finding her daughter on the mandap getting married

and yes ragini is too hurt with nivedita in her face ,the impending engagement and she being forced into all this...and assuming that he found his life partner and nivedita with her tears like putting the blame on her door was too much for her to handle...

and do not put any hope on them about ever communicating ...even when they come under one roof they will not...and this is how balaji drag their shows with no head or tail for years...the hero is the mute spectator as the heroine tries to achieve sainthood...

Originally posted by: Saabi45

Absolutely Sukhi,

I can understand the dismissal of kids sentiment, temperament issues and whatever flaws. But pls, don't be so shallow in judgement even after 15 years.

Ideally for me, N should have been jealous of R moving on and cribbed over it. But if he couldn't get over it, he should just ask her straight without beating around the bush and NOT go get engaged!

I expected some level of involvement with the kids after Nishi's wedding. It seems he has forgotten about Suhani all together until one night he realises that Delhi trip seems to have gone on for too long.

Originally posted by: ronitfan

hmmm.. true..

He takes interest only when things go out of hand, feels temporarily guilty about it and then things are back to normal.. even with Suhani.. you are so right. Where is the consistency?!

As i mentioned in the morning in some other post,he trusts his sister more than himself in every aspect,which is totally wrong but i think we have now to accept that,that's how he is.

This is a BT post and I guess this is what we have to see. Cos they are not willing to upgrade their software.