26/3 Heated Argument - Page 2

I cannot blame Ragini here. She asked - he did not come clean. Ragini had a very good reason for not trusting Nachiket and if he is flabbergasted by the lack of trust she had in him - he should have gone back in his past and seen where he went wrong. There is a reason why no woman would trust a man who has a history like Nachiket. I would not. If anything, if you let a third person come in between you - the onus of it lies totally with you and no one else. Now I see Ragini have good reason for the divorce - unless ofcourse there is a part that is missing from the story.

mujhe bhi yahi lag raha hai ki neil ne ragini ko sach bataya nahi, agar bataya hota to uska family tootta nahi, balke Ragini khud suhani ko god le leti. jo kuchh hua usmein mein Ragini ko dosh nahi de shakati. kal mera pati koi bachcha lekar aaye aur kahe ise mein apna naam dena chahta hoon tum bhi apna lo . to aisa nahi hoga hum poochhenge to sahi naa bachche ke baare mein. bilkul wahi haal hai ragini ka. isi liye saara dosh neil ka hi hai woh ragini ko trust nahi dila paaya. par mujhe to yeh samjh mein nahi aaya ki pam ko ragini se prob kyun hai? aaj jo jaana usmein to mujhe neil doshi lagata hai. aur nivedita ko aisa kyun lag raha hai uski bahen mar gayi us mein ragini ka dosh hai. 😕

I don't think there is anything missing - Nachiket told the entire story - the dig at Ragini for being responsible for someone's death, the reason Nivedita is upset at Ragini and why she blames Ragini for her sister's death, and also for perhaps snatching Nachiket from her sister and indirectly and directly (the phone call) causing Rupali's death are all laid out - in a rushed and haphazard manner.

In Ragini's defense, how was she to know the call from Rupali was serious, why wouldn't the hospital have called Nachiket? Since when does a patient in the hospital have to personally call the doctor? And why would Rupali ask Nachiket to give the baby his name but not disclose the truth to Ragini? And which husband in his right mind would expect a wife not to question him or demand the truth from him?

Nachiket fell in my eyes today, he again lied to Ragini. I felt bad for her as she went on and on about the connection with Suhani.

And for Nachiket to put his girl friend's baby above his wife and family is senseless. To break up his family, tear asunder four of his children all because he couldn't tell Ragini the truth even after Rupali passed on (her reason that people in her community would think bad of her wouldn't apply after she was dead anyway especially if Neil told the truth only to Ragini) shows how little he really cares for his wife. Ragini is better off without him, a guy who brings a baby home, gives the child his name but doesn't deem it necessary to give an explanation to the mother of his four children!! That and the crack at her not being a doctor smacks of male chauvinism to me.

I did not like Neil in the flashback today and did not like him lying to Ragini again, how easily the lies slip from him. I didn't like that he told her to leave and go stay with her mother either. Really? Conflict in the marriage and he wants to pack his wife off to maika like a piece of luggage?

Itna Karo Na Mujhe Pyaar applies to Ragini, she loves him so much that she forgave his past once and being the fool she is she loves him so that she will forgive him once again for not only deserting her and the kids for 15 years for the sake of his lady love's child but also for not trusting her with the truth for 15 long years. Nachiket deserves Pam and Nive and all the misery in his life.

@soapwatcher

And yes, I don't like the idea that N is repeating the same set of mistakes- he is lying left, right and centre about Suhaani.

Originally posted by: poetic

@soapwatcher

I think Nachiket wouldn't have married Ragini if she had not spurned the idea of marrying him, as put forward by the Lawyer, with proper disgust. N is used to girls swooning over him,. requesting him to marry them, so on and so forth.

Here R was completely different. She didn't take his attitude for granted, was totally on her own, and has fought all her battles single handedly.

And yes, she did fall in love with n eventually, that's where the mix went wrong. Love or not, she was not suited to N's temperament. He might have loved her, but maybe not strongly enough to fight for her and their kids.

The dig that he took at her for not being a Doctor was a new low - I wish they hadn't showed it.

And what was his usual rant that I am a professional Doctor and so ...

If he was a Doctor, why did he propose in the OT?

I agree, she was the challenge to his ego and yes, if the lawyer had not disdainfully told Nachiket off, who knows if N's interest would have been piqued. And the proposal in the OR while a surgery was going on was not professional in the least. Yup, that dig was way below the belt even if she had not been a medical student that gave up her career for him.

And Pam needs a swift kick in the shin as well, if she knows the entire story and she can be told the truth (Nachiket can trust his sister with Rupali's truth but not Ragini, tells a lot about his trust in his wife and how much he really cares for Ragini and their family), why didn't Pam insist in these 15 years that Nachiket disclose it all to Ragini? Why is Pam so bent upon getting Suhani's maasi to be Suhani's mom while the other kids of Nachiket are bereft of a mom's love?

Nivedita if she is really there only for the sake of Suhani, should not be taking a swipe at Aarav. What does she have against the poor boy? She is a snake indeed. I hope all four kids come back to Ragini and Neil enjoys the rest of his life with Nive, Pam and Suhani. As Ragini said Nive is just his type of girl and it will do his ego good to have a younger wife who will make him dance to her tune. And let's not forget, Nive is a professional like N, not a doctor but a lawyer while poor Ragini is just an administrator.

Makes me mad thinking of the way N came to Nishi's wedding initially demanding to be treated more than a guest if this is how he deserted his family 15 years ago. Some gall!!

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

I don't think there is anything missing - Nachiket told the entire story - the dig at Ragini for being responsible for someone's death, the reason Nivedita is upset at Ragini and why she blames Ragini for her sister's death, and also for perhaps snatching Nachiket from her sister and indirectly and directly (the phone call) causing Rupali's death are all laid out - in a rushed and haphazard manner.

In Ragini's defense, how was she to know the call from Rupali was serious, why wouldn't the hospital have called Nachiket? Since when does a patient in the hospital have to personally call the doctor? And why would Rupali ask Nachiket to give the baby his name but not disclose the truth to Ragini? And which husband in his right mind would expect a wife not to question him or demand the truth from him?

Nachiket fell in my eyes today, he again lied to Ragini. I felt bad for her as she went on and on about the connection with Suhani.

And for Nachiket to put his girl friend's baby above his wife and family is senseless. To break up his family, tear asunder four of his children all because he couldn't tell Ragini the truth even after Rupali passed on (her reason that people in her community would think bad of her wouldn't apply after she was dead anyway especially if Neil told the truth only to Ragini) shows how little he really cares for his wife. Ragini is better off without him, a guy who brings a baby home, gives the child his name but doesn't deem it necessary to give an explanation to the mother of his four children!! That and the crack at her not being a doctor smacks of male chauvinism to me.

I did not like Neil in the flashback today and did not like him lying to Ragini again, how easily the lies slip from him. I didn't like that he told her to leave and go stay with her mother either. Really? Conflict in the marriage and he wants to pack his wife off to maika like a piece of luggage?

Itna Karo Na Mujhe Pyaar applies to Ragini, she loves him so much that she forgave his past once and being the fool she is she loves him so that she will forgive him once again for not only deserting her and the kids for 15 years for the sake of his lady love's child but also for not trusting her with the truth for 15 long years. Nachiket deserves Pam and Nive and all the misery in his life.

Nachiket keeps lying and lying. Ranbir hates his mom because he does not know the truth as to why his mom left his dad. If Neil or Pam had disclosed the truth to the children, Ranbir wouldn't hate his mom so. Nachiket has wronged Ragini in this as well.

Ragini at least has not sullied N's image and has not told the sordid reason why she left N to Nishi and Aarav, they too blame their mom for the deprivation of their dad's love and attention.

Ragini made a mistake in giving up Ranbir and Aagam, she should have asked N for child support and held on to all four of her children. The poor woman has borne the brunt of it all. And the man has the guts to taunt her and taunt poor Aman at every turn.

A man that loved his wife and children would do everything in his power to hold on to them and not walk away because an explanation was required of him, like he is some kind of God and above the law and beyond questioning. The FBs really irked me.

Why did N tell Pam the truth? His sister means more to him than his wife?

And Ragini really needs to stop about the connection with Suhani, really she has no connection to date unless something develops between the two.

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

I agree, she was the challenge to his ego and yes, if the lawyer had not disdainfully told Nachiket off, who knows if N's interest would have been piqued. And the proposal in the OR while a surgery was going on was not professional in the least. Yup, that dig was way below the belt even if she had not been a medical student that gave up her career for him.

And Pam needs a swift kick in the shin as well, if she knows the entire story and she can be told the truth (Nachiket can trust his sister with Rupali's truth but not Ragini, tells a lot about his trust in his wife and how much he really cares for Ragini and their family), why didn't Pam insist in these 15 years that Nachiket disclose it all to Ragini? Why is Pam so bent upon getting Suhani's maasi to be Suhani's mom while the other kids of Nachiket are bereft of a mom's love?

Nivedita if she is really there only for the sake of Suhani, should not be taking a swipe at Aarav. What does she have against the poor boy? She is a snake indeed. I hope all four kids come back to Ragini and Neil enjoys the rest of his life with Nive, Pam and Suhani. As Ragini said Nive is just his type of girl and it will do his ego good to have a younger wife who will make him dance to her tune. And let's not forget, Nive is a professional like N, not a doctor but a lawyer while poor Ragini is just an administrator.

Makes me mad thinking of the way N came to Nishi's wedding initially demanding to be treated more than a guest if this is how he deserted his family 15 years ago. Some gall!!