why is ragini blaming suhani?

after watching the harsh attitude on suhani in the promo by ragini...i wonder why ragini is putting the blame on a baby...when the little girl has no clue abt the cruel world...if she has a MU regarding suhani being the daughter of NR...she should blame neil rather than suhani...here we are seeing her melting down for the man whom she assumes has cheated her...but then being harsh on suhani who is just a kid...its elders fault...fate and destiny fault...circumstances and situations fault...why is ragini blaming suhani...who is just a baby when the mess happened...even if she assumes neil cheated or in real neil cheated her...its neil to be blamed...its roopali to be blamed...why is she blaming suhani...who doesn't know anything abt the mess happened 15 yrs back

I've been thinking along the same lines all through this "Suhani" track. What an amateurish thing to do. Whatever happened in the past, you still wouldn't hold the child responsible. If your husband was weak and got into an affair, then it's his fault! You can't even blame the other woman for drawing in your husband. Just accept the fact that momentarily your husband slept with another woman!! Deal with it and get over it. If that is the real mystery behind this Suhani secret.

I alws dislkd arav and nishi for blaming ragini for evrythng bt nw its provd that ths is Heriditary.These 3 alws blame othrs for their prblms 😳

The promo to me didn't appear harsh at all. Ragini stopped Suhani from speaking, that is all. She has every right to stop the girl, her husband's alleged love-child from entering her house. Suhani is a 16 yr old not a baby any more. Ragini not wanting to come face to face with the living proof of her husband's infidelity is normal and natural. She is not being hateful to the girl, not like Pam egging Ranbir on to be nasty to his own little brother or Nivedita trying to mar Nishi's wedding at every turn with her cruel machinations.

If Neil made the decision to place Suhani over his other children and Ragini, least he can do is to keep his love child away from his wife.

Ragini does not hate the child, she hates what the child represents - her husband's unfaithfulness and break-up of their family unit. Totally normal reaction unless the woman is a saint which she is obviously not.

@Pinot - There are oo many kids in the equation. I also wish there were lesser kids.

Why is everyone assuming Neil cheated on Ragini? That part of the story is not known and it is only speculation that Suhani is Neil's and Roopali's daughter. If Neil had cheated on her, I doubt she would still be in love with him, let alone reminisce their marriage and previous happy moments!

That's just a speculation - the story could go either way.

Why is everyone assuming that Suhani is Neil's and Roopali's child? That story is not confirmed yet and is only speculation. I don't think Ragini would still be in love with Neil and reminiscing their happy times if he cheated on her. Suhani's connection is with Roopali and I think Roopali died because of Ragini's negligence or something coz once Pam said that because of Ragini a woman died and I think that woman was Roopali.

Is it confirmed yet that Suhani is the result of EMA from Neil? 😕 Am I missing something here? I avoid the segments and promos so may be am clueless.