Will Ragini's Nachiket ever make the first step towards her? - Page 2

Originally posted by: sun29

from the time nachiket has returned he has numerous times told ragini how bad a wife ,mother ,woman etc etc she is ...he has mocked her ,insulted her and taunts her ...and now he went ahead and got engaged to nivedita...and pam painted the picture of a fairy tale and still nachiket let her do it...so for ragini nachiket is in love with nivedita and has moved on to the ideal partner he was seeking approved by his sister...even if the fake marriage is out i do not see ragini taking any step to ruin his happiness and life with nivedita as per her...

hence something major has to occur for both to burst out about their feelings for each other...untill then they will be miserable but will suffer

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Great post. I don't think he will, ever.

Nachiket might love Ragini all he wants but to me his character appears weaker every time he lets Pam dictate his life.

Also the drunken proposal to Nivedita was just drunken idiocy and should have been treated as such by him. He asked Nivi if she was agreeable to the proposition after Pam gloatingly told him what he had done. Instead of discounting the whole thing as some craziness due to his jealousy and being drunk, he decides to abide by what Pam tells him. Even Nivi didn't take him seriously as she clearly told Pam he was drunk and she wasn't sure if he knew what he was saying. A man who loves his wife no matter she has moved on, will not hitch himself to another, his undying love for his wife should not hinge on whether she is free to be his or not.

If Nachiket has behaved thus in the past, allowing Pam to be the kabab mei haddi as Ragini mentioned the night of the Valentine Day's party, he deserves Pam's machinations.

When the fake marriage truth comes out, Ragini should not be the one to make the first move, Neil should, by first setting himself free of Nivi. If he is a taken man, engaged or married, Ragini should not be expected to go after him as he is only doing what she believes he has always done, gone after other women.

Originally posted by: poetic

True that.

Even if Ragini is at fault, Neil defintiely does not need to let Pam chaperone his life, his relations and him. Well, this was a catastrophe waiting to happen. And it did.

Pam wouldn't have probably done so if she din't realise that R was faking her marriage. Once she knew the truth, she realised that she was sitting on a tinderbox, with Nivedita, and hence she did what she did. That idiot! And also because N allowed her to get away with all these.

Forget about this, P has constantly abused R whenever they have met, and N had not objected, except for the scene where P goads R to apply the ice pack on Nive's ankle.

Until and unless they both take a step towards each other, they will suffer. And they will let others like P please.

Originally posted by: sun29

@rachna..pam painted a fairy tale proposal and how neil was so happy blah blah ...and the guy stood like a zombie and ragini was breaking into pieces and anyone who had heard pam's version would believe he is in love with nivedita...so i do not understand why should ragini react in the midst of the ceremony which already has been ruined...

if nachiket was misunderstood in the past..why did he not fight for his wife and children ..why did he let ragini assume the worst and walked off destroying the family..was his ego so big..yes one partner stumbles..the other holds..so if ragini was wrong why did nachiket not set her right...ragini was right..he just walks off and offers no solution...his sister has been dictating his life coz he has allowed it...even today it is the same..the drunk ragini asked what we have been asking..why do you not tell her something...

i feel no sympathy for him ..instead feel like giving him one tight whack to awaken him from this miserable reverie and self pity...if he has been unable to live his life as he wishes..who is at fault??? destiny or himself???

and he spend the entire 15 years finding fault in ragini and standing by as his sister shred the mother of his children into pieces right before his eyes...some respect this is

yes ragini is at fault too ...but that is another long long story as well 😆😆

I dont think the new entry will resolve all the issues between them so soon..this will follow only after a lot of heart wrenching drama both for NeiRa.

Originally posted by: RaginiluvsNR

I dont think the new entry will resolve all the issues between them so soon..this will follow only after a lot of heart wrenching drama both for NeiRa.

Originally posted by: sun29

they are unable to do anything with the existing cast..dunno what the new entry if any will do ...what is the purpose of RK knowing the truth if he actually is a spectator to this whole thing knowing very well they both love each other...what are karan and dimpy doing??

there is a crowd but yet nothing seem to be happening at all...

True..i really dnt get RK karan and dimpy. They have the potential but are sitting quietly and enjoying the drama😡..Sunny tai is better, at least she is doing something for them!

Originally posted by: omshreejaanu

I agree with u about the proposal. I am disappointed too that Neil has chosen to abide to his words about something he didn't mean to. He was not in his senses but chose to let his sister dictate him.

I am not very sure about how much Pam involvement in their life has ruined it for NeiRa but I feel that if things went bad it was majorly because both of them didn't try to mend things. It takes two to tango. Both Ragini n Neil are very stubborn n stick to their words n position and that's what they did.

They were in love but their relationship lacked trust and communication and it shows till now. Ragini jumps to conclusion very easily and Neil doesn't feel the need to clear her doubts or reason her!

It is evident that these two are way too confused around each other that they are taking silly decisions. He has accepted to get engaged n it seems to me that she will try to give Aman a chance. All I hope is that they stop it on time before ruining more life in the process.

Yes, hope the two dont ruin more lives before realizing they need to sort out what is plaguing them by thenselves.
Could not understand Neil's take on what will be, will be. I can understand he was heartbroken when the marriage ended but now to blindly acquiesce and go along with marriage to Nivi bespeaks of a weaker character. A man that can so easily give up on his love and move on 'cos fate wills it, is in my mind not deserving of much happiness. If he has always been this way, not explaining but expecting to be understood and going along with the flow, no wonder their marriage ended in shambles.
I was proud of the way Ragini handled herself, time and distance and that unshakeable feeling that Nachiket does not love her any more, has made her strong. Good for her.

Originally posted by: sun29

from the time nachiket has returned he has numerous times told ragini how bad a wife ,mother ,woman etc etc she is ...he has mocked her ,insulted her and taunts her ...and now he went ahead and got engaged to nivedita...and pam painted the picture of a fairy tale and still nachiket let her do it...so for ragini nachiket is in love with nivedita and has moved on to the ideal partner he was seeking approved by his sister...even if the fake marriage is out i do not see ragini taking any step to ruin his happiness and life with nivedita as per her...

hence something major has to occur for both to burst out about their feelings for each other...untill then they will be miserable but will suffer