Ragini's behaviour is justified in 'Main hoo na'

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Posted: 10 years ago
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You all must have seen the movie. In the movie Ram (Shahrukh) is the product of an illicit affair of his baba (Naseeruddin shah). And after his mother dies, his father decides to take his responsibility but his wife (kirron kher) denies him to do so and after some point she agrees to forgive him for the extra marital affair but on a condition of not letting Ram to enter their lives. But baba choose Ram over his wife and their son (lucky) and then they seperate. Even after years lucky's mom(kirron) blames Ram for their seperation.

Now here the story is similar the only difference i think (i m sure) that suhani is not nachiket's biological daughter but still he decided to take up her responsibility after roopali's death (her death due to ragini according to nachiket) This must have created problem for ragini as she must be thinking of suhani as nachiket's biological daughter and thus have denied him to do so. But the damage was done and they got divorced. And now Ragini is saying dat suhani is responsible for their divorce...So yes this behaviour of her is definately justified in the movie.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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They r not showing Ragini as mahaan lady like other balaji leads...
Bt still blaming new born baby for the divorce 😕
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: RAHI_SS

They r not showing Ragini as mahaan lady like other balaji leads...

Bt still blaming new born baby for the divorce😕

Agree..suhani shouldnt be blamed for all this mess which they themselves created
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I hope...it doesn't go MHN way...but then if it does...she expects neil to send suhani to orphanage...for god sake stop holding a new born baby being the result of your misery...its created by the adults why blame the baby when she doesn't even know the world...what is happening in the surrounding...
if suhani is just roopali's daughter...and her death happens due to ragini carelessness...instead of giving the motherly love the baby deserves...who has just lost her mother...she got overpowered by her own flaws and hold the baby responsible for the mess...

seriously i can't blame circumstances nor destiny...but Neira themselves for ruining their lives as well as all the 5 kids lives...especially suhani...who has loose everything in her life and her identity is question mark...seriously what was pam-neil thinking by refering ragini as suhani's mother to the poor girl...they should have told her the truth in the first place...yes the kid will be hurt...shattered but with pam-neil giving the comfort of love...she would have overcome it...and accept the fact...they never thought once that not only suhani...but agam-ranbir's world will be shattered when they get to know the truth that suhani is not their sister...as they love her way too much...when nishi-aarav gets to know the truth that suhani is the reason for their parents separation...for siblings separation...for both of them loosing the love of both parents together and the comfort of lives which they always yearns for...nishi-aarav will hate her and will behave nasty to her...looking at their nasty nature...i have no surprises at all...pam-neil totally shake suhani's world upside down...they have made a hell out of her existence...poor girl...suffering for no reasons due to adults issues and egos
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mages

I hope...it doesn't go MHN way...but then if it does...she expects neil to send suhani to orphanage...for god sake stop holding a new born baby being the result of your misery...its created by the adults why blame the baby when she doesn't even know the world...what is happening in the surrounding...

if suhani is just roopali's daughter...and her death happens due to ragini carelessness...instead of giving the motherly love the baby deserves...who has just lost her mother...she got overpowered by her own flaws and hold the baby responsible for the mess...

seriously i can't blame circumstances nor destiny...but Neira themselves for ruining their lives as well as all the 5 kids lives...especially suhani...who has loose everything in her life and her identity is question mark...seriously what was pam-neil thinking by refering ragini as suhani's mother to the poor girl...they should have told her the truth in the first place...yes the kid will be hurt...shattered but with pam-neil giving the comfort of love...she would have overcome it...and accept the fact...they never thought once that not only suhani...but agam-ranbir's world will be shattered when they get to know the truth that suhani is not their sister...as they love her way too much...when nishi-aarav gets to know the truth that suhani is the reason for their parents separation...for siblings separation...for both of them loosing the love of both parents together and the comfort of lives which they always yearns for...nishi-aarav will hate her and will behave nasty to her...looking at their nasty nature...i have no surprises at all...pam-neil totally shake suhani's world upside down...they have made a hell out of her existence...poor girl...suffering for no reasons due to adults issues and egos


Mages i agree with you.

Why has Suhani not been told the truth about who her parents are, this should have been told to her long ago that who is her real mother and father. She has referred to Ragini as her mom many times in front of Neil and Pam and they have never corrected her, but re-enforced that Ragini is her Mother.

Suhani will be the one who is going to suffer the most now, as all the relationships that she has built around her will come crashing down.

At least in MHN Shahrukh was with his real father.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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If ragini thought suhani is Neil n rupali's daughter,then she wud have kept all kids with her...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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@Mages what you wrote is absolutely correct. Wonder where Pam came into all this. Neira had 4 kids, could they not have taken in another one.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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It will go it's own way only, not like MHN. There are lots of differences in premises in these two strokes, so let's not get confused..
I mean, they haven't even show a minute of the Suhaani saga.

What do we expect - Ragini to accept her just like this? There has to be some reason why there was a divorce between them. Let's give Ragini some time. She is not going to take something so easily that has actually taken away everything from her.

How old was she when the divorce happened? 23-24 years old. And there were her own kids involved as well. Imagine having to lose everything then.

Do we really know who Su is? Then, why this blaming? I fail to understand.

And the question is not about taking another kid in - it's more about the truth, the insecurities and everything that follows. Whose kid it is? What has been highlighted?

I am sure both N and R were at fault, and well there were others as well. But this is another opportunity to look at things afresh.

this is not easy for anybody, least alone Ragini.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mages

I hope...it doesn't go MHN way...but then if it does...she expects neil to send suhani to orphanage...for god sake stop holding a new born baby being the result of your misery...its created by the adults why blame the baby when she doesn't even know the world...what is happening in the surrounding...

if suhani is just roopali's daughter...and her death happens due to ragini carelessness...instead of giving the motherly love the baby deserves...who has just lost her mother...she got overpowered by her own flaws and hold the baby responsible for the mess...

seriously i can't blame circumstances nor destiny...but Neira themselves for ruining their lives as well as all the 5 kids lives...especially suhani...who has loose everything in her life and her identity is question mark...seriously what was pam-neil thinking by refering ragini as suhani's mother to the poor girl...they should have told her the truth in the first place...yes the kid will be hurt...shattered but with pam-neil giving the comfort of love...she would have overcome it...and accept the fact...they never thought once that not only suhani...but agam-ranbir's world will be shattered when they get to know the truth that suhani is not their sister...as they love her way too much...when nishi-aarav gets to know the truth that suhani is the reason for their parents separation...for siblings separation...for both of them loosing the love of both parents together and the comfort of lives which they always yearns for...nishi-aarav will hate her and will behave nasty to her...looking at their nasty nature...i have no surprises at all...pam-neil totally shake suhani's world upside down...they have made a hell out of her existence...poor girl...suffering for no reasons due to adults issues and egos


All these have to happen for Suhaani to get integrated into the family.

Well she could have easily continued without being told the truth.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mages

I hope...it doesn't go MHN way...but then if it does...she expects neil to send suhani to orphanage...for god sake stop holding a new born baby being the result of your misery...its created by the adults why blame the baby when she doesn't even know the world...what is happening in the surrounding...

if suhani is just roopali's daughter...and her death happens due to ragini carelessness...instead of giving the motherly love the baby deserves...who has just lost her mother...she got overpowered by her own flaws and hold the baby responsible for the mess...

seriously i can't blame circumstances nor destiny...but Neira themselves for ruining their lives as well as all the 5 kids lives...especially suhani...who has loose everything in her life and her identity is question mark...seriously what was pam-neil thinking by refering ragini as suhani's mother to the poor girl...they should have told her the truth in the first place...yes the kid will be hurt...shattered but with pam-neil giving the comfort of love...she would have overcome it...and accept the fact...they never thought once that not only suhani...but agam-ranbir's world will be shattered when they get to know the truth that suhani is not their sister...as they love her way too much...when nishi-aarav gets to know the truth that suhani is the reason for their parents separation...for siblings separation...for both of them loosing the love of both parents together and the comfort of lives which they always yearns for...nishi-aarav will hate her and will behave nasty to her...looking at their nasty nature...i have no surprises at all...pam-neil totally shake suhani's world upside down...they have made a hell out of her existence...poor girl...suffering for no reasons due to adults issues and egos


Agree with u completely! You have almost covered every angle of Suhani's mystery! Thanks for sharing your views in brief 😊
And yes even i dnt want it to go the MHN way..it wont.

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