Oh come on none of us have a career as a heroine or atleast modeling so we are simple working women with families from acche katey pitey ghar ke why call fat or on the chubby side so Indi Faiqa is that your name Arshi wiwy looked good and Barun comfortable taking a picture with her. Nice gift wiwy to your soutans and birthday girls.
faiqa ji,
i like that sentiment you express in pink.
and without starting a battle on gender issues, i would like to say the accent we put on a girls' looks is so so directly connected to survival in a system that automatically makes you the one dependent, treats you like object. if a girl ain't hot to look at she can't get a man, if she can't get a man, how will she survive? (i am tired of people talking about my daughter's looks, frets over skin tone, height, fat, facial features...) survive not as in emotionally or in any inner sense, but basically, physically, etc. people will talk of evolutionary needs and how the girl should get free time to produce bachaas while the man toils... but it always feels like a whole lot of phooey to me... somewhere reducing girls to cattle. um ah er, even less. not that i don't have love and regard for cattle. 😳
so yeah, that is how we look while we chase our dreams and at least one boy i know, rather good looking too, has told me nothing excites him more than women who look a bit unkempt but have that thing about them of doing this life. ha, so there. evolution will carry on, the human race will survive, even if we aren't teetering on 7 inch heels and wrecking our bones, not dolled up, not trying to get noticed.
so when i meet the boy, i shall make sure i am hot little indi, rolling along with her many extra kgs, her boring long skirt flopping around her swollen ankles, yet another linen shirt, with just a bit of lipstick, green frames, and almost top knot on head. not dressing up for ya, hotwa.
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