Originally posted by: ArshiHamesha
Episode 91
ArshiH ...a completely surprising way to experience the episode ... Building trust ... Especially his Di's boot incidence and his candid apology to his Di after ... Repeating word for word what she has said to her ... A few days ago this would have killed him ... To apologize so openly ... And that too obviously letting her know ... You may think I am not paying attention ...but I value your words ... He had just snapped her head off ... When she had tried to apologize ... And now he was repeating word for word ... Brilliant ... Brilliant take ArshiH ...
Kanya Puja .PART 2
Trust is a thin line in between two people and it takes time to build it but breaks in no time.It is the beginning place ,the foundation upon which more can be built.Where trust is ,love can flourish. The phase of building trust in between Arnav and Khushi is in its initial state.He shadows her character behind his hindering and lurking fears of his past and she is clouding his character in his attitude and way of thinking and above all his ways of living behind her set belief system.
Khushi and Naniji has a trust build up in between them which makes Naniji and Khushi go along with each other as she makes her calm down and then goes to Eternal Heaven[pool side] where she can find him to calm him down.Khushi,"Jab chote galati karain tou badoon ko maffi dai daini chahiyeh .Kyuon keh chote ghalati jan bhooj kar nahi karte
[when younger seek forgiveness from older then they should forgive them ...because younger don't do it purposely]
Arnav is still mad at Khushi as there is no trust yet in between them ,he still thinks she is the one who is behind all of this.Kids try to make Jijaji with mustache understand but he is just an annoyed kid just like em.
Anjali comes to know the whole fiasco behind his animosity and ferocity for kids.Arnav did not realize this either that in this all he is hurting her Di again by making her aware of this that "this is his house"...but before he be cognizant of the situation the damage has been done.He tries to talk through but Anjali as she is his Di turns her face and refuse to listen and he walks away.
I sort of liked that he did not appease her immediately ... He felt bad ... But sort of still showed his inherent stubbornness ... Not so easy ... Her Chottay
Trust in between Khushi and Anjali is way stronger than ever at this point.Just like Arnav she can feel Anjali's distress and convulsion very deeply the same way she did the other day when Arnav threw her out of this house by yelling at his Di.
Connecting Dots: Anjali falls down today and she let Khushi helps her ,the other day she falls down when he throws Khushi out and does not want Chote to help her.hmmm...Trust is the most difficult thing to build...
Not sure what you mean ... She trusts Khushi ... That day she was mad at him for saying Mera ghar hai ... Had she lost some faith in him ?
Khushi calls everyone for help including Arnav who thinks she is lying along with kids ...There is no trust what so ever but her distress voice did urge his heart to come for her plea but his brain rejects it ...hmmm ..interesting.
Interesting is right ...
Naniji's trust for Khushi does not need any proof.Amazingly Mamiji shows gratitude in her hello hi bye bye style.The seed of discomfort and being 2nd has been planted in La today as she is going to accept that she cannot compare with Khushi .Anjali does not want Chote to get disturbed as Naniji knows her stubborn kids gives Om Parakash an eye to bring Arnav down.
Symbolism and connection: Arnav is wearing a Turquoise blue color and this color represents coldness and depressed attitude just like Shyam's bracelet.
Arnav comes down all concerned and apprehensive but gets surprised and obliged seeing Khushi taking care of his Di.At the top Naniji stresses the issue of Khushi being there for Anjali and he did not even bother at her voice. He mortifies at his absurdity with Khushi and he repeats the same words.Arnav,,"Jub chote galati karain tou badoon ko maffi dai daini chahiyeh .Kyuon keh chote ghalati jan bhooj kar nahi karte...
[when younger seek forgiveness from older then they should forgive them ...because younger don't do it purposely]which make everyone astonished at him.
Khushi gets confounded and breathless with her cute face and Anjali looks at her first and then Chote,'yeh bol tumare tou nahi lag rahe"[These are not your words.]He gives a very loving childish look to Khushi and then to Di.Anjali holds Khushi's hand,"Apne La ko sikhate sikhate kissi aur ko tou...[you are not just teaching La but someone else too...]
PONDERING POINT: In the office he said to her"tumhain training daine ki aadat ho gyei hai"[ you have a habit of giving training] Now I have to add you have a habit of getting trained by her Akhroo...
What a cute cute observation ... He really makes a lot of these pompous type statements and does exactly the opposite ... Mujeh baataen dohrahnay ki aadat nahin hai ... And how npmany times he repeats himself to Khushi ... Poor guy ... Bahut acchi tehra seekh raha hai ...
Seed of trust has been planted as he knows Khushi will be well wisher of his Di though it shakes after terrace night but restores back after kidnapping even before that I must say during Heer Ranjha he finds out she went with Slither for getting Di's meds and took his heat without uttering a word.
Amusing Pondering for me: Oh Akhroo smiled knowing that Khushi thinks he looks nice with mustache ..hmmm...Yummilicious!! Its been a while to see him smiling like this.
Lovely catch ArshiH ... Did not see that at all ... How could I miss it ... That too his little smile ... Have to go back and see this ...
La's uneasiness was very visible after seeing her man turning into someone she hardly can relate with.Her restlessness was very noticeable during Kanya Pooja and even after that.
He dejection ... Her loneliness ... It really resonated with me ... She looks so lost ... Almost helplessly inadequate ... Little things ... Khushi's easy bond with the kids ... Khushi's easy with helping out ... She feels so left out ...
Naniji ,"This year kids were very naughty" which reveals another mystery over Arnav that this "Khufia Pooja" is going on every year which brings a laughter among house ladies but Khushi knows at this point her laughing over him makes him angry so she just passes a smile as he was looking at her like always but this time did not get as mad as last time after "Orange Juice" A Slight Trust is right there...
Reverberation of events align in front of Arnav [ how she took care of Di ]when Khushi leaves and His Di breaks his stance for pouring info that Khushi has Varath and did not eat anything.I think who knows better than him how bad she gets when she is hungry.He takes the food from Di and goes after her.
He grabs her right near the door where he calls her twice[# 2 sexual Tension] She thinks she did something wrong and goes along with her pagalpan.He stops her and tells her with the most sensitive and loving way"Woh Di keh rahi theen keh Subha se tum ne khuch khaya nahin...woh ...Khuch Kha lo"[Di was saying you did not eat since morning ..so...eat something.
Dhak Dhak!!! Is back which she acquainted with her empty stomach and acidity.She takes the food container from his hand and touches his fingers this time which increases his acidity..Bingo!
Last time she got the Ghee without touching his fingers and was careful and this time while taking it who cares attitudeThough scary for her but stillHere is the TrustShe runs and leaves him flustered with his strange attitude.:"Ajeeb hai yeh"
Remember the Pooja thali ?? He had laid his fingers directly on hers ... Now both these times he gives her a chance to not touch ... Dunno if I read it right ...
Today definitely Moon rises from the north as Khushi in distress and hungry and food is in front of her and she is not eating itBuaji is right she is Sanka DeviHer Dhak Dhak and his caring words."Woh Di keh rahi theen keh Subha se tum ne khuch khaya nahinwoh Khuch Kha lo"[Di was saying you did not eat since morning ..soeat something.
were making it difficult for her to eat ." JiJi uss ne diya hai"[Jiji he gave it to me}Even Payal couldn't convince her there is nothing wrong with the food but she has no clue it's not the poison but It's the "Amrit" given by her Arnavji.
His soft words are like Amrit to her soul ...
His loving and caring face comes in front of her and her heartbeat goes on with no speed breaker today, so she comes up with the solution for reducing her Dadkan she will not see him or talk to him
".hmmm..Lets see KKG 
New day ,new determined Khushi right in front of LG who she does not want to see or talk.He asks her to give it to La ,she keeps walking by ignoring him.He calls her three time{# 3 for victory,ego and masculine one].Third time his voice goes up'Khushi" which presses break oh her feet.He comes closer and her Dhak Dhak goes up"Don't you listen calling you" She gathers energy ,"Don't you see I don't want to talk to you or listen to you and want to stay away from youBas.
She left him all flustered and confused."What"
Love him ...
Khushi is baffled over La's worries as she has no Dhak Dhak or acidity.But Khushi Dhak Dhak stops or in other words "sansain ruk gyein " when La mentioned about her marriage with ASR.
Lamha-e-Fikariya:Thinkable moment: Khushi planted this seed of marriage in La's brain but today she is the one who does not like the sound of La being married with ASR.hmmm..Big change in Khushi...Keep it up Khushi!
Have to go back to see this ...
Nanital trip is up ,Khushi's plan is up,Nanital Valley Hotel here we come..but as La and khushi both are agreed not a single plan worksso this one sound floppy one too.
I love their bond ... Just two silly girls and their half baked plans ... Really kuch kaam nahin karta ...
Symbolism and Connection:Khushi and La both have reflection in the mirror as both have no clue of the real picture and equation of ASR with each other ,they both are seing the apparent picture or situation ,no one knows the depth of it.
Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi 2
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