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Mishti and Khushboorath, two very know people in this forum.
Why?...because they provide information regarding the show.
Mishti is someone who provides the latest happenings and news regarding the show
Mishti is someone who takes her time and effort in getting information for us fellow members
Mishti is someone who is determined to help calm the forum members if the show is going through a bad phase
Mishti is someone who provides spoilers be it positive or negative
Mishti is someone who aims to spread positivity and ignore negativity from people
Khushboorath is someone who gives hints for future track and upcoming episodes
Khushboorath is someone who knows the cast and crew of IPKKND personally even though she is not part of the team
Khushboorath is someone who provides us with the latest news on the actors of the show
Khushboorath is someone who aims to spread positivity
Khushboorath is someone who never takes bashing personally and comes back to continue to provide us fellow members with hints and news, and chooses to ignore the bashing
Both Mishti and Khushboorath don't have to do all this for us, in no way are they forced...so why do it?
Let me tell you why... they provide information because they do not want their fellow friends in the forum to feel panic if something negative is happening in the show, neither do they want the expectations of forum members to be raised if there is too much positivity.
They are just like us members who come and share information be it news or spoilers, like we share our opinions and views in this forum.
Is a forum a place of unity or a place to bash people and give negative remarks?
A forum is a place of unity, where people make new friends, a place for healthy discussions, expressing opinions, providing constructive criticism etc...
These two loveable forum members were bashed time and time just because they provided information especially for us forum members which was nothing but the truth, or must I say Mishti recently provided information about the upcoming track which people did not hesitate to make her feel that she was lying or, why did she have to provide this information, people bashed her on her Facebook, twitter and in this very forum, even though she clearly stated that she is not a member of the IPKKND team and she does not know what the cv's have planned for the future, she selflessly gives what she knows and we jump to conclusions, like many did in her latest spoiler where she clearly mentioned it was a hint and a surprise for us regarding Aarav and Arnav being father and son. Still bashing continued...Why? when all the poor soul did was answer our requests...
We filled her walls with requests to provide us with spoilers
We made endless posts such as, Mishti where are you? Mishti please tell us what is happening in the show? etc...
So what did Mishti do? she listened to our pleas, if she wished she could have ignored her fellow members, but she chose not to because she wants her fellow members to know the same things about the show which she knows, she is willing to share even if she knows we might not like the piece of information she is providing, all she does is keep us updated and what do we do???
Bash her if the information she provides is negative
Praise her if the information she provides is positive
Why so much difference when the information provided is by the same person.
Due to all this negativity she was made to leave Facebook and now she is quitting India Forums, which is not fair on her or for many fellow members that support her, but neither do I blame her, how much bashing can a person take?? I'm proud of you Mishti, and look forward to your future spoilers on twitter if you do continue to give them 😉
Same goes for Khusboorath
Khushboorath is known for her famous hints, which I personally love reading even though I can never crack them 😃... but lately no hints have been provided from her, why??
We make posts stating...Khushboorath where are you?, we are missing your hints, please come back etc...
Is it because she cant be bothered any more?
Is it because she doesn't have time to provide or make up the hints?
Is it because she is selfish and doesn't want us to know about the show?
The answer is NO, judging from her posts she seems like a really nice and genuine person which I am sure she is.
Let me tell you why Khushboorath no longer provides hints, many of you must have already read her latest few posts which she made after a long time, in which she states clearly states why she has not been giving hints, it is due to the bashing thrown at her time and time again.
All she did was tell us how the actors felt when we commented about their looks, for example let me use Barun and Sanaya as an example...
Why is Barun so oily?, get a haircut Barun, PH provide Barun with good clothes etc...
For Sanaya, change Khushi's hairstyle, remove stupid wig, get good clothes for her, why are horrible tents provided for a beautiful Sanaya etc...
There is nothing wrong with these comments from the members as they are expressing their views on the actors which is fair, but what I want to convey is that khushboorath told the team as per our requests regarding change of track and about actors looks, she came back with feedback especially for us and let us know what the actors said, but what did we go and do we bashed her saying who is she?, she doesn't even know the actors, who is she to interfere in their lives and she can't make us believe her...like seriously people??? make your mind up, first we want her to convey messages and when she does we hate what she comes back with.
She didn't deserve all that bashing, people spammed her thread and hurled vile comments at her. Regardless of all the bashing never did I once see her answer back in the same way to these abusers, rather I saw her comment nicely, she chose to ignore all this negativity and stay away from it, due to all this she has now become a private person. For which I don't blame her at all she did the right thing. Proud of you Khushboorath 👏.
Put yourself in their position, how would you feel if you were bashed just because what you said is the truth, you would think I don't deserve to be bashed, why am I being bashed? its not fair on me, why are people doing this to me? well all I can say is don't you think these two human beings feel the same, what is their fault?...why bash if you don't want to be bashed...let me tell you bashing people is not cool at all, it is the same as cyber bullying, and no one deserves to be bullied, we should encourage people to support each other, make people feel special, make them feel welcomed and avoid all this negativity.
- Do we want people to stay away from this forum because of the negativity?
- Do we want new people who want to join this forum feel unwelcome?
- Do we want people to talk bad about our forum in other forums causing more negativity?
No, we don't...so we should all unite, promote positivity, refrain from taking sides, support members if they are being bashed and being the change for this forum starting with you.
Lastly, I would like to convey to Mishti and Khushboorath that me and many of the members from this forum love you for every time you have taken your time and effort out of your personal lives just for us and providing us with information be it positive or negative 👏.
You both deserve a lot of respect, and do not have to live with some very vile and rude comments targeted towards you by a few members from this forum, just because what you say is the truth.
"Bitter truth is always hard to accept, but to move forward in life one has to accept, no one can change or cheat the truth"
Will always support you, whatever information you provide be it positive or negative because it will always be the truth, a true fan of you both xx
Lots of love
Behalf of all the members who love and support you
Huddy xx
Note: many of you must be thinking who am I to say all this, fair enough I don't mind your views or comments be it positive or negative...but all I want to say is
"Treat others how you want to be treated"
and
"What comes around goes around"
This topic has not been made to offend anyone, I am just expressing my views and supporting my fellow members because I love you all, I am helping them realise the importance of respecting others and treating them how you would want to be treated , I am truly sorry if my post has offended you in any way, please forgive me if it has.
Thank You Once again
Huddy xxx
Geet - Hui Sabse Parayee
Advocate Anjali Awasthi
