INTRODUCING THE 'BABY MOMMA' TRACK??

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I am back with a post after some weeks coz the current situation warrants comment!

I know that there is a general mood of "Oh no" and depressed feelings RE the spoilers that we have received about the possibility of ASR being the father of this child! I personally am not thrilled because I wanted him to experience Fatherhood with Khushi! (Since she is the women he truly loves).I wanted them to experience parenthood for the first time together! I STILL want that for them, as my personal wish!

However, having said that, let's wait and watch how they intend to let this track unfold! I honestly don't know what these CV"s are trying to do, but personally I am trying to take it with a grain of salt! This "Baby Momma" track may have more to it than meets the eye!

I was NOT happy when I read the spoiler and then I thought, maybe the whole POINT is to take the audience and even ARSHI and the rest of the RM people down the path of THINKING the child is ASR's only to have things take a turn later!

I think ASR will ACCEPT Aarav as his son, and start trying to be a Father to him! Then he will find out he is NOT the Father and he will feel hurt for sure! Once you start to care for a child, it is hard to let go of those feelings!

Maybe this is when he will say he wants to have kids with Khushi?? He may realize that he DOES want to be a Father! I have seen tracks like this in Western shows, where a guy is lead to believe he Fathered a child only to find out he is NOT the Dad and feel used and let down!

I think THIS is what is going to happen in the end here too! It is a TERRIBLE thing to do to a person!

One thing IS established! Some sort of relationship beyond a "Platonic" friendship was present between ASR and Sheetal for him to ACCEPT the possibility of being the Dad! It could have been a brief affair, or even a one night stand on graduation night at a drunken party etc. Something did happen, so he may have to accept he COULD be the Father! The DNA test will come back positive so he has to accept it! Don't ask me how DNA tests will lie, but there could be an explanation for that which we will only see later! (IF the CV's don't intend to make Aarav ASR's son for good!).

Point to Note: I think people need to GIVE UP this idea that ASR was "Chaste" before Khushi! He was NOT! Nothing wrong with it! He was NOT cheating anyone! He had his OWN beliefs RE relationships and he did not think they were meant to LAST! (Case in point the way his parents' marriage ended)! His experience with his parents made him a cynic, and he didn't think there was any point in making commitments only be betrayed later.

He lived on THIS philosophy until he met Khushi and FELL IN LOVE! Now LOVE makes him do everything he promised not to do! Be a husband, a lover and a life partner to someone! A women and HER happiness has become MORE important to him than his EGO! Everything he promised himself he would NEVER do, now he has done for love!

He once told the family after La left the first time, and they were asking him to "re-consider" the split, that he does not believe in "Making a girl one's reason for living, and ruining one's life"! (In Hindi He said: "Ek Ladaki Koh Apne Jeenaka Waja Banakar, Apni Zindagi Barbaad Karneka Galati Nahin Karunga Main"!). However, in the end he DID make a girl his reason for living! He asked Khushi never to leave him coz he will not be able to live without her! He admited to Anjali that Khushi is "That girl" who she used to talk about! The one who will make his breath stop, if she ever left him! (Anjali said: "Agar Who Tumhe Naa Mili Naa, Toh Tumhari Sansehi Ruk Jayengi"!)

THIS is the story of IPKKND, The story of how "True Love" conquered a man, and bought two people who had nothing in common together in love and life! NOT of ASR being "Pure"!! Just because he was not physically PURE, does not detract from the PURITY of the LOVE he has for Khushi! I don't understand why people can't SEE that??

So let us all let these people TELL the story they are planning to tell, and reserve judgment to see where this goes! Seeing how this "Bomb" in the middle of their lives will affect ARSHI and also the rest of RM will be worth a watch! As long as it is NOT a total cliche and also does not ruin the love story, I am willing to give it a chance! (Dont want to see "SACRIFICING" Khushi!!). Please save us from that!

As always, your comments are welcome!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Totally agree with you!

In case ASR's reaction is that of immediate acceptance ----
Arnav was a guy who didn't believe in love or the institution of marriage because of his dad's infidelity and the consequent death of his mother. We know this because we saw his indifferent behavior toward his girl friend Lavanya who tried her best to get close to him many a time.

In college, he is likely to have had the same views before he met Khushi --- that serious relationships are not worth it. But that does not mean he would have lead a celibate life. Being honest and straightforward as we see him, I am absolutely sure, the terms and conditions of the relationship was set right before the liaison began. And like Lavanya, this woman might have given her consent.

Having said that, I want this woman's claim to be a hoax just like one of the article predicted. Because, as you mentioned I want Arnav to experience fatherhood for the first time with his true and only love Khushi.

Even considering the article is right, there is going to be an emotion turmoil in the lives of Arshi and us because ---

It is going to be hard to even consider that Arnav might have had a child by another woman (however the circumstance)

It is going to be hard to consider that he had begun to accept the child as his own

All this pushes Khushi to second position (because a child usually takes up the first) in his life and we don't like that.

But in all this I also know that it is time for Arnav to be put on the spot for the first time and Khushi's turn to be the one in doubt for a change. And if the result of all this makes their love stronger as it always had been the case till now with all the prior hurdles then let get on the roller coaster and go for it.





Edited by charlotte74 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree. People are jumping to conclusions too soon.

I agree that the spoiler is scary but again, that is just what the CV's want us to think. Let us play along with them shall we ..? :)

I think we should relax and trust the makers of the show who in the end have never really disapointed us :)

Stay positive..Peace out ! :)


Great post! And i love Mr . Darcy too :)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: charlotte74

Totally agree with you!

Thanks! It is good to know that there are "Like Minded" people on this forum! Lets not over-react to this storyline and SEE what the plan is, and THEN start to critisize!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Totally Agree!!! 👍🏼 Remember the spoiler we read (dunno if a reliable one or not) that arnav will want to have kids with khushi...so i think the way you described there could work out!!
CVs are surely tricking us into something! we just have to relax and watch and then worry if it doesn't look good later...atleast wait for this coming week before making conclusions or assumptions
Edited by SaRunForevertgr - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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That's very well put. I am one of those who is totally opposed to this baby-momma track. I don't care that ASR had sexual encounters before Kushi. I DO care that he had a son. WHY? Because that means the momma will ALWAYS be in his face!!! And that means everytime Kushi sees the baby or momma, she'll be reminded of this encounter. And even though she'll accept it (the sacrificing lamb that she is) it will be kind of like rubbing salt in the wound. Everytime!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i dont want asr to father a kid with some else.. i think that is too much to forgive n forget for khushi..

i hope they treat this track with maturity n we dont see khushi doing comedy regarding such a serious thing... i want khushi to come out of her rajkumar world n see arnav who he was n is. khushi needs that. i think she is still very naive n childish abt her notions of relationships n love. she is too innocent. n i hope this leads to her maturing of sorts. im saying that bec its what happens in real life.. life not like fairy tales.. n that is a lesson khushi has yet to learn... arnav learned it when he was very young .. but the trauma khushi went thru she has created a dream world that she refuses to come out off.
one thing this show is good at is the fact that arnav n khushi are equals .. i hope we see an angry n mad khushi... not a mahan one that forgives this huge thing in a heartbeat bec she loves her husband no matter what. last time arnav thought khushi was with some one else he was pissed n turned to hating her. i referring to the when he found out she was engaged n the terrace hug. back then he was not in any kind of official relationship with her either. thinking ur husband had a relations before marriage n putting a face to it n knowing a child came out of it should have serious impact on khushi..

the only thing i see good right now is that intensity will be back to the show. hopeful we can go back to the farak pata hai track .. which they dropped half way thru during ... La days.

Edited by geetmaanluv - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: geetmaanluv

i dont want asr to father a kid with some else.. i think that is too much to forgive n forget for khushi..


i hope they treat this track with maturity n we dont see khushi doing comedy regarding such a serious thing... i want khushi to come out of her rajkumar world n see arnav who he was n is. khushi needs that. i think she is still very naive n childish abt her notions of relationships n love. she is too innocent. n i hope this leads to her maturing of sorts. im saying that bec its what happens in real life.. life not like fairy tales.. n that is a lesson khushi has yet to learn... arnav learned it when he was very young .. but the trauma khushi went thru she has created a dream world that she refuses to come out off.
one thing this show is good at is the fact that arnav n khushi are equals .. i hope we see an angry n mad khushi... not a mahan one that forgives this huge thing in a heartbeat bec she loves her husband no matter what. last time arnav thought khushi was with some one else he was pissed n turned to hating her. i referring to the when he found out she was engaged n the terrace hug. back then he was not in any kind of official relationship with her either. thinking ur husband had a relations before marriage n putting a face to it n knowing a child came out of it should have serious impact on khushi..

the only thing i see good right now is that intensity will be back to the show. hopeful we can go back to the farak pata hai track .. which they dropped half way thru during ... La days.

I agree with each and EVERY word you have said! We need to see Khushi act like a grown up about this, and also NOT be a sacrificing lamb, but try to see the true picture! I want her to be a bit stand offish! NO women will just ACCEPT her husband has a child from a past relationship / fling and just feel all OK about it,just coz it was BEFORE he met you!
Yes he didnt cheat you, but you have found out this HUGE truth about him, so you cant just pretend it didnt happen and carry on "Rabba Veying"!! What I want to see is Khushi stopping all these CUTE antics she has been up to lately! Suprising Arnav at the office, getting him breakfast in bed etc etc! ALL the things a new wife crazy about her husband would do!
I want THIS knowldge to put a STOP to all that! I want to see ASR hurting, because Khushi is not being the way she was with him before! Possibly keeping him at arms length! He loves her madly and will find this hard to digest! Especailly when things were going SO well between them!
I want to see "Farak Padata Hain" again!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Completely agree! This is exactly what I feel too.

This is a test for Khushi. I personally think she should talk to Arnav about her suspicions and not do DNA tests behind his back. He will definitely not lie to her, whatever be the case.

However I also feel that the CVs have not timed all this very well. Soon after Shyam was kicked out, they should have shown us ''newly married'' phase with some meaningful conversations, romance, intimacy and love. Instead they showed us a ridiculous OTT comedy track.

Rumors are afloat that the CVs plan to show Honeymoon in December when the TRPs return. So, I think this Sheetal-Arav track is only a filler that will last 5 weeks or so with no lasting consequence.

I am sure honeymoon in December will be magical as well but after several months of marriage, its difficult to bring the 'newly married' charm to it. Timing is everything. And I think they are missing a beautiful phase. They should have planned it better.

I hope they don't turn the current track into some comedy crap. What's with CVs and comedy? They never seem to learn from their mistakes!

But I don't feel the need for any petitions yet! Petitions will loose its value and charm if we have 5 a month. We haven't seen the track yet.






Edited by Afya - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Awesome post...hes a man...even if he was living with anyone thats fine...accepted by the society...and NO i dont want to see a crying n whining khushi...i want her to fight this...tooth n nail...n fight for what is hers...

If shyam is behind this, he will change the DNA test...

Arnav forgot and forgave khushi's past... that was a big thing for him n now it will be khushis turn to forget n forgive his past...

The prob is we want them to be perfect...thats y we want him to be khushis only 😉

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