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Posted: 12 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: McNinja




It can be either sexual or not. In western cultures it's usually sexual and hence the posts on urbandictionary say sexual. But a fling is nothing more than time pass.

And what I'm saying is that IF it was sexual, Arnav wouldn't have been so at ease with sheetal in khushis together. He wouldn't have stopped sheetal to chitchat when she tried to leave. He wouldn't have delayed it further by talking to the kid. He would've tried to get out of there as fast as he could.

that's the point. Arnav was extremely cool with Sheetal. It's hard to believe that he had any kind of intimacy with her in the past.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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If it is true than Arnav is no less than playboy.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: naddiya26

then he has no right to point at Khushi , that aukat all that rubbish. if a guy has he should tell his wife before marriage .

he always said to Khushi tum jaise larkiyun Kai aukat , what he him self >


Are yaar .. he said becoz poor girls will cheat rich woman like woh aurat did to his dad. He is always open abt his relationships, Khushi knows about live in relationship with Lavanya. So she should now ASR has sex before with Ex's
Edited by KranUsa - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: naddiya26

then he has no right to point at Khushi , that aukat all that rubbish. if a guy has he should tell his wife before marriage .

he always said to Khushi tum jaise larkiyun Kai aukat , what he him self >


His aukat and all that was directed at her wealth. I'm sure he's had enough girls trying to trap him. When he called her characterless it was when he accused her of being with a married man...which is wrong.

And it's his past, he doesn't have to bring it up. If however khushi asked him, then yes he should answer her honestly. But khushi never asked and he has no obligation to bring it up. It doesn't make him wrong.

In fact, ask most people Arnav's and khushis age nowadays and they will tell you they have no interest in their partners past love life. Me and my friends and their bfs/husband were having this conversation recently too. By asking questions about your partners past, you're being insecure. But if you do decide to ask, you deserve honest answers. But if your partner doesn't tell you anything themselves, it's not wrong in fact it's encouraged.

People need to realize that this story is based in modern times. Not 1920s India.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#25

Originally posted by: McNinja



His aukat and all that was directed at her wealth. I'm sure he's had enough girls trying to trap him. When he called her characterless it was when he accused her of being with a married man...which is wrong.

And it's his past, he doesn't have to bring it up. If however khushi asked him, then yes he should answer her honestly. But khushi never asked and he has no obligation to bring it up. It doesn't make him wrong.

In fact, ask most people Arnav's and khushis age nowadays and they will tell you they have no interest in their partners past love life. Me and my friends and their bfs/husband were having this conversation recently too. By asking questions about your partners past, you're being insecure. But if you do decide to ask, you deserve honest answers. But if your partner doesn't tell you anything themselves, it's not wrong in fact it's encouraged.

People need to realize that this story is based in modern times. Not 1920s India.


then watch HOLLYWOOD DRAMA
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: __--SaNaYa--__


my foot..sex with other women before marriage is good thing.
It's not easy for indian people like me...such peson called "characterless" in india..ok?

Oh really then you need to check your eyes , we r note talking about your society ok> don't drag it else where ! And who is this coming from you , who leaves not a single bit to bash Arnav ! Ah forget it ! No point in proving you !




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Posted: 12 years ago
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It could be fling one nigt thing may be he got drunk and something happened - may be this was the reason he did not drink on bachelor's night or have the bachelor night celebrations...everything that he said to khushi and khushi tells him if any woman comes in his life she will kill her etc...Fling means Cvs will show a scene from the past so Arnav and Sheetal -

If any of you have seen Masum movie - Supriya Pathak / Nasseruddin Shah - had one night fling - years later she sends him a letter, he has a son, when she is dying something similar could happen

May be Arav is Arnav's son...we had the garden scene where Arnav tells Khushi she is better person than him - may be it was a hint of whats coming...

Arnav is no saint...he believed in live in relationship he never had issues with physical relationship either...kissing etc is normal in a relationship and even at the farm house he tells Khushi he understands she is not comfortable with all the closeness before marriage etc so for him if a fling happened is normal in his world

Khushi if she finds out Arav is Arnav's child she will eventually accept the kid...

Edited by sps0114 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: __--SaNaYa--__


then watch HOLLYWOOD DRAMA

^^^ Height of Sillyness 🤢 🄱
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: __--SaNaYa--__


my foot..sex with other women before marriage is good thing.
It's not easy for indian people like me...such peson called "characterless" in india..ok?


And that's a major problem with desi mentality. It's your opinion if you are for or against it but it's wrong for you to pass judgement on others just bc they think differently.


People are in denial of they think sex before marriage isn't happening in India. It's just the way desi soch is passed on from parents. It made sense in their generation butnyoungo it's 2012 now. Tis stuff happens even if it's hush hush.

Anyway m point isn't to say sex before marriage is fine. My point is we can't judge others who think its ok. judging a person makes you no more saint like or holier.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i can't quote you , but if you think from Khushi point of view it is a very big thing as for her if a unmarried couple Kiss each other it was a big thing, what she will think her husband had slept with some other lady. as far as Khushi know about LA they use to stay in different room & Arnav brought her home to shut his family mouth for marriage, this is indian drama which has values , if he had dont , he is has done wrong
Edited by naddiya26 - 12 years ago

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