Disappointed by a dialogue frm yesterday

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I am not complaining just putting my pov in front of all.

We all know how much pain Khushi has taken for ASR and the depth of her love for Arnav is remarkable. She didn't thought even once when she deals with goons in kidnapping. She is sacrficial and possess angelic traits as a human being.

But I was hurt when she said "aap humare liye itna bhi nahi kar sakte Arnavji".

ASR has been mellowed to Arnav because of Khushi and for Khushi. He has done everything possible to win her back and married her inspite of having serious intolerable issues of their past. Then why this question. She know well how much Arnav loves her and always gone out of the box just to fulfill all her dreams and wishes whether small or big then why "aap mere liye itna bhi nahi sakte" when the guy has done so much for her.

Plz discuss this in present context of the show.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Lazy writing ..nothing else !
However, being married for so many years ...I can say one thing for sure ...when you are hurt and upset, you tend to say things which you wouldn't normally say ...
Maybe it is to come out a winner ..
Maybe it is to rub it in ..
Maybe because you cant think straight coz you are hurt, and angry ...
Or it may be just to make the other person feel horrible and change your own status from being the curprit to becoming the victim ...
I am not saying it is right or wrong ...but it happens !!!😛
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: asr13


<font color="#990000">Lazy writing ..nothing else !</font>

<font color="#990000">However, being married for so many years ...I can say one thing for sure ...when you are hurt and upset, you tend to say things which you wouldn't normally say ...</font>
<font color="#990000">Maybe it is to come out a winner ..</font>
<font color="#990000">Maybe it is to rub it in ..</font>
<font color="#990000">Maybe because you cant think straight coz you are hurt, and angry ...</font>
<font color="#990000">Or it may be just to make the other person feel horrible and change your own status from being the curprit to becoming the victim ...</font>
<font color="#990000">I am not saying it is right or wrong ...but it happens !!!😛</font>

i agree with you... words smetimes come in wrong time... but saying a sorry after that goes a long way becos it helps the married couple a lot
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I guess she was also afflicted with saying things in anger...afte al she is staying with Arnav who always does that..LOL

On a serious note she was upset at not being allowed to get her way in the bday celebrations...she wasn't willing to just wish him and do as he said..she wanted him to reAlise that it was wrong of him to not let her celebrate as she wanted..s she said that..she was aiming at make him realise that the whole day..and when he did realise this was the final shot...letting him know that if he wanted her to Mae his bday special it would have to be her way..

This dialogue and the one about change were self contradictory...remembe the date scene..Khushi said Arnav has done s much for me my way..he has changed himself..so I should do something his way...and then he said he doesn't mind changing fr her but she doesn't need to..

S the writers have selective amnesia regarding the character...

And it had the desired effect...and we got to see Arnav making jalebis as well😛
Edited by prettypri - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I think v r overanalyzing things. Khushi just meant that considering the magnitude of things that have happened in their life,birthday celebration is a very trivial thing n that arnav,like any other person,should have agreed for it for his family's happiness!:)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Well said di.👍🏼 Khushi saying "I have changed so much for you, can't you change a bit for me, can't you share your happiness for me. DidI expect too much from you?".
I hated the direction it took and what Khushi said - Left bitter taste and I was SHOCKED!! o Are you KIDDING ME!! You haven't changed an IOTA for him!! Okay how many MORE times do you want ARNAV to tell you ' "I LOVE YOU THE WAY YOU ARE, please don't change for me".
o Do you remember number of times you embarrassed him in his office, public, his family but still he stood by you and tolerated your child like antics and just smiled at them!!
o He stood by you when you had nobody to support, he stoodagainst the whole world and his family to marry you.
o He went against his beliefs and followed all marriage rituals just because you believed in them.
o He fought with his dark past, he fought with the truth of his dark past and came thru just for you and your love.
o He accepted your mom and your family with the truth and moved on just because they mean the world to you and he truly accepts you AS A WHOLE PACKKAGE ' family included.
o He followed your direction and plan to expose Shyam and stood by you to cover up for yourmistakes.
o Even since he met you he remembered every like, dislike of yours. He fulfilled every simple wish of yours directly and indirectly.
o Every time he hurt you, he hurt himself more, every time he did something wrong he apologized.
So even after all the above you have the nerve to say "Can't you change a LITTLE BIT FOR ME"? ' UNBELEIVEABLE!!
Then what do we get,Kushi asking Arnav "what about my Birthday? Will you wish me?Will you celebrate?
Mrs. Khushi Kumari Gupta Singh Raizada, do you have a short term memory loss? - Do you remember the 2 lacs bag he bought for you?
- Do you remember he spent the day with you and your family eating away all that was served and tolerating your tantrums?
- Do you remember he told his family about your birthday and ensured they wished you?
- Do you remember he decorated poolside with fairy lights, because you like them?
- Do you remember he brought cake for you?
- Do you remember he bought a Sari for you?
- Do you remember he asked naniji to make your favorite food?
- Do you remember he enacting your stupid antics to make you smile?
ABOVE ALL ' - DO YOU REMEMBER HE KISSED YOU AND SAID HAPPY BIRTHDAY AND WISHED ALL THE HAPPINESSINTHE WORLD WITH A SPECIAL ROSE FROM HIS MOTHER'S GARDEN? - YOU WERE AWAKE AT THAT TIME...And when did you REALLY START LISTENING TO YOUR HUSBAND OR DID WHAT HE WANTED YOU TO DO?
- Since the day you met him,you ALWAYS went against him. He opposite of what Arnav wanted to do
. - You never missed a chance TO LECTURE HIM ABOUT HOW WRONG HE IS'
- You never missed a chance to PLAY A TRICK on him to prove your point'..
- If none of the above worked, YOUR TEARS ALWAYS did the TRICK and made sure ARNAV did what you wanted'.
What happened to you UNDERSTANDING Arnav even when he didn't say a word? Evenwhen he lost his voice? Even when he tried hiding behind LAYERS and LAYERS of HATRED, Even when he spoke things he didn't mean, you understood what his HEART wanted to say. You COMPLETED HIS SENTENCES !!
'But today when HE REALLY GAVE HINTS, YOU DIDN'T GET ANY OF IT!! Of all the times you didn't listen to ARNAV today was the time when YOU REALLY SHOULDN'T HAVE LISTENED TO HIM TODAY!!
So it doesn't matter Whose Birthday it is, its ARNAV who has to celebrate, make arrangements,apologize!!
Today I felt that Anjali and Khushihave some similarities-
WITH ARNAV THEY BOTH GET THEIR WAY OUT ' BY HOOK OR CROOK OR TEARS.- IT'S ALWAYS ARNAV WHO HAS COME DOWN ANDDO WHAT THEY WANT.- IT'S ALWAYS ARNAV WHO HAS TO UNDERSTAND THEM AND FULFILL THEIR WISHES.
BAS BOL DIYA... THEY HAVE NOT BUTCHERD,THEY HAVE KILLED THE ESSENCE OF CHAR. ASR. 😡
Above all just for the statement she said yesterday. Its nothing beyond that and no bashing just my pov.
🤗
Edited by vkp1989 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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yup when he have changed so much for her
but she must have said that in the heat of the moment

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: lrlpam

I think v r overanalyzing things. Khushi just meant that considering the magnitude of things that have happened in their life,birthday celebration is a very trivial thing n that arnav,like any other person,should have agreed for it for his family's happiness!:)



yup i think ur post makes sense n justifies Khushi's dialogue...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I think she just wanted him to enjoy that special day...And he kept on insisting he did not need anything hurt her and she thought he did not want her wish too...So she might have told that in that context...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I think that question does not have a larger dimension, it was just circumstantial. I feel so. Don't think she thinks he is not doing anything for her or not changed himself for her.

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