we need to change

Hello everyone. This post is only my monologue where i am trying to recollect the actual way the characters ASR and KKGSR have been transformed in these 365 episodes. ASR was a rude ruthless (for others not for his di) but no where he hurt others... This bada gussawala also never hurt anybody...wait...wait...now i remember he hit that person and paid him 2crores... ofcourse lavanya is another prey for whom even we dont feel much pain... and finally khushi...his punch bag... He said every bad word...or rather "words that hurt any woman" to heragain and again and he is the sole responsible for every tear that she shed... what about his tears that rolled down in silence?

What right ASR has to hurt her physically? But who gave him the right to say sorry to her and put bandage on her?
What right ASR has to send khushi away from his house?but who gave him right to bring her back everytime?
What right ASR has to call her naukar? But who gave him right to serve food as waiter when needed?
What right ASR has got to misunderstand khushi in shyam's case...but did khushi ever understand arnav nad tell him about shyam? Alright she thought shyam will change after the pregnacy of anjali... but how many times after that she had chances to realise that shyam has not changed?

When khushi could explain Arnav the importance of marriage...parents being stars and relationships/love and belief in being together to the stone hearted arnav...and make him believe( atleast he listens to her) why not explain the true face of shyam to arnav ?

Then came the kidnap...KKGSR tried her best to in the past to find out from ASR the reason behind their contract marriage... instead of arguing and playing pranks on him couldn't she sit with him and open the conversation with him?

During kidnap, arnav didnot know anything about shyam and his evil plans but he realised khushi's innocence without any proof. He knew only the fact that khushi came to rescue him and he loved her...believed her...missed her and made him totally change for her.

In cotrary, khushi took help of maami but never believed and reveal her anything...she took the help of nk but never revealed the truth to him either...Is that not called "EGO".

My biggest question is who has more ego and who needs redemption on loving people and believing the people around you?

Post kidnap scene, asr knows shyam is cheating anjali...but he doesnt know anything that he is cheatig and hurting khushi... finally when the time arrived he slapped shyam for hurting both his di and his wife.

After the choas settled khushi never realised the feelings of arnav and spend time to explain actual deeds of shyam.. while she has all the time to resolve her jiji,s family issues...discuss wit devimayya... and running away telling lies to the whole family... Still knowing everything arnav stood by her. He tried to resolve the issue! W

At this point we all know who wanted to save the marriage and who wanted to end the marriage ?

Did she not see anytime how arnav stood by her althrough the dadi's antiques? But she remembered only pheras? After that arnav put khushi before everybody and evrything... what did he get back? A stupid date...not even onceshe cared for him to reciprocate with the same love other than a hug (which ecven friend gets)
The most important day hell broke loose...and who came out stronger and changed ?

Another epic...khushi went around the house with a pen and a paper and a phone with alarm and did all the panicking just to stop eeryone in the family not even to wish him and totally blame arnav for not changing even after marriage? How did marriage change khushiji ? But when its her birthday... he tried every possible way to make her happy and surprise her.. he wished her too and gave her the flower from mom's garden and khushi knows everyhing well... still why should she ask him to change ?

Who needs a change and redemption ? Redemption is something feel sorry for the past deedsand saying heartfelt sorry and not to repeat the mistakes again and change yourself acc...to others life...their tastes...their believes...and love the other person with flaws...anc no doubt arnav has already done evrything withou any ego...

So now we have to change...once we hated arnav for being rude an we love him his undying love for khushi... once we sympathised with khushi as she did not get her due love...but now she has everything but still the same ...stupid ideas and asking others to change ! Only Devimaiyya can answer me ! withoutany any proof. him...

Totally agree with you.

Originally posted by: sulu_123

Totally agree with you.

Khushi needs to realise how much ASr has changed for her. How he has tried to make up for his past mistakes. She is making a mockery of his feelings. On the movie date, she cud not understand what he wanted and spoiled his entire day.

On arnav's birthday, it is as if her ego is hurt becoz he refused to celebrate his b'day in spite of khushi assuring every one else that he will, now that he is married.

So she asked everyone not to wish him.

That was very mean of her.

As if she wanted to get back at him.

But she forgot that it was his b'day and he had a right to be happy. She cud have served him good food at least but she served karela ki sabzi.

Really khushu doesn't understand ASR. She cudnt understand that on his b'day, he wanted to spend time with her.

Khushi needs to change and become more mature and not act like a kid.

true

CVs pl note.

The cvs bad planning spoiled both khushi's and arnav's b'days. We viewrs were looking forward for some happiness on khushi's bday which we dint get.

So cvs thought,

What the? Even arnav's bday must b spoiled. How can we let the viewers enjoy arnav's bday??

true... she should be with him more like i read in some post like a wife she be with him while he gets ready for office or just to be with him in the evenings... i dont think she works so much in the house that she is always in the hall