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Sunaina Mitra

@sunaina02

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+ 6

Posted: 12 years ago

#11

It is not a crime to be only Barun fan. Neither is it a crime to be only Sanaya fan . We dont always have to balance by being Sarun fans . Or there may be people who love Sarun but are not really fans of Barun and Sanaya individually

The solution to the problem is we have to accept and respect each other .

Edited by sunaina02 - 12 years ago

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momma1128

@momma1128

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Posted: 12 years ago

#12

@Rima - we have to be careful with the language we use. We have to be careful with what kind of feelings we fire up in others. You have come precisely to my point, why is it that your threads get into Khushi versus Arnav and then into Sanaya versus Barun. It is because somewhere, the tone, the language,, the sentiment changes into something personal...and quite frankly, we are all watching a show. I know you feel very much for Khushi, but championing for her shouldn't result in hurting real people's feelings by saying that they don't understand women, particularly when we don't know anything about them other than their online profile pic or dp.

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Mandy

@MrDarcyfan

Stunner

+ 6

Posted: 12 years ago

#13

I could not agree more with you! There was a time when we all used to talk about what ASR does or what Khushi does and agree and disagree! Sometimes agree to disagree!

However, this is not the case anymore! I have spoken against the "Charachter" ASR when I felt he has done wrong! Sometimes I have thought that Khushi is acting the wrong way! (During the Swami phase, and when her nonsense resulted in Arnav collapsing from low sugar!)

Lately I have been more FOR Khushi as I have felt that she has been wronged more than anyone else in the story, and she appears not to be getting any acknowledgement or any justice for the same! BUT when you speak for Khushi some people call you a"Abala Nari supporter"!! I NEVER thought Khushi was an "Abala Nari"!! IF I thought that, I would never support her!!!

I LOVE the charachter ASR / Arnav and I admire and respect Barun Sobati a LOT!! Same goes for Sanaya Irani! I like her equally! Yes Barun being a very handsome man, gets my eyeballs to focus on him more!! (since I am a straight women!!) :)

However, I dont confuse my admiration for Barun, with the charachter ASR! Neither will I take his side in an "Inane" manner because I like BARUN the actor! The charchter he plays is someone else! It is NOT him! I think people have started to lose distinction between the two! THAT is why there is all this bashing from Barun & Sanaya fans for each other!!

I am a fan of BOTH! Therefore I dont bash anyone for being a fan of either! However, some people have only ONE view! They are UNABLE to see the other side of the coin!

A bashing post was made by a member using a different name and I saw MY id name on the list of people she said needs to "F off"! Probably coz I had critisized ASR during the past revelation scenes! (I was shocked to say the least, by the sentiments expressed!) However, I had made a post SUPPORTING Barun when the PH pulled that "Notice & Zee News" stunt! I can distinguish the differance between ASR and Barun!

What IRKS me is the LACK of respect given to people from both sides with differing opinions! 12 months ago, this forum was NOT like this! I think we ALL need a reality check! Lets come here to talk about the SHOW! Lets keeps things REAL and CIVIL!! NOT to bash people for being a fan of someone!

I think everyone here is mature enough to be able to do that!!

Edited by MrDarcyfan - 12 years ago

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momma1128

@momma1128

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Posted: 12 years ago

#14

@Darcyfan and Su- it is just literally about respect. You don't need to love SaRun. There are people in the forum who actually just like the show and don't care much about the jodi. But what I don't understand is why we have these labels. One day I explain ASR, I am drooler, one day I say the show stinks, I am a Barun basher...it is getting nauseating.

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Zarahatke

@Zarahatke

Dazzler

+ 7

Posted: 12 years ago

#15

Yaar much needed one
I dont know why we are separating barun n sanaya fans
As far as i know its suppose to be ipk forun not only barun or sanaya forum page why we r drawing a line between arnav n khushi character
Its a daily soap there is going to be an up n downs with each n every character its very hard to balance all of the character at a time n not always why we r critisizing each n every scene? Why r we bashing the characters.
I start watching ipk in january n became the member in march ufff it used to be a most wonderful place where i usually come to relax reading the most beautiful post ff os written updates but nowadays i m actually really avoiding the posts which i feel ll become a war ground.
I feel sad now as this is the very first time i joined any forum because i love sarun i love ipk its not i love epi each n everyday but i know tgis is one different soap with most talented lead ni just love to watch them each n everyday
Miss those golden days of our forum but i ll be with ipk till the end no matter wht because i love sarun

Thanks for the post 100% agree n its just mu thought no offense

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lolly143

@lolly143

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 12 years ago

#16

excellent post dear...👏
i have seen similar posts during the past few days regarding the unity of the forum and etc...etc...etc...
but the big question is " DO PEOPLE HEAR THAT ?"
sadly the answer is a big fat "NO"

reason no 1 is ego
reason no 2 is some cannot understand the difference between reel characters and real characters
reason no 3 is barun/arnav vs sanaya/kushi fan clubs
reason no 4 is panicing on facts which are not confirmed
reason no 5 is droolers/phangirls vs critics/ bashers
reason no 6 is abusive language some members use

finally i have just one thing to say...once i said the same thing in rima's post
there is no ipkknd without arshi
there's no arshi without sarun
they create the magic together...and the credit goes to both of them equally...

Edited by lolly143 - 12 years ago

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rima

@rima

Stunner

+ 10

Posted: 12 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: momma1128
@Rima - we have to be careful with the language we use. We have to be careful with what kind of feelings we fire up in others. You have come precisely to my point, why is it that your threads get into Khushi versus Arnav and then into Sanaya versus Barun. It is because somewhere, the tone, the language,, the sentiment changes into something personal...and quite frankly, we are all watching a show. I know you feel very much for Khushi, but championing for her shouldn't result in hurting real people's feelings by saying that they don't understand women, particularly when we don't know anything about them other than their online profile pic or dp.

completely disagree

none of my threads use any language or derogatory things against ASR

if people can't differentiate I can't teach them

My threads have a record of being seldome closed

I never permit personal attacks

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rima

@rima

Stunner

+ 10

Posted: 12 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: momma1128
@Rima - we have to be careful with the language we use. We have to be careful with what kind of feelings we fire up in others. You have come precisely to my point, why is it that your threads get into Khushi versus Arnav and then into Sanaya versus Barun. It is because somewhere, the tone, the language,, the sentiment changes into something personal...and quite frankly, we are all watching a show. I know you feel very much for Khushi, but championing for her shouldn't result in hurting real people's feelings by saying that they don't understand women, particularly when we don't know anything about them other than their online profile pic or dp.

one more thing

some of the biggest Khushi supporters uses a Barun DP

I am not that young to confuse DP with a person's choice

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kauser

@mazkachazka

Sparkler

+ 6

Posted: 12 years ago

#19

be back shortly..aww anu you made a post :)

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momma1128

@momma1128

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 12 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: Zarahatke
Yaar much needed one
I dont know why we are separating barun n sanaya fans
As far as i know its suppose to be ipk forun not only barun or sanaya forum page why we r drawing a line between arnav n khushi character
Its a daily soap there is going to be an up n downs with each n every character its very hard to balance all of the character at a time n not always why we r critisizing each n every scene? Why r we bashing the characters.
I start watching ipk in january n became the member in march ufff it used to be a most wonderful place where i usually come to relax reading the most beautiful post ff os written updates but nowadays i m actually really avoiding the posts which i feel ll become a war ground.
I feel sad now as this is the very first time i joined any forum because i love sarun i love ipk its not i love epi each n everyday but i know tgis is one different soap with most talented lead ni just love to watch them each n everyday
Miss those golden days of our forum but i ll be with ipk till the end no matter wht because i love sarun

Thanks for the post 100% agree n its just mu thought no offense

@bold - I have a slightly different take. This is a forum and people are allowed to nitpick and say what they want about the scenes, whether they loved it or hated it. But if you disagree, or agree, it is the dialogue within that post that I have issue with. Sometimes the criticisms are just and some are used to ding other members while criticizing the show. If it is the latter, that is where I have an issue - that is not about the show, that is about personal grudges and lead to war zones.

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