Barun is HUMAN..R U?

I knew today will be full on bashing of Sobti...

Ok lets get to the point.

FANS?? r u guys really Sobti fans ? Till yesterday everyone was drooling over Barun...oh he is so hot and all that...all of a sudden the love disappears...R we even watching a love story?? The greatest Love is to let go. If u truly love someone you will let him go...however heart wrenching it is. Because that is Love. I doubt the Love of those people who once said they love Barun and bla bla...because they are the ones now saying that he is opportunistic, un-professional and all non-sense just because he wants to have success in his life. Who does not? I understand many forum members are high school and college girls. Many have not experienced the bitter life of having to provide for your family.

Barun is honest. Period. Yes he may or may not decide to leave. But that is up to him. Who are we to advise him on his future. Do any one of u care for his future more than him? NO. So he knows what is best for him.

A few facts...and bitter realities.

1. Life is not a bed of roses. Barun must have experienced this since he started working at 17. Providing for his family's financial needs most probably.

2. IF it was not for his dream to become an actor, we would not have gotten ASR and IPKKND. Now we want him all to ourselves?? we dont want him to grow? should he forever stay ASR.?? Those who are saying that he should wait for 1 year, scroll to point 3.

3. After 1 year the show will most probably fizz out as it happens with all shows. The popularity of ASR will GO DOWN. Very few producers will approach Barun then. So, this is the time there is hype and demand and OPPORTUNITY DOES NOT KNOCK ON THE DOOR TWICE.

4. IF Barun forever stays with IPKKND for his fans sake, then when IPK ends, will we feed him? WILL U FEED HIM? I DONT THINK SO.

5. I LOVE IPK AND BARUN. It was also a dilemma for me to accept and get ready for an unstable show in the future. IPK is religion to me. I eat, drink, sleep IPK. But I don't feed Barun or his family.

So if he has aspirations to continue and reach higher, then God bless him and I am with him.

5. As for un-professionalism, who said giving a notice is un-professional. Have some of you worked EVER? We all give notices to our first employer for greener pastures. The first employer who dared employ an inexperienced worker. So what is so wrong in giving a notice?

6. For those who say that he got a C grade film, so what? SRK got maya mehmsaab. Risk sometimes pays and sometimes fails. So what if he is taking a risk? There is nothing wrong with a C grade movie. Seriously, REALITY is more bitter than what we see on TV. Not everything is grand. Everything starts from the bottom.

7. The guy is committed. Go back to kidnapping track. He barely used to sleep. After all this commitment, this is what he gets. Great'

9. Barun did not ask you to drool over him and love him. You did by choice. He is not obliged to answer . He does not live for us. FACT.

GOD!! You call yourselves fans? please don't use this word again. Fans are well-wishers. Give the guy a break and stop bringing his wife in all this.

Barun is young, 28 to be precise. This is the right age to make a move. When he will become old, all his fans will forget him. FACT. Who will feed him then? YOU, BASHERS WILL YOU FEED HIM AND HIS WIFE AND CHILDREN?

REMEMBER, IT IS ALWAYS ABOUT THE MONEY. A FACT. We all work for money. No one breaks their bones for the fun of it. Barun works 12 hours, barely gets time to meet his wife.

SO , my final word, IF U CANNOT SUPPORT HIM, DON'T EVEN TRY TO ANALYSE AND ASSESS HIS DECISIONS. THERE IS NO POINT. BECAUSE YOU HAVE DECIDED TO NOT SUPPORT HIM.

BARUN IS A HUMAN BEING WITH A HUMAN HEART, WHICH HAS ASPIRATIONS AND DREAMS.

AND WE ARE NOT GOD TO DECIDE BARUN'S DESTINY. IF HE IS TO SUCCEED HE WILL AND ALL THE RIGHT LEFT AND CENTRE BASHING IS NOT GOING TO STOP HIM.

Long post but very much needed to those people who used to once Love him..so called Love. And those people who have started giving him names like opportunistic '.well WAKE UP. Opportunistic people are successful people. That is how the world functions. That is how a business runs. That is how a career runs. LIFE. BITTER? YES. FACTS AND REALITY. BITTER? YES. Well that is life.

I feel for Barun today. The guy is sweet natured. Just because he has wishes, and we are selfish , he has to get all the bashing.

I wish he never visits this forum because currently the negative is over-riding the positive posts but all the positive people, please stay here and get the message through. BARUN WE ARE WITH YOU.

Good night everyone and bashers too'I pray you find your peace and win the battle within your hearts and understand what a true fan means.

By the way this forum rarely replies to newbies but please atleast stick to this. All the active members please shed light.

EDIT: I am not able to thank all of you because IF does not allow a newbie to make more than 10 posts per day😭...but Thank you all for replying. Others please keep on replying. We need to show BS that true fans do exist. The guy has been bashed just enough.

Thank you for your much needed post. I completely agree with you.

I wrote somewhere else nd will repeat here. All of us will quit our current jobs if we get better offers. It is as simple as that. Nothing more nothing less. Get a life and let him alsi lead his life.

Originally posted by: svmi

Thank you for your much needed post. I completely agree with you.

I wrote somewhere else nd will repeat here. All of us will quit our current jobs if we get better offers. It is as simple as that. Nothing more nothing less. Get a life and let him alsi lead his life.

Very well said! My thoughts exactly! Although, if he decided to leave, will miss him being ASR..but you are right! It is his life..and if he has an opportunity then..frankly, he should go for it! It Is a risk..but I am sure he is well-versed with risk..as he quit his day job to get into acting! I wish him luck!

Unprofessional part was perfect. No one can call him unprofessional. If he was unprofessional, he would not have searched for other opportunities. A professional will not mix up his emotion and work. So, he is professional. Let him take a wise decision. I personally would want him in the show.

A great post...I felt much better after reading it..Thanks!!

And yes I'll alway remain Barun Sobti's admirer...Love you BS.

A much needed post thanks you've said everything I wanted tonsay!!

Originally posted by: Mariam_Sultan

I completely agree with you.
I am Barun Sobti's admirer
I hope to see his films like Shah Rukh Khan and Salman Khan
But at the same time I prefer to see his show ipkknd has a happy ending before he starts any movie project .