To start off.. woah, who said Arnav did something for Khushi??? Wait, what?? Are we all watching the same show???
Honestly I say again, the Arnav who came back from the kidnapping is not the guy I fell in love with.. Everything he did since then was either for Dadi or for his Di or for his family. Yes, he did support her in front of Dadi.. the one time when he stepped out of the room for her sake (oh wait, or was it to piss off Dadi 'coz she said his father's name?).. But what did he do when Dadi accused Khushi of her character.. insulted her and her family.. called her names... nothing.. His brilliant argument.. she is my wife..!! Wah, Arnav.. !! You could have brought up the contract marriage and cleared Khushi's name then and there.. everyone would have known how awesome Khushi was.. But nope, you didn't! Only Nani knows the truth about Shyam.. why haven't you told anyone else.. why do you let them think assume that you threw Shyam out by just believing your wife.. why not tell them you had proof too.. why let them think that since you have done something, of course it must be right! Ok, let's excuse that too.. now when Dadi asked Khushi to leave the house, Arnav agreed to do the rituals, if that was the only way Khushi could stay with him.. I would have loved him more if he had thought of it on his own, because Khushi wanted it.. and not because of his Dadi!
I mean until NK pointed out at the sangeet, Arnav didn't even realize he never asked Khushi if she still wanted to marry him, after all the insults he gave her. How could he just assume that she did (but then again she is a moron, she forgives as if she is a goddess.. I never understood why she became that way .. love does indeed reduce people eh in this story.. both Arnav and Khushi became blind, deaf and dumb!)
Ok forget that.. back to the topic!
Please dont even get me started about how he forgets Khushi when his Di is upset.. which is exactly why I don't trust him now that Dadi brought up his mom.. will you do this and disrespect your Mom? I mean the romantic side of me still wants to trust Arnav and his love for Khushi, but I lost hope a long time back.. that he actually really really loves her.. I mean I don't see it.. but then again with LM back, I have hope that he will show us that love once again!
I loved all your points! I hope Arnav asks Dadi all that (but then again, I would rather he just say screw you, I dont have time for this. I am off to marry my Khushi and run to the venue where his bride is waiting for him, leaving Dadi alone at Shantivan to romance with Shyam, who didn't go for the wedding either 😆)
I want him to also tell Dadi that he will marry Khushi, because unlike his father, he actually cares about his wife! How different will he be from his father, if he gives up on his marriage and gives no respect to his wife?
I also hope he confronts Garima and asks for the truth from her.. he knows Garima.. he has seen her love.. I hope he doesn't do the same mistake of trusting hte wrong person.. once again! He did this last time - Then he trusted Shyam even though he knew Shyam was bad. Now he knows Dadi doesn't want him getting married to Khushi. Then he didn't give Khushi a chance to explain. Now I want him to give Garima a chance!
Anyways, so many hopes, so many wishes.. but sigh, I have a feeling we will be disappointed. I actually was proud of Arnav today when he said if the truth will separate him from Khushi, he doesn't want to know it. And then what happens, Dadi says the magic word - Ma. Of course the moment someone says Ma or Di, Arnav's mind goes blank! Why does it have to be that way.. is it for the TRP aunties who will curse the CVs if the hero doesn't love his mom and sister more than his wife? This is pathetic. If a guy loves his wife, he should stand by her against everyone! He should bold enough to face anything that comes his way. He knows Khushi loves him .. he has seen how much she has sacrificed for him ..
and what has he done for her so far... Nothing!!
But then again its not a contest I agree.. but Khushi deserves more! She deserves a lot more for everything she has done for Arnav.. and honestly what I want to see if Khushi walking out on Arnav and not accepting a pity wedding.. that's exactly what this re-marriage was in the first place.. and now again if it gets postponed because of a Raizada ( or well a Malik) because Arnav didn't have the balls to pick her over his family.. then screw him.. I want her to walk out and him to beg her, and prove to her that he indeed loves her!
I'm sorry.. if anyone is hurt by this. Yes, I know all of us want this magical love story where Arnav and Khushi will end up together. But if Arnav will treat Khushi this way, then I dont want them to end up together. It's wrong! He deserves her only if he realizes that she means more to him than everyone else .. including his Di! It makes me sad, seriously to see how he forgets his love for Khushi the moment his Di is sad.. It makes me angry! It makes me real angry, because I know how it feels.. but I have fought and not given up for my love.. and so did Khushi.. now it's his turn to prove to her that he will fight for his love too!
Prove it Arnav.. and make me happy.. Don't disappoint me again.
I want to see the Arnav that I fell in love with.. please don't disappoint me tomorrow. I will be heartbroken!
Ok, wow.. I can't believe I rambled on and on, sweetie. Thanks for this amazing post. Love you!
Edited by boreddamsel - 13 years ago
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