Originally posted by: rima
it is Ok buddy I understand
the forum nowadays is beginning to look like a Khushi forum for some reason maybe
it may look like khushi defenders do not want asr to marry khushi
i can say on behalf of all my friends who defend khushi that what we want is ASR and Khushi to be together
but with due respect to her, with fair treatment from his family and with euqali treatment as his di someday
@Poja: I have avoided 'r' posts for months together, but if today I thought of posting here, was only to say that both Arnav and Khushi are hurt souls... You can ask for khushi's happiness, but that really shouldnt defer as Arnav HAS SUFFERED NOTHING when compared to Khushi... Its their love story... so both deserve to be happy, not just khushi... but guess we were trying to prove a point in a wrong thread !!!
@Harshitha: Normally TM's post has all people agreeing to her.. 'Yes Khushi deserves better' is the slogan followed.. and when somebody barges into this thread with a slightly different view, it will probably turn into an argument... I think all of us have maintained cool.. none of them have bashed each other.. we all are matured enough to put out our points with dignity
@Rima:
Bold: I have said this to you in all my PMs... Its become an understated fact now !!!
Rima, we all have priorities in our lives.. that man has lived his life just for his dii and her happiness for 14 years and it will take time for him to give an equal priority to Khushi... You are older than me and more experienced... havent you seen this happening in families? Arnav actually told Shyam that his wife and di matter to him the most... People dont keep proving points to each other all through their lives... nor do you keep dissecting each other's mistakes... if that was the situation, then how many couples would manage to lead a happy life? And at times, problem take a priority over all relationships.. Wasnt Arnav trying his best to her every rasam she wanted? wasnt he being happy seeing her happy? Had he planned Di's MC? and at this moment, how can we expect him to give priority to Khushi over his Di? Yes things should have been better... she deserved her dream marriage, but Arnav is not the sole reason for all her unhappiness and this is the tiniest thing I want some people to understand.
I am out now... have a good discussion đ
Edited by ranjitha - 13 years ago
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