I think Anjali is around 32 or even 33? She would have been at least 20 at the last wedding. Even if she wasn 18, today she will be 32! I think she is around 4-6 years older than Arnav!
Arnav is now 28! Anjali has been married for 4 years and after 3 years + of trying, got pregnant! I think that is one of the reasons Arnav is taking this so badly! His sister's wish to have a child was fulfilled after many years of trying! SO this blow is even worse than it would otherwise be!
However, on a total aside, Arnav and Anjali's parents were SO irresponsbile they left their children alone in the world?? Arnav's Mother is just like Anjali, who put her HUSBAND ahead of the welfare of her child / children! When Arnav's Mother shot herself coz she thought her husband cheated her, she didnt think of her CHILDREN??
On that score, STOPWA was right! What she did was weak! Her SON was weak too, to follow behind her! They both abandoned their children in the world! Then Dadi also abandoned them and went to the Ashram! The uncle kicked them out of Sheesh Mahal!
The only people who were there for them were the Raizada's! They must have all moved to Delhi to avoid the scandal in Lucknow!