I am going to be blunt but ...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Since everyone is talking about how horrible and disgraceful this track is for IPKKND ...

I am going to be blunt and tell you all to look out of your comfort zone and see what people around you live , Nor everyone is blessed with a perfect stable sheltered life like you ...


Today , you blame Anjali , why ?? Because she trusted the one person who she thinks loves her madly ...Remember her parents died and she has taken on the responsibility of her brother at a young age...A age where most of us are enjoying life in colleges or Unis with friends

This girls was trying to make sure that her Chottey was okay , She didnt have a roof over her head , She had only the support of her Nani and brother

For someone deprived of affection like this , when someone
Like Shyam showers you with love and adoration ... you learn to
Hold on to it , you don't wait it to go and that's what happened with Anjali ...

Some may say she is delusional but having personally experienced with my uncle who was also deprived of love and when he met his wife , She showered him with the love that he always craved for , He gave in and trusted her with everything, His whole life -

He decieved him , cheated on him and he always took her back , This went on for 7 Years ...Imagine Anjali in this situation and no he wasn't delusional ...He just craved love which he believed that people around him werent providing for him...

Today , He suffers from schizophrenia , You can google
It...it's a very serious psychological illness and he will never recover ...


The point I am trying to make
, quite bluntly is that we need to
Stop being selfish and look outside because there is suffering all
Over and not Everyone has the
Perfect life

Stop being so self conceited and give a thought for
The ones around who don't always have happiness in their lives

We now that khushi has suffer and she has been paid her due ...but she will
, Just trust the Cvs ...They won't throw away their hard work of nearly 1 1/2 years


Stop Thinking about Arnav and
Khushi and thinkAbout Anjali
And Dalijeet

DB took a very risky decision to
Continue with this track , not because she wanted screen
Space but because she want her abilities as an actress challenged...


Anjali , She has just lost her baby , Dont feel an inch of sympathy for her ...

And please don't predict how Khushi is going to be blamed for and Arnav is not going to support her ...

Unless of course you are physic ...


Please leave your comments behind because I made this post at like 3 am
At night ...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Remember her parents died and she has taken on the responsibility of her brother at a young age...A age where most of us are enjoying life in colleges or Unis with friends

This girls was trying to make sure that her Chottey was okay , She didnt have a roof over her head , She had only the support of her Nani and brother

it was the other way around. arnav took the responsibility of his elder sister at a time when he needed a support the most and he was trying to make sure his di was OK. anjali was always the pampered girl protected by each and everyone.

now coming to the rest of ur post. I understand the example u gave and can co-relate anjali with it and understand her situation as well but what I dont understand ir appreciate is how can someone be so blind in love that they forget the love and sacrifices of their own brother? how can she be so lost in love that she did not realise that her brother, her beloved chhote was almost killed by her so-called husband? how can she be so delusional as to try to kill her own unborn child with a pair of scissors?

well these are the problems, I have with anjali but despite that i still sympathise with her for her miscarriage. Also, our main problem is not with anjali but with the cvs and the ridiculous amount of screen space being given to her by cutting short arhi's screen time and coz of giving her the lead treatment when the real leads are being treated as extras
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i will just say one thing , why she never thought about her brother ?as he always do best for his DI , she didnot trusted him once
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Posted: 13 years ago
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She did not take responsibility of his brother .Arnav took her responsibility.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Edella17


The point I am trying to make
, quite bluntly is that we need to
Stop being selfish and look outside because there is suffering all
Over and not Everyone has the
Perfect life

Stop being so self conceited and give a thought for
The ones around who don't always have happiness in their lives

We now that khushi has suffer and she has been paid her due ...but she will
, Just trust the Cvs ...They won't throw away their hard work of nearly 1 1/2 years

Stop Thinking about Arnav and
Khushi and thinkAbout Anjali
And Dalijeet

DB took a very risky decision to
Continue with this track , not because she wanted screen
Space but because she want her abilities as an actress challenged...


Anjali , She has just lost her baby , Dont feel an inch of sympathy for her ...

And please don't predict how Khushi is going to be blamed for and Arnav is not going to support her ...

Unless of course you are physic ...


Please leave your comments behind because I made this post at like 3 am
At night ...


with due respect to your point of view...

i would just say DB didn't take any risk to continue with this track... it was CV's desperate attempt to gather sympathy vote... but unfortunately DB is not actress with the caliber to pull this role with convection (no offense if you are her fan... but fact can't be ignored) so i don't feel any sympathy for a woman who is more worried about her husband being caught then taking care of her health and her baby... i equally blame scripting & direction of the scene also...
she and CV defended her character on and off screen... when nothing worked out and TRP's continued to drop in the name of soo called twist today's episode was telecast ed... but unfortunately they didn't even aired a single promo so the targeted audience were clueless and those who saw are not happy...



Edited by sayali_d23 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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See I do feel sad abt the miscarriage. the word itself is enuff to bring a deep sense of loss and sad feeling in mind...

But if u say to look outside of comfort zone not everyone has a doting family to treat them like a porcelain doll, not everyone has a brother who loves them so much that he would go to the extent of marrying someone he hates to keep his sis happy, not everyone has the financial security offered by a brother where the woman does not need to worry about the future...

In spite of all this she chose to trust her husband over a brother like Arnav. Okay he is her husband she will trust him, but did she even try listening to her brother's side of the story. When he tried telling her she threw him out of the room. So when she can give an ear to her husband she cannot do that for her brother??

If she expects her brother to give her utmost imp in his life why cant she even give him a little loyalty and trust..
Edited by memyselfandrshi - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: chillygirl

Remember her parents died and she has taken on the responsibility of her brother at a young age...A age where most of us are enjoying life in colleges or Unis with friends

This girls was trying to make sure that her Chottey was okay , She didnt have a roof over her head , She had only the support of her Nani and brother


it was the other way around. arnav took the responsibility of his elder sister at a time when he needed a support the most and he was trying to make sure his di was OK. anjali was always the pampered girl protected by each and everyone.



Totally agree with you here
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Posted: 13 years ago
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The track is showcasing her as a weak woman. It will do nothing to project her range as an actress.

Miscarriage is serious. It is traumatic. It was a desperate and a distasteful ploy on the part of the writers to create a drama situation to give the villain a re-entry into the main frame. A villain who is smirking at the possible demise of HIS unborn child. A villain who is there in the first place because his wife refused to look at all the evidence that was right in front of her against her slimeball of a husband, just because they wanted to keep him alive and present in the show.

Sorry, this has nothing to do about a plight of a woman who is about to loose a child. Miscarriage is very serious and is extremely traumatic.

They could have made anjali a stronger woman who stepped out of her comfort zone and decided to raise her child alone. That would have been a soch nayi.

I appreciate your putting your view forth. And i respect it. I just beg to differ about anjali.
Edited by mommy2000 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I am mad because the leads have become sides! That's all! I signed up to watch a love story between ArShi. I'm not getting that, that's why I am mad!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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While I sympathise with what happened to your uncle, and understand your POV, I believe Anjali's is a different case - Arnav closed him self out to everything! - literally - and cared for only ONE person - His Di - I don't know if it's the dialogue or the flow of the story but to me she seems like a very selfish person who doesn't even appreciate what her brother has done for her.

If only they had shown her having a battle inside of her between what her loving and caring brother said and what her husband that she blindly believes said - because she loves and trust's them both! (apparently) then I would sympathise with her - but for now - sorry shop's closed 😛

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