Anjali , Arnav, Shyam,Khushi , relationships - Page 3

Originally posted by: trina2010

I CANT BELIEVE I am doing this but today I felt she is a very normal character.Sibling love ican never be as strong as love between partners.Anjali was acting normal . Arnav has to learn this from her. I want him to feel what he did to Khushi has no value except he ruined her life in a way. His di was never going to trust him had he told her the truth about Shyam before also. Anjali trusts Shyam more than Arnav in a way and Arnavs all attempts to keep them away DID NOTHING TO STOP HER FROM LOVING SHYAM.

Well according to Gul, Anjali is more broken than Arnav is but I dont think they were able to show it to the general audience...aha, what shaym said to Arnav...you can tell your di all you want she wont believe it...at that moment, even Arnav knew she wont believe him that shaym was cheating her but was going to give it a try anyway...its not about trust on Anjali's part I believe...its about her insecurities and need for a perfect little life...there are many women out there who know their husbands are cheaters but turn a blind eye as they dont want to face the reality..dunno about Arnav feeling regret...I have given up on the redemption track...in this serial, its only khushi who pays for everyone's crimes!

Nice post.I want the bro-sis dynamics to change as well after all Anjali is deceiving her brother behind his back.Khushi deserves more respect from Arnav for what she has sacrificed so far and I want her to be the first priority in his life.Hope we see that in the future.

Originally posted by: -Huma-

btw Trina, Anjali is a fascinating character...the fault lies in execution and she comes off as a selfish, decietful person who doesnt care about her bro at all. She has many layers to her...unfortunately, our CVs keep messing her character up. I think she needs some monologues so we understand the complexity of her character and thoughts.

Originally posted by: FairyLiquidSoap

Trina very well written and so true He is more considerate of her feelings and happiness right now as witnessed I think he feels morally beholden and also maybe tinged with a bit of guilt over what happened to Shyam but nevertheless he is more caring and interestingly she has her thoughts completely focused on the father of her unborn babies

Let me state I don't like the character Anjali anymore😡

But what I don't like about the current track apart from the obvious is that they show a lying conniving cheating baffling Anjali leaving her open to interpretation It would have been far better to have first shown both siblings have a decent conversation over Shyam have ASR spill the beans on his disgusting ways and his hand in the kidnapping and then having her still seek Shyam would have made it a bit more realistic ( a word that does not exist in soap I know😆) and our anger would have been really justified but cest la vie

they are choosing to play this hoping to reel in the viewers but doubt it as they have not established well enough grounds for sides to be taken

Oh yes I want to see that recognition in ASR so much Even now while he does keep an eye out on KKG his immediate concern is still his Di and I wish the CV's handle the sibling schism with more finesse and touch than they have the last few tracks Right now I am hating the wedding track which is more and more looking like a afterthought and please don't bash me😊 but I would like them to separate so he and she do a spot of soul searching and self realization and KKG's character portrayal is restored the dignity respect and admiration we all had when she first started out in this serial I watched it for the story of 2 their love story interested me not his or hers alone

then i would like to see them married without sharing the day with anyone else too much to hope for?

I want them seperated and the redemption at one point BUT that did not happen. At this point if another seperation happens I have no problem but I want Khushi to part ways from Arnav this time ,NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND.

Originally posted by: trina2010

I want them seperated and the redemption at one point BUT that did not happen. At this point if another seperation happens I have no problem but I want Khushi to part ways from Arnav this time ,NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND.

I feel Khushi has suffered so much and Arnav needs redemption rather then a SIMPLE SORRY.I want Arnav to realize Khushi is, was and will be the MOST important person in his life . Now if that comes at the cost of seperation I AM OK AS LONG AS KHUSHI INITIATES THE SEPERATION THIS TIME.

NOw I dont want marriage to stop st this point as Khushi should get atleast one dream of her life fulfilled. If seperation happened before marriage it was OK but Now I want Khushi to go away from his life after they are married. Maybe few days after. Call me cheesy but I want Khushis DREAM WEDDING.That poor gilr is paying for everyones mistake.

Khushi should cut off all relationships with him after she leaves and she should let him repent. I know this might not happen but IMO she should come back in his life ONLY AFTER she gets to be his number one priority .

Shyam attacked Khushi but as soon as Arnav suspected Shyams presence he went on to protect Anji where its Khushi who needed protection from Shgyam all the time. I DID NOT LIKE IT.I want this changed and hence the truth should come out. I wanna see Arnavs expression after that.

very very well put and apt points This is one ground hog day track i want to see where he realizes how wrong he has been The lack of a soulful redemption and repentance track has hurt this serial bad the competition is currently showing a very haunting track and you imm start to notice where this serial has seriously blundered Most folks think redemption is Devdas it is not it is seeking forgiveness for ones healing and acceptance that ones action has consequences

@ FairyLiquidSoap Sorry dear I dont know your name yet.

Originally posted by: Black_Paradize

so true...agree to ur post fully but one thing i would like to mention that it was'nt a normal situation for angali...she was a kina scared of her own brother...too normal in this situation where she is hiding supporting and hidding a banned family member and so she was afraid of shyam being caught by her brother and so the deadly confrontation she was avoiding to maintain the peace in that happy environment becoz of it...so thts why she was more concerned abt shyam than arnav...other wise em sure she would have surely noticed arnav and shared his happiness..
and khushi...yes she deserves much more respect for being loyal to him all the time when hehimself did'nt trustedher ...she is a strong individual..and she knows how to stick to the right side even when the environment is not in favour...

It's not about today Dear.Anjali skipped going to the temple for Arnav s marriage ritual called something like Kuldevi ki pooja. She was OK during the Roka but after that she is completely oblivious to Arnav's happiness . Arnav on the other hand is constantly monitoring her health. He is super conscious about her. Never forgets to get her medicine, make her comfortable. His marriage preps did not distract him an inch from being in Anjali's side.
Notice the restaurant scene. I just saw it myself. Anjali told Shyam that she wants her to come at God bharai . Then she said there is Mehendi also and her expression changed. It's not that she wants to stop Arhi marriage but at this point she does not care. She is focused on Shyams return only. Nothing else matters. Arnav who was always gloomy, lifeless finally got his life back and she Just does not care.

I think you are comparing apples with oranges. A sibling love and a partner love is in different altitudes. We are not talking about a mother and her love for two children. And what level each one will go for the other is always subjective. If Anjali wanted she could have gone and made her own house with Shyam when she had a chance and she did not do that. In today's episode she was doing what she needed not to start another fight and she has done the same for Arnav in the past many times.
Also by the same token Arnav's love for Khushi and Anjali are in two different places. His sister is pregnant and alone and his wife is on all counts healthy and safe so of course he would ask for his sister first. I would consider his selfish if he called for Khushi first in this instance. I am actually pleased with the CVs. They show how some relationships are handled in situations.Arnav had eye on Khushi's Dori because she is his wife and Anjali was looking for safekeeping of her husband. And may be we should not even say who deserves what. At the same time Khushi understands what Arnav wants and even that Creepwa knows how to tune the string of Anjali.

Good post Trina.. I was noticing that too.. Isn't it was her wish for years to get her brother married? And you are right, she was thinking of shyam's safety & it's natural!!

But I didn't like her to hide out to find Shyam, because he is not new to the house & for God sake she should stop babysitting Shyam!! Looks like she is in a SPELL!! I really don't understand that why CVs is portraying Anjali so dumb!!! I mean can't she figure out b/w real & fake love? I think women has even a better sense in that!! Anjali is below normal !! 😕