Leaving aside the bashing, I'll tell you what's picking on my nerves:
1. Shyam always plotting to do something wrong and never gets caught. C'mon how long are we to watch that?
2. No dialogue between characters. Till today Anjali does not know that Shyam told Arnav on his face that he does not love "Rani Sahiba" and that she is in his and Khushi's way. Arnav needs to tell Anjali this as the prime reason for him to kick Shyam out.
3. For more that 8 weeks we went through the kidnapping track - two main witnesses - NK and Khushi found that Shyam was the kidnapper and yet the allegation remains inconclusive.
4. Shyam got engaged to Khushi in front of 5 people and yet Shyam got away by denying that. Still no one to have prove him wrong.
5. Garima's incessant hiding game from Dadi - c'mon how much time does it take for them to see each other. How many co-incidences do they have to create to avert their meeting each other.
6. Instead of showing something meaningful, they either fill the episodes with Arnav Khushi romance which has lot its chemistry because there is no plot behind it. We all know Arnav loves Khushi and vice versa - now what? If marriage should be there, then they shoulld show a proper marriage. Instead Shyam-Anjali's love is being portrayed as if they are some special couple separated by mean relatives? C'mon. Or NK's jaded comedy, or Mamiji's sour remarks either about Khushi or Payal or both or to their family. What's new?
7. Agreed Anjali's situation is a sorry one. But hey - Shyam was accused of serious things. What should or could anyone do? She should be suspicious. She should be checking her bank accounts. If not Anjali, then Arnav neeeds to be doing that.
8. Till now, no one in RH has been able to discover the overt cameras installed at every legible corner of the room. Not one.
These things are not convincing at all. So how can one not get frustrated?