Understanding Arnav's outburst; not just sexual

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Posted: 13 years ago
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The answer is simple, and it is present in the question; it's because he is ASR. A lot of people have a misconception about today's episode. They think that the reason that Arnav reacted like that treated Khushi with what they call disrespect (I disagree), is not all because he is sexually frustrated.

Although that is a major part of the reason, the actual case is that, according to me, he was hurt that Khushi was keeping them apart for what he thought was a tedious excuse. It musthave killed him to hear from the person he is so devoted to that they are not 'pati-patni. His natural reaction was to be hurt by that. Solely the reason he got so angry: his hurt.Remember, he does not believe in God and all these rituals while Khushi is an ardent believer. I think, with today, CVs just highlighted how different these two beings are. For Arnav, he was pissed that Khushi considered some crazy rituals above his love. (I say HIS love because ASR is essentially a selfish lover. He wants Khushi's whole being, no compromises.) While Khushi believes that love is directly connected with God and the two need to be complete for thismarriage to be complete.

On to the other part, Yes, he is sexually frustrated. Why wouldn't he be? But his aggressive reaction came from the reasons stated above, in my opinion.

Do share your views.

Love!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Agree! He belives their love is above those rituala and to him thats not important since we know asr doesnt believe in alot of things one of them is these wedding ritualson the other hand khushi is all about that she believes everything is important and theres a reason behind it! They both are right in their places.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Totally agree with you, what we saw today was ASR being ASR, to expect anything different or condemn his behavior is an injustice to the nature of ASR. I didn't see a jerk or beast today, what I saw was a man who is madly in love with and highly respects his wife, becoming frustrated and angry with her illogical behavior. Today I supported Arnav, even though I am religious, I think Kushi's bizarre obsession with these rituals actually meaning marriage and not acknowledging the significance of their feelings for each other is just plain silly.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kasu4lyfe

Agree! He belives their love is above those rituala and to him thats not important since we know asr doesnt believe in alot of things one of them is these wedding ritualson the other hand khushi is all about that she believes everything is important and theres a reason behind it! They both are right in their places.




True! I wish people analyze and understand characters before getting hyped up.

Even the way he said ILU was in character. I always expected him to blurt it out to her in a fit of rage.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Arshi86

Totally agree with you, what we saw today was ASR being ASR, to expect anything different or condemn his behavior is an injustice to the nature of ASR. I didn't see a jerk or beast today, what I saw was a man who is madly in love with and highly respects his wife, becoming frustrated and angry with her illogical behavior. Today I supported Arnav, even though I am religious, I think Kushi's bizarre obsession with these rituals actually meaning marriage and not acknowledging the significance of their feelings for each other is just plain silly.



Yes, I do recognize religious rituals too, and like Khushi, they are connected to each other for me. That is why I personally thought that both were right this time.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Completely agree with you. Remember this is the same guy that could not agree to marriage. He wanted a live-in relationship. And now he's all for the pati-patni relationship. He's been mending and breaking his ways lately and he doesn't even know how to exhibit his feelings properly. And all of a sudden Khushi's adamant on finishing rituals, don't get me wrong, she's right too. But he has no importance for them, he doesn't believe in God, he believes in making his life on his own terms. So yep his outburst was mostly because of his frustration towards the fact that he thinks Khushi does not accept his feelings for her.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ahh true .. Nicely written .. But he more sexual frustrated .. 😆 bachara luck isn't on his side ..

Like i said they will always be poles apart .. Connected by the heart .. But brain Seperate .. They both need to understand one another more .. Like khushi said .. sometimes i feel I know everything .. The next min i feel like a stranger .. !!
Looking forward to the Maad Dadi .. Im liking herr .. She is my third favourite craazy people .. haha ..
<3 & Happy Independence Day !!! :D !!
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Originally posted by: .._sonii_..

Ahh true .. Nicely written .. But he more sexual frustrated .. 😆bachara luck isn't on his side ..


</div>Like i said they will always be poles apart .. Connected by the heart .. But brain Seperate .. They both need to understand one another more .. Like khushi said .. sometimes i feel I know everything .. The next min i feel like a stranger .. !!
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Looking forward to the Maad Dadi .. Im liking herr .. She is my third favourite craazy people .. haha ..


<3 & Happy Independence Day !!! :D !!



Dadi gonaa be maaad! Lol. But I hope Arnav defends khushi even if he is naraz. Would love if Arnav's like k since everyone wants phere, we might as well do it. :p

ahhh third yea? The first two arnav and khushi?? Rofl. Azaadi mubarak to you too!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Risha.J



Yes, I do recognize religious rituals too, and like Khushi, they are connected to each other for me. That is why I personally thought that both were right this time.



I am not talking about the significance of the religous rituals. What I mean to say is that the way Kushi has been behaving it seems to me that she is thinking of marriage in the logical sense and Arnav is thinking emotionally. Let me explain, Kushi seems to think they are not fully married because they haven't completed the "specfic steps", even today she said that you have to have a pundet, chants, and elders for the perai. Arnav on the other hand is trying to show her that they are married not because of the symbols but because of their love for each other. I don't think this has anything to do with God or religious beliefs, to me it seems more like Kushi wants the ceremonies only because you are "supposed" to have them versus Arnav who is trying to show her that they have done these "ceremonies" through their actions. Am I making any sense? That is why I support Arnav and not Kushi so much, because Kushi seems to be missing the significances and just focusing on these rituals as things on a checklist that need to be done, versus Arnav who sees these ceremonies as unnecessary, not because he is an atheist or anything but because he feels they are not necessary to prove to anyone that Kushi is his wife.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Wonder after his confession will the two get a chance to have a conversation about the two loving each other and wanna have a remarriage and forget the contract before dadi creates a ruckus

khushi was so concerned for anjali she was not thinking about her relationship with arnav or how he was drawn to her/cares...why do they show her oblivious to how arnav feels for her

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