Di is still MOST IMPORTANT? - Page 2

Anjali is like his mother and Khushi is his life partner/love...

How are we even comparing the love Arnav has for Khushi and Anjali here, they are two important things. I agree Arnav hadn't given Khushi that rightful place so far, but gradually and slowly he is trying to correct himself, giving her the due respect and dignity as his wife and loved one. If he has said she's one of the two most important people in his life he has stood up for it. When Khushi's respect was at stake he spoke up for her, and today when his Di's well being was at stake he spoke up again. Just because Khushi is in his life now, he can't forget his Di for that, and tell her to fend for herself when she isn't in that condition.

I dont agree with ur last line..a man's first priority is his/her mother..the janamdaata.Even god has placed mother's place above him. 😛And for arnav,Anjali is his mother.And arnav said di is MOST important but he didnt said ONLY di is important as he used to say earlier.So progress is definately there.For a person, two individuals can be equally important.And anjali n khushi both are MOST imp for him.And then follows d list of IMPORTANT people in his life like nani,akaash,mami etc.And there are some people who despite being his family are not even important for him like dadi,payal,khushi's parents,buaji etc.He is concerned about them but they really doesnt matter to him to that extent.And then comes the rest of d world about whom he is not even concerned.

in thatscenario, dadi wouldent care if he said khushi, he had to explain dadi about anjali not khushi! :)

Just imagine or put Anjali as Arnav's mother...you will get your answer...Do you feel irritated when he talks about his mother or if he says my mother is most important to me...we feel happy or proud when someone near us do that...there are some relationship which is incomparable and most important in their own place...Just ask yourself will you compare your parents with your life partner any time...If in life anytime any situation arise you have to choose between these two (It happens sometime due to circumstance) as an honest and ideal human being you should choose the right person but how difficult and heart wrenching it is just ask the people who had to do it (I know cause I faced it)...

And regarding kids own kids cannot be replaceable...Anjali's kid wont have the same impact on him as his own, not possible...because they are Anjali's part not Anjali herself and his kids are his part...

Originally posted by: newyork2012

Just imagine or put Anjali as Arnav's mother...you will get your answer...Do you feel irritated when he talks about his mother or if he says my mother is most important to me...we feel happy or proud when someone near us do that...there are some relationship which is incomparable and most important in their own place...Just ask yourself will you compare your parents with your life partner any time...If in life anytime any situation arise you have to choose between these two (It happens sometime due to circumstance) as an honest and ideal human being you should choose the right person but how difficult and heart wrenching it is just ask the people who had to do it (I know cause I faced it)...

And regarding kids own kids cannot be replaceable...Anjali's kid wont have the same impact on him as his own, not possible...because they are Anjali's part not Anjali herself and his kids are his part...

Anjali does not think the same about him folks. She has her own life and she proved that as soon as she chose to stay connected to Shyam despite knowing that Shyam did all these. Forget Khushi Shyam tried to kill her own bro. We know she did not get any proof but her bro was in danger. Did you ever see her asking him about his whereabouts? I think Anjalis priority is her hubby and kid and Arnav should do the same.

Originally posted by: trina2010

Anjali does not think the same about him folks. She has her own life and she proved that as soon as she chose to stay connected to Shyam despite knowing that Shyam did all these. Forget Khushi Shyam tried to kill her own bro. We know she did not get any proof but her bro was in danger. Did you ever see her asking him about his whereabouts? I think Anjalis priority is her hubby and kid and Arnav should do the same.

Khushi was never anyones priority and Arnav should do that because she deserves to be the same

Just forget Anjali...She is like that and we dont regard her that much as we do Arnav...right?? She is doing that it is her selfishness and she is not that great as human being as Arnav...Thats why we love or respect Arnav a lot and not Anjali...Same applies to Khushi, if she thinks like Anjali we will stop loving her...

trina I think this is two diff relationship...