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riti4u

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Posted: 13 years ago

#81

@sarunrocks- I know what you mean but dear when he said those words...previous to that he had already confessed his feeling fr her..yes he has hurt her a lot but khushi did forgive him even bfore he cud realise what wrong he did...but I agree he did hurt her by saying those words..but again I will say if she understands this man and she understands situation in which he was when he said those words..it will be easy for her to forgive him..and I believe she has already forgiven him for that statement...one more point dear..in the story so far khushi's character has never held any grudges fr arnav even when he hated her so now when he loves her why will she hold grudge..😃 and even I am not like khushi so i wud hav given him peace of mind bfore patch up...

@nivi- thanks fr agreeing dear...🤗

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jenshadrocks

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Posted: 13 years ago

#82

Originally posted by: --Anna--

Divya,

Had he uttered those words and not come back to apologize - then Khushi could have taken it to heart. But he came back and said he did not mean it. She did not understand what he wanted to say that is a different case. Once had she thought that one moment he despises me so much to not want to see me and the next moment he brings up the contract to hold you back. WHY? That is where the whole answer was.

More so agree with Riti here. I personally do say stuff like this to my friends at times and to my sister as well - they know I love them a lot and they understand me so they dont create a hooplah out of it. It happens in real life. Just the understanding needs to be there. 😊

Anna actually i am not demanding a full blown redemption for ASR whatever he is doing i m fine thats why in my first para itself i stated that redemption or repentance is left to the person who is undergoing and the person who is accepting it. I am fine with it.

This one:
My view is each one will have their own way of making things right. Only one thing will count as far as the other person understands you what for you are doing it for and accepts it. And for Arnav Khushi will not demand anything so his style is accepted by her

I just asked the question to know how it really feels to be in that situation because real life is different as nobody actually behaves like ASR nor Khushi

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--Anna--

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Posted: 13 years ago

#83

Originally posted by: riyya6
Agree with what u said but i think the main problem here is ASR is trying his best way... to work things out but what abt all those that he did to Khushi... He may be a one word man n im not telling him to repent like typical SP Hero but i think ASR approach is not that right.. ... i personally feel there should be a f/b on things he had done to khushi n sense of regret...

guys can anyone tell me, that terence scene it was in his head for so long, suddenly all dissappear...😆

Loving a person does not mean that u have right to hurt n treat that person bad... If ASR really loves Khushi he should regret abt all that he has done to her...

n i personally feel fight between frens & husband& Wife / Lovers the momentum is diff...

It hurts badly when someone you love Hurts you...

The regret is there and that is why he is making this marriage work baby. Whatever you do you cannot change the character. He tried being sweet to her - did it work? No. He tried wishing her in the morning did it work? still no. He had to come back to ASR mode and use a combi of both - ASR and ARnav and is that working!? YES!!!

Riyya, Khushi has forgiven him. That is where everything ends. Had Khushi not forgiven him - we might have had a stretched repentance track. But balike - when Khushi Kumari Gupta has no problems with the way her man is making upto her - why go in the past and what is not gonna come (maybe hopefully a breakdown) - stress? 😃

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riyya6

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Posted: 13 years ago

#84

Originally posted by: Shastradhari

riti..
redemption or acknowledgement is still to come..i guess.
he still has to know that he brought shyam in khushi's life and ruin it...he blamed khushi that day in anger..but he did speak his mind...deep down he for a second believe that..this thoughts can resurface...in anger anytime again..so better this things get cleared before marriage..i am not in hurry of remarriage at all.

sorry to butt in... he correcting things is fine... u see u mention the star scene, khushi does not know what he is thinking... he does it in ASR way n that poor khushi gets confused... one day he kisses me... one day he mention contract... even though they had telepathy convo n all i think personally they dont really know each other... ASr in his style n Khushi in her style...😆

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nivedha84

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Posted: 13 years ago

#85

Originally posted by: riyya6
what the 🤣 good guess... but now with dadi returning in 4th thread... dadi returning back to ashram might give us 5th thread too... besides what u have highlighted 😆

Dadi is here to stay riyya,she wont return to aashram.😉

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riti4u

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Posted: 13 years ago

#86

Originally posted by: Shastradhari

riti..
redemption or acknowledgement is still to come..i guess.
he still has to know that he brought shyam in khushi's life and ruin it...he blamed khushi that day in anger..but he did speak his mind...deep down he for a second believe that..this thoughts can resurface...in anger anytime again..so better this things get cleared before marriage..i am not in hurry of remarriage at all.

yes I do agree with one thing dear..that khushi shud have said abt shyam and he shud hav known that fact...about anger resurfacing...😆 he needs solid temper management...

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tanthya

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Posted: 13 years ago

#87

Originally posted by: sharmibalan

I never expected...that😕

And Sathya...What sweet am i for u...(You named Trin...Ladoo & Jelabi)...What am I for u😭

I was not telling U re .. I was saying to the girls who wanted him to state it..ASR is not made of such stuff..he will do so in monologue..but open acknowledgement will come about only asa desperate measure...

Gajar Ka Halwa !!

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@Jhalak29

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Posted: 13 years ago

#88

Originally posted by: swapna08
oh who else feels sanke is the reason dadi is here? i am not gerrting reply

me feels same like u

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--Anna--

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Posted: 13 years ago

#89

Originally posted by: sarunrocks

Sometimes hurting is fine Riti..Have you hurt your friend right from the beginning showing her mixed signals... Yes u hurt only the person u are close...R they taken for granted that u hurt them alone..

Divya,

And its not like only Arnav has hurt Khushi!? Khushi in her own way has done things that are unacceptable. He has said sorry when he realized his mistake and he is doing the same now. Its just in the style of working. I personally want both of them to repent - they are equals in whatever has happened.

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riyya6

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Posted: 13 years ago

#90

Originally posted by: --Anna--

The regret is there and that is why he is making this marriage work baby. Whatever you do you cannot change the character. He tried being sweet to her - did it work? No. He tried wishing her in the morning did it work? still no. He had to come back to ASR mode and use a combi of both - ASR and ARnav and is that working!? YES!!!

Riyya, Khushi has forgiven him. That is where everything ends. Had Khushi not forgiven him - we might have had a stretched repentance track. But balike - when Khushi Kumari Gupta has no problems with the way her man is making upto her - why go in the past and what is not gonna come (maybe hopefully a breakdown) - stress? 😃

agree with ur point ANNA... today im writing a bit too much 😆 neway anna what makes you think Khushi has forgive ASR 100%... which scene 😊