OMG!! Khushi get a job!

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Sarah

@Crazy_1001

Dazzler

+ 5

Posted: 13 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: Black_Paradize

sorry guys ..but asking ur husband for supporting u financialy is not a shame

Its definitely no shame! But a woman still needs to have some of her own money, for herself just in case (God forbid something bad happens)
A woman should be dependent not her husband but not overly dependent!

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Mandy

@MrDarcyfan

Stunner

+ 6

Posted: 13 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: Black_Paradize
sorry guys ..but asking ur husband for supporting u financialy is not a shame

The point is he is NOT her husband! Their marriage is a "Contract" of 6 months, and he himself reminded her of the same! YES he said that to buy time to get her to stay! BUT only HE knows that, SHE dosent!

So for her, taking money from a man who she will no longer have any relationship with in less than 2 weeks is a matter of self respect! She dosent want to be "Beholden" to him, and I GET that!

Even IF he was her real husband, it is still OK for her to have her own income and independance! I have a husband, but I also have a career and my own income! I dont depend on my husband for everything! We have a "Joint" income and we both use it! Of course my husband is not a "Millionair"!! Just a guy who has a decent income!!

I guess it is considered a "Given" that if you marry a millionair, you are supposed to automatically become a "Bimbo" and sit at home doing nothing! Just wearing expensive sari's and doing Pooja's and making "Kheer"!! (Oh sorry, I think I am talking about the SISTER of the Millionair here)... BUT you get my drift! :)

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kaulpriyanka

@kaulpriyanka

Voyager

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

#13

Well not in every serial men has upper hand. In other serials women are superior than men. This serial is kind of diff not like Ekta kapoor types saas bahu saga. Khushi loves arnav madly but she is not accepting dat he is the one widout which she can't live. She runs to him coz she knows dat he is one who can make everything fine.

Don't we do the same when we are in trouble. We alsoi run over toi our dear ones when we are in trouble.

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Rehanna aka Parri

@Black_Paradize

Inactive

+ 6

Posted: 13 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

The point is he is NOT her husband! Their marriage is a "Contract" of 6 months, and he himself reminded her of the same! YES he said that to buy time to get her to stay! BUT only HE knows that, SHE dosent!

So for her, taking money from a man who she will no longer have any relationship with in less than 2 weeks is a matter of self respect! She dosent want to be "Beholden" to him, and I GET that!

Even IF he was her real husband, it is still OK for her to have her own income and independance! I have a husband, but I also have a career and my own income! I dont depend on my husband for everything! We have a "Joint" income and we both use it! Of course my husband is not a "Millionair"!! Just a guy who has a decent income!!

I guess it is considered a "Given" that if you marry a millionair, you are supposed to automatically become a "Bimbo" and sit at home doing nothing! Just wearing expensive sari's and doing Pooja's and making "Kheer"!! (Oh sorry, I think I am talking about the SISTER of the Millionair here)... BUT you get my drift! :)

well in khushi's case... i agree... the contract thing is actuaally between them and so she is not considering him her husband.. but what when she will accept him fully as her husband? we she behave the same way..not accepting any thing from him?i just hope No! seriously coz em sure she still will.

and i so agree with the pink one as well... even em a quite strong person(not a civilian) and i earn myself quite good amount as a salary, but still i ask my husband for help in some matters or for money many time(for my own self not for my family, coz my family is certainly not his responsibility) but its just tht he likes it when i ask him money or help...i have realized it many times, seems like his male ego is satisfied tht his wife is fully not independent and she still some how needs my support , thts called a male ego...hate it but thts true...i think its in their blood that they have to earn and their wives should be dependent on them...though the time is changing now but extracting some thing from blood is not easy... this thing will be there in their blood for many centuries i guess.. but still dear we are not talking about normal daily routine this time... khushi needs money because she is in a problem...but she is still not asking him , seems like he wants her to use her rights on him as he stated many times clearly to her but she is not (again the contract thing... i agree)... and well about angali ...i think thats fine if she is is busy in puja cooking and feels happy in home...like a common housewife... its ok for me... i dont blame her ...coz i think there is no need for her to get a job... a girl like khushi definetly needs a job but some one like angali whos millionair brother is not gona leave her ever in her life is ok to sit at home... 😊

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Rehanna aka Parri

@Black_Paradize

Inactive

+ 6

Posted: 13 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: Crazy_1001

Its definitely no shame! But a woman still needs to have some of her own money, for herself just in case (God forbid something bad happens)
A woman should be dependent not her husband but not overly dependent!

No dear em not saying she shd not do a job or some thing...she shd be having some savings with herself only and thts important... but em just saying asking money from ur husband does'nt makes u feel go down... there is no ego between a man and wife ...they share every thing together ... some times we have to think a little cool mindedly... Arnav considers her his wife so he is breaking her ego tht stops her from using her rights on him (this may be becoz of his male ego) but khushi is right at her own place ...

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Uzma005

@Uzma005

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#16

I agree with you. i just don't like it. the way they are showing arnav doing with khushi. making problems for her so that she can run back to him . well is this a way to win love of a women. what they are trying to show a rich man making problems for a girl can win her . money can buy one's true love. they can show something else. arnav hepling khushi not creating problems and solving them according to his wishes. :(

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Anna

@-Anna-

Explorer

Posted: 13 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: vishnudaughter
sooo agree with you
i want that strong khushi back

please khushi get a job fast and show it to arnav that you don't need his help everytime

🤗Thank u!!!

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Anna

@-Anna-

Explorer

Posted: 13 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: mayur1209
Yes or restart the tuitions and the dabba service. Girl you can do anything you want !

👍🏼😉

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Arshida Khan (Arshi)

@DesiGirlsRockxx

Navigator

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

#19

Congo for joining the MAD House but yh i agree with you

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Anna

@-Anna-

Explorer

Posted: 13 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: MaddyAddy
the girl is madly in love with the boy.
She runs to him whenever she has an issue, because subconsciously she knows he will always help her! (and he has, except for the one time when he let her fall)
it is a louve story, after all 😊

i understand what your trying to say but just because you are in love you don't lose your self respect😆😉