Miscommunication, thy name is Arnav & Khushi.. UPD

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Tia.0

@Tia.0

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Posted: 13 years ago

#51

I totally agree with you. As you said, they both love each other, then where is the freaking problem?

Love is not complicated Aarthi. It's the other stuff that makes it so...

Love is simple because it happens on its own, but trust needs to be built, friendship needs to be formed, respect needs to be earned.

They fell in love but did not take the time to build the rest of the three pillars of a successful relationship/marriage. Is it any wonder that their marriage seems shaky and skewed?

Today, Khushi gave Arnav two chances to tell her what was his purpose behind all this. But he kept silent because he is not desperate enough (yet) to reveal his vulnerability in front of Khushi as his plan is working now. But it might just come to that to win Khushi over.

Originally posted by: boreddamsel
Honey.. I loved the post..

I agree to everything you said.. word for word..
I know all this.. and I understand it... but I don't think I could have said it this well!

What upsets me is that they know they both love each other.. we saw that love the night of Shyam's confrontation and during the kidnapping.. but then how can they just forget and behave like nothing happened.. yes I agree.. that is the way they are .. and yes, the only reason I still love both of them.. no matter how much they irk me.. is that they both are slowly changing because of the other.. they started poles apart and that day isn't far when they will finally meet.. they both are changing their ways and accepting their love for the other. Arnav is learning to express his love and Khushi is learning to accept her feelings.

But.. but.. but.. what if before they meet, there is another MU.. so that's what I'm worried about.. they still haven't accepted their love for each other.. well Arnav knows he loves Khushi and that Khushi loves him.. but I have a feeling the next MU is not going to be with Arnav.. it will be with Khushi.. what NK told her still worries me. .no matter what happens I will always be with you.. that worries me.. I'm very very nervous that something might happen just when Khushi realizes that Arnav loves her and wants to confesses her love to Arnav.. but then there might be an MU that makes her think that Arnav never loved her, 'coz until now he has never admitted his true feelings to her (because he doesn't know how to express them!) and he keeps playing games with her and making her cry while also making her feel loved at the same time.. I am sure the next MU is going to be on Khushi's part.. she will misunderstand Arnav.. and walk out.. and Arnav will be heartbroken..

Like you said correctly in your PM or comment, all these games can happen once their relationship is strong! It did reach that point once.. but then it got lost, once Arnav yelled at Khushi and she decided to do what she does best, sacrifice and then to make her stay, he did what he best, put his ASR mask on! I can go on for hours and hours talking about why they do the things they do.. but yes, you said it perfectly.. I don't think I could have ever said it this well!! 👏

I'm just really scared about the next MU.. I had 6 months of heartache.. is it too much to ask for 6 months of happiness? or wait, just 1 month of happiness?

Edited by tia.o - 13 years ago

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inajnar

@inajnar

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Posted: 13 years ago

#52

Loved your post !!

Rightly said that ..ASR has got things too easily from Khushi ..her love and her forgiveness too

And now he will learn things the hard way i guess ...

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PinkPari

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Posted: 13 years ago

#53

WOW! Tia, I love this post! I've been having a really hard time trying to understand where these two are coming from. Arnav's actions have especially perplexed me and, despite laughing heartily at the episodes, when I ponder the show his actions don't feel right. I feel he is trying to assert some form of dominance upon her, and it doesn't sit right with me.

Your post has enlightened me and actually encouraged me to think about the characters from a different perspective! (Convincing me the storyline is the correct way to go is an entirely different matter haha). In fact, yours is the first post today where I actually sat up and read every word with a smile on my face because I feel the penny dropped for me! You have viewed then objectively and your assessment, to me, seems bang on.

Your theory of both being the provider's to their family, and their consequent actions being painted by this, seems quite solid. The evidence you provide has served to substantiate your points extremely well, and it was an intriguing insight into the psyche of my favourite jodi!

I can't really say what I'm expecting from the next few episodes, to be honest. Hopefully they don't screw up the characters and the storyline!

😊

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@abracadabra

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Posted: 13 years ago

#54

Originally posted by: tia.o

Agreed. And the only way he will understand when he sees that he can't win. Because people change a strategy when it fails... who changes a successful strategy?

Damn right.. He is basically digging his own grave right now.. Maybe that is what cvs want to show?

If you look at it from a logical point of view he is doing what he does best - deals.. And the way he handles deals are businesslike as always.. With Khushi he is clueless and yet discovering her and making his age old mistakes.. But yes sensitivity is what lacks with him the most right now and the ranting is mainly for that.

He is moving towards her adopting methods known to him and she is moving away from him with her usual antics.. There will be a change sooner with both of them.. maybe Shyam again ? acting like the cupid?

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@SeerialLoops

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Posted: 13 years ago

#55

Tia,

You have such beautiful way of telling us your thoughts and I always get lost in those well written words.

Take a bow dear. You outshine yourself with every analysis you do.

As to my contribution, I once said, earlier, I cannot identify with characters like Anjali, reel or real.

Today CVs have made ASR and Kushi characters the same for me. I cannot identify or wrap my head around them, their behavior or characteristics any more.

A show which made my heart skip a beat with anticipation, bought a silly smile on my face and leads who blew my socks off day in and day out, was all only possible, because every scene that was shown had tangible identificaton, reel and real. It is not even a sorry shade of what it was once before.

So I wont be able to comment much.

I almost am watching this show, so it gives me a reason to come here and read beautiful writers work like yours and some of my other favorites and chat with intellgent witty friends I have come to make.

So, apologize for not being able to contribute much. But why contribute when you have laid out all off it so beautifully.

See you didn't PM me, yet I found your post. You have to reaize how much I stalk you.

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Tia.0

@Tia.0

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Posted: 13 years ago

#56

Originally posted by: stafhtad
Tia,
You have such beautiful way of telling us your thoughts and I always get lost in those well written words.

Take a bow dear. You outshine yourself with every analysis you do.

As to my contribution, I once said, earlier, I cannot identify with characters like Anjali, reel or real.

Today CVs have made ASR and Kushi characters the same for me. I cannot identify or wrap my head around them, their behavior or characteristics any more.

A show which made my heart skip a beat with anticipation, bought a silly smile on my face and leads who blew my socks off day in and day out, was all only possible, because every scene that was shown had tangible identificaton, reel and real. It is not even a sorry shade of what it was once before.

So I wont be able to comment much.

I almost am watching this show, so it gives me a reason to come here and read beautiful writers work like yours and some of my other favorites and chat with intellgent witty friends I have come to make.

So, apologize for not being able to contribute much. But why contribute when you have laid out all off it so beautifully.

See you didn't PM me, yet I found your post. You have to reaize how much I stalk you.

Lol... Thanks for your comment Sudha. As you are seeing, an eternal optimist is at work here. I understand your grievances. I have them too. I did not send any pm for this post to anyone. But thanks anyway for coming to my post and penning down your thoughts. I appreciate it. Love ya.

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Avani

@highonshows

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Posted: 13 years ago

#57

Hi there sudha,...loved ur comments n taking time to share ur view.

I total understand ur grievance of not getting the pm but finding such
A wonderful post in the forum.

If its any consolation, I being the person who encouraged her to pen doen her thoughts did not get a pm either...

Had to come across in the forum...;)

No pms were sent out as she created it very late at night...

Appreciate ur comment tho...thnq u so much...:)

Originally posted by: stafhtad
Tia,
You have such beautiful way of telling us your thoughts and I always get lost in those well written words.

Take a bow dear. You outshine yourself with every analysis you do.

As to my contribution, I once said, earlier, I cannot identify with characters like Anjali, reel or real.

Today CVs have made ASR and Kushi characters the same for me. I cannot identify or wrap my head around them, their behavior or characteristics any more.

A show which made my heart skip a beat with anticipation, bought a silly smile on my face and leads who blew my socks off day in and day out, was all only possible, because every scene that was shown had tangible identificaton, reel and real. It is not even a sorry shade of what it was once before.

So I wont be able to comment much.

I almost am watching this show, so it gives me a reason to come here and read beautiful writers work like yours and some of my other favorites and chat with intellgent witty friends I have come to make.

So, apologize for not being able to contribute much. But why contribute when you have laid out all off it so beautifully.

See you didn't PM me, yet I found your post. You have to reaize how much I stalk you.

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VasantiLad

@VasantiLad

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Posted: 13 years ago

#58

Hi Tia

I like your analysis of both characters. I have followed your posts in the past & I remember around the time when Arnav escaped from his kidnappers - the reaction that was paramount at the time & the heavy criticism that he came under. When ASR is running his business & when Arnav runs his family - they are parallel characters & what is apparent today is that you have a strange mix of the two in the present pradicament. What is really evident though is that he has changed. Where once he used to get really fired up & angry with Khushi - you see a more tolerant & patient man.

What has changed him is his love. You see the same reaction towards his sister regardless of how he can be provoked. I still say that the CVs have handled this particular track really well (always end up defending them!!). Without it being cliched & spelling out the obvious & bowing with fan pressure ASR/Arnav strikes a healthy balance in wooing his lady wife ( in his own intermittent way) whilst placating his sister at the same time.

He recognises that Khushi has her pride & will not accept charity in any form & so he makes her work for the money & along the way he ends up tolerating her stubborn tantrums but handles that in the ASR way. We would not accept it any other way. Why change character just because it is expected.

Khushi is the sacrificial lamb & that comes as a direct result of her experiences from a very young age which makes her feel she has to be "beholden" to her adoptive family. Again she is willing to do anything for her Buaji to pay the rent & she is unwilling to go back to RM as she feels that her presence is making Di & Payal unhappy. She is in a right pickle.

We are not going to get a resolution which would come in the format of these two "spilling" out their feelings & coming to a real understanding any time soon. Its brilliant though that post such as yours & the counter replies create such a healthy analysis of recent events & character developments. This is part of IF that I do love. Have a great holiday. Regards 🤗

Edited by VasantiLad - 13 years ago

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Tia.0

@Tia.0

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Posted: 13 years ago

#59

Thanks Vasanti. As I said earlier, Arnav is enjoying seeing his fiesty Khushi. It's fun to watch his wife all riled up. His intentions are not wrong. But his methods are not right. He just might further push Khushi away with his ham-handed tactics.

What works in business does not always work in personal life. Unfortunately Shyam's eminent arrival and Anjali's unawareness of the whole fact might create more trouble for them and it might be too late to fix the problem.

Originally posted by: VasantiLad
Hi Tia
I like your analysis of both characters. I have followed your posts in the past & I remember around the time when Arnav escaped from his kidnappers - the reaction that was paramount at the time & the heavy criticism that he came under. When ASR is running his business & when Arnav runs his family - they are parallel characters & what is apparent today is that you have a strange mix of the two in the present pradicament. What is really evident though is that he has changed. Where once he used to get really fired up & angry with Khushi - you see a more tolerant & patient man.

What has changed him is his love. You see the same reaction towards his sister regardless of how he can be provoked. I still say that the CVs have handled this particular track really well (always end up defending them!!). Without it being cliched & spelling out the obvious & bowing with fan pressure ASR/Arnav strikes a healthy balance in wooing his lady wife ( in his own intermittent way) whilst placating his sister at the same time.
He recognises that Khushi has her pride & will not accept charity in any form & so he makes her work for the money & along the way he ends up tolerating her stubborn tantrums but handles that in the ASR way. We would not accept it any other way. Why change character just because it is expected.

Khushi is the sacrificial lamb & that comes as a direct result of her experiences from a very young age which makes her feel she has to be "beholden" to her adoptive family. Again she is willing to do anything for her Buaji to pay the rent & she is unwilling to go back to RM as she feels that her presence is making Di & Payal unhappy. She is in a right pickle.

We are not going to get a resolution which would come in the format of these two "spilling" out their feelings & coming to a real understanding any time soon. Its brilliant though that post such as yours & the counter replies create such a healthy analysis of recent events & character developments. This is part of IF that I do love. Have a great holiday. Regards 🤗