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Posted: 13 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: FairyLiquidSoap

Bulls eye

this is the message going out to millions of young girls some barely out of school I really dont care about the married ones they know better but the innocent ones who have already decided their parameter for a relationship is this makes me fear for their own well being and safety
what kind of crap is the PH trying to shove down all our throats am so disappointed and Hiru we in this thread are a minority they will be celebrating him and his expressions and how he is so smarlty trapping her I cannot believe this is the KKG that i saw last year in the Guest house at his office hell even the first night of their marriage
and yes we will be bashed😆

I already saw millionns of posts drooling on his hotness, his flirting, his oh so handsome smirk, 'his slap' on that guy after that TB video. what they are forgetting is that the man wouldn't have called her an 'item' if it hadn't been for him provoking her in to this desperate situation.
swathi, I don't mind these grey traits on fictional characters but again what was the confession of love and the character build up of 13 months for? He's not much different form that initial rude, unmeciful, unrelenting man.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I just realized something just like that old jingle for Amul chocolate that went I am too young and I am too old

Well I am not too young to say OMG ooh Aah I have never ever known what love is and ASR is my first lover boyfriend and will be the yardstick for all my relationships forever and ever and how a man should look and behave nor

I am not too old to say I am trapped in a marriage where the marital bed is so blah that I need to spice it up with the image of married actor as a toy boy so I can still stay with husband and escape my monotony and depression with some imaginary sexual tryst with my fantasy lover

I am no Mills n Boon addict or belong to some pisster sorority to say wow I can now feel my life is so worth living and loving because of this one person whose every action makes my day

It makes me real sad to see how I got fooled in by some clever marketing and baiting and looking at that video I find no resonance in me to what I was actually watching last year

Debasing the woman you love is not love except in abusive relationships

Making the woman helpless broke penniless shutting off all avenues of escape all marks of a classic abuser

Courting her with smiles forcing her to submit and then a verbal emotional slap on her face just so you can feel like the man and in control

Manipulate the people around her to think you're caring and loving

I am sure all that I have written will strike a familiar chord with those who have been in an abusive relationship

and yet this is love and a divine love at that finding approval appreciation catcalls and whistles to give her more hell

now my question is would this serial have worked if the 2 leads were not hot and beautiful

Are women more forgiving because the male protagonist is so good looking I don't find him hot I look more for soul connection but I am a minority here and my view on him does not count except for a bash😆

this is not love this is sexual verbal emotional physical and spiritual abuse at its worst and I so hated that look on his face when he was playing the games and I wanted to smack her and say get a life he aint worth it

I could have understood not accepted mark you but understood the track if they showed her reluctant because of the way he behaved in the past calling her a gold digger hussy etc and him desperate to go to any lengths but no they have not done that for it would mean according her importance which is just not done in Lady Boss eye so we have this rather insane track and am left wondering what the and FYI for all you underage lurkers that word has been in use for over a 100 years and not patented or invented by ASR

I read in a post how Archie was copying what the from ASR and did not know whether to laugh or cry at the ignorance of these children Reminds me of that old story of a kid when shown Gandhiji's image on the currency note said wow is that not Ben Kingsley

Rant over

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hey Annie and all the lovely ladies still pontificating 🤗 Two words that are very popular on the forum are "Bashing" & "Redemption"

While difference of opinion is considered Bashing, Redemption is considered unmanly ...


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: evenjleena28

Hiya Lovie🤗

You know darlin the joke is no one knows the meaning of the term BASH and use it as they please. Frankly speaking I never knew that voicing an opinion which may not be favourable considered as bashing?? whatever that means.
Call me an independent woman and hear me roar...I do not follow a person or an actor for that matter because of his looks or fan following. When I see a Nasurdeen Shah or Om Puri's acting I am bowled over because I cannot imagine anyone emoting such emotion...then when I see a certain Harvard boy mumbling then it does makes me wonder...
I love how you say things in an extremelly diplomatic manner, wish I was the same😊
On other note, how is the weekend going?

Vibha🤗
I am still awake and its 2am😭
I am out for lunch tomorrow and at this rate I shall still be asleep
How is your weekend?
Aaah the wonderful Mr Naserudeen Shah
You are truely a good friend who comments on all my posts
Voice away Vibha and be heard
Edited by enigma17 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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It's 2 in the morning and I just came home. Will res for now and come back to edit after a good night's sleep :) Thanks Annie for the new home <3
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: enigma17


<font color="#660033">I think I was gibbering and jabbering by the time I fell into bed😆</font>

<font color="#660033">Bash is a word that is used very liberally and without much need for it...methinks</font>

<font color="#660033">An alternative word might be a breath of fresh air</font>

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Nah your post is spot on..no gibberish.. lol .. its so true if people find arnav to be a jackass on a particular episode ..then the assume that your his enemy and a bashers no1 Lool..
yeah an alternative would be better..do you have an ideas? Aha..

How about turn the 'bashers' into the 'Twinklers'
so then people can why can the 'Twinklers' stop 'twinkling' and The Twinklers Need to stop..
Sounds so much nicer..😆

Edit: plus I find bashing to be when some attack someone's personal life..for example Sana khan
Edited by .._sonii_.. - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#17

Originally posted by: -Aimz-


Twinklers? Lol. Then everyday, you would see the Forum flooded with the infamous "Twinkle Twinkle Little Ba-STAR-d"


Star Wars unleashed on IF, Light sabres flashing all around😆
Edited by Drwho - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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OMG! 🤗 for making this post! Nope, you aren't alone in your quandary. I have been perplexed myself with the over-use of the word 'Bashing' which finds its way in the hands of wrong people who seem to have NO IDEA what this word truly means!!!! But here I am, perplexed with no choice but to accept the people using this word SO loosely.

I love your writing style, very elegant.😊 Hope people learn the correct usage of this word before jumping the guns 'bashing' other people when all they do is offer constructive criticism or vent out their anger without demeaning others.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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And after watching that video I think my breakfast is refusing to stay put in my digestive system 🤢 I want to throw up.
Send her on more emotional turmoil, Raizada. She'll come flying back to your arms
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Drwho


No worries, Hiru darling,

We do get carried away. Harvard baby is completely missing the point, that Khushi has gone away beacuse she believes that their marriage is only valid for 12 more days, so what he needs to tell her is that he wants her for ever, at least that is what I am thinking, or does he only want her for 12 more days until the contract? I dont think so...So if the marriage is going to end why would she accept any money from him?

exactly. he already knows she left him because of the contract whereas Khushi thinks he just wants to fulfill the terms of the contract and hence wants her for 12 days and Arnav knows this is what she thinks.
why can't he tell in plain hindi (suddh Hindi for better effect) that he wants her to be with him forever? he know the problem, so why is he going on about it the wrong way?
This is one reason I say he just wants to throw his weight around her and make her see 'who's the boss'.

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