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Posted: 13 years ago
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One irate member here struggling with the use of the English language and rather a desperate need to clarify one or two aspects of this
Overutilized incorrectly and abused without much thought in its delivery and randomly brought up whenever a member deems she is upset at a particular post or at another member this rather maligned extensively used word that springs to mind is BASH/BASHING
My rather naive mind immediately projects itself to a Tom and Jerry scenario
Jerry being chased by Tom with a skillet pan going round and round in circles
Jerry ducking and diving avoiding the 'bashing' that Tom wheels slipping and sliding at the rate of hundred miles an hour
More often then not Jerry getting the better of Tom
Old as I maybe this can still make me chuckle with mirth at their comical antics
Somehow much as I may try I cannot for the life of me conjure up an image of Khushi chasing Arnav with a skillet pan. Or vice versa
Immediately the word bash/bashing irks me when its used in context of any post that vaguely spells any nuances or ounce of so called 'negativity' against our lovely ASR/ Arnav or the man himself Mr Barun Sobti! Even the DTs have been using this word liberally
When this word is employed repeatedly particularly as its relevance and meaning is lost in translation as well at its delivery point, I can assure you I am not chuckling. Not even a glimmer of a smile. I do wonder if one was to take a survey, the word bash might be in the top five poll position in this Forum
There are as follows:
Men bashing jokes
Male bashing jokes
Female bashing jokes
Man bashing quotes
Guy bashing quotes
Boy bashing quotes
Etc, etc , and etc
There are also as follows:
Gay- bashing
Feminist- bashing
China-bashing
Etc, etc and etc
The definition of the word bashing according to the good book , the dictionary is as follows

bashing

noun
1. the act of beating, whipping, or thrashing: a series of unsolved bashings and robberies.
2. a decisive defeat: We gave the visiting team a good bashing.
3. (used in combination)
a. unprovoked physical assaults against members of a specified group: gay-bashing.
b. verbal abuse, as of a group or a nation: feminist-bashing; China-bashing.
I am aware this particular word maybe used in the context of bashing anyone or any organisation but I must humbly ask whether this one word is overutilized and chewed and regurgitated over and over? Ad nauseam
Are we in need of a better and maybe more 'delicate' word?
Without Tom and Jerry's escapades immediately leaping to one's mind?
Sigggh the thought has crossed my mind of the possibility that I stand alone in this debacle
Am I flying solo here perplexed in this quandary, as ever, with the customary practice of this word of the English language?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hiya Lovie🤗
You know darlin the joke is no one knows the meaning of the term BASH and use it as they please. Frankly speaking I never knew that voicing an opinion which may not be favourable considered as bashing?? whatever that means.
Call me an independent woman and hear me roar...I do not follow a person or an actor for that matter because of his looks or fan following. When I see a Nasurdeen Shah or Om Puri's acting I am bowled over because I cannot imagine anyone emoting such emotion...then when I see a certain Harvard boy mumbling then it does makes me wonder...
I love how you say things in an extremelly diplomatic manner, wish I was the same😊
On other note, how is the weekend going?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: evenjleena28


Anytime darlin,
Thats what friends are for right??...plus your post was great, I enjoyed commenting on it


Vibha, I said it before but you are a wonderful friend to have on my side! I wish I could knock sense into people the way you do so awesomely!

Hiii to Manju, Shweta, Harshitha, Rima, Swathi, Annie, Ash, ME, Hiru, Aimz, and Soni (I hope I got everyone) because loved all your comments in this thread! 🤗

The term bash/bashing is the most overrated and overused term on this forum now. I believe it got worse because certain PH people created threads here saying the "bashing" was affecting them...so now others have jumped on the bandwagon and started labeling ANY opinion that doesn't fully praise the show or its characters as "bashing." This is a public discussion forum and we have the freedom of speech. I'm going to continue giving my honest opinions and if they are termed as bashing, I don't care. I'll be back again to vent.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: enigma17

Gosh I do hope I am sleepy soon otherwise I maybe posting another piece!!!😆
Agree about Mr Shah
One very remarkable actor

Lol atleast your staying up has one benefit, we get to read some really pondering posts...
Another actor I absoutely adore is Ms Shabana Azmi...when I had watched the movie Arth...I became an instant fan of hers...that movie was so innovative in a time when everything was regressive...I loved how she refused her husband who cheated on her to take him back and also denied her lover the same thing...thats independent woman in my books...
Then we watch willow who wants a boy child who will remind her of her cheating hubby...in this day and age...and her refusal to have a bump...honestly how I ever take an actress seriously when she herself is refusing that right???when you are an actor you act according to the story...
Back to the topic BASHING!!!!! that word has no meaning...everyone uses it to justify their behaviour and the only thing I will say is ignorance truly is bliss
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Annie, was expecting this intellectual post somewhat soon enough, what with some sensible minds still left in this so-called Forum.
Thank you for voicing out my ardent frustration. Either the people here are in need of a thesauras to look up for healthy synonyms, or a dictionary to look up the word they are so unnecessarily using, misusing and abusing.
The Forum has far strayed from the Tom and Jerry phase. It's the Clash of The Titans phase now.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Good Morning all

Lovely Sunday and Annie muah for a lovely post :)

Yes if you don't go with the flow then you are a basher

Annie Tom and Jerry LOL


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Posted: 13 years ago
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well you must be a mind reader. i myself was going to make a post aboout bashing.
if you ask me bashing is the most bashed word in the dictinary in IF.
Criticism is considered bashing
Views which are contrary is considered bashng
Analysis which is contrary to popular opinion is called bashing
...so I am with you in the campaign to find an alternate word and f possible abolish the word bashing😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i cringe on hearing/reading that word now...thank you for clarifying the meaning...someone make THIS post a sticky so that people stop using that word!!!
lovely post!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: FairyLiquidSoap

ah sweetie you just echoed the sentiments in my head makes me want to vomit

and did he think those expressions of his were cute and flirty they were not i found them annoying and downright insulting😡

swathi, what he's doing to her is more than insulting. It's so degrading on so many different levels, I can't believe he actually has the audacity to proclaim he 'loves her' when this is his mentality and confession of his so called love. He's forcing her to do things that's not to her liking and how would this result in her self esteem?
He might not mean these threats, he might have already bought that house for all we care but that's not the point. The point is, he's hurting her and worrying her into believing that her family might not have a house to live in few days.
What's he trying to prove really? That he will always be superior to her and she has to accept his favours when he thows them out in pity? why cant he simply show her some respect and treat her as his equal for a change? If she doesn't want his favours, why try to force it on her? I see this as a romantic coating of a chauvinist male.
uurrgg it's so fustrating to watch.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: CDlove

swathi, what he's doing to her is more than insulting. It's so degrading on so many different levels, I can't believe he actually has the audacity to proclaim he 'loves her' when this is his mentality and confession of his so called love. He's forcing her to do things that's not to her liking and how would this result in her self esteem?
He might not mean these threats, he might have already bought that house for all we care but that's not the point. The point is, he's hurting her and worrying her into believing that her family might not have a house to live in few days.
What's he trying to prove really? That he will always be superior to her and she has to accept his favours when he thows them out in pity? why cant he simply show her some respect and treat her as his equal for a change? If she doesn't want his favours, why try to force it on her? I see this as a romantic coating of a chauvinist male.👏
uurrgg it's so fustrating to watch.

Bulls eye
this is the message going out to millions of young girls some barely out of school I really dont care about the married ones they know better but the innocent ones who have already decided their parameter for a relationship is this makes me fear for their own well being and safety
what kind of crap is the PH trying to shove down all our throats am so disappointed and Hiru we in this thread are a minority they will be celebrating him and his expressions and how he is so smarlty trapping her I cannot believe this is the KKG that i saw last year in the Guest house at his office hell even the first night of their marriage
and yes we will be bashed😆

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