Originally posted by: nazleef
To me, the thing that stood out to me was the Sadda Haq scene and no it's not because of the Arhiness of the scene.
Ever since the Shyam escapade has come out into the open, this track has focussed on one thing and one thing alone: The establishment of boundaries in relationships.
This track has been about limitations and boundaries.This track is about the revival and the strengthening of all the bonds that exist along with the boundaries that come with them
Payal defined it with Khushi. Arnav defined it with Anjali regarding the "threesome". Arnav again defined the boundary Khushi has. While, Akash and his mother is breaking their boundaries.
This whole show is based on the breach of the boundaries that every relationship, no matter how insignificant, that existed in the Raizadas and the Guptas.
Shyam... Do I really have to explain this? Jokes aside, he didn't overstep... no he obliterated each and every line that existed in a human being's life. He disrespected a sacred bond. He tried to kill people. He blamed an innocent girl. His background is cloudy and until we know what it is, we cannot truly judge him since we do not what motivates him.
Mami has so far also has been crossing limits and one day it will come crashing on her.
Akash has begun crossing lines by doubting Khushi. If something happens, he will blame Khushi and will say something he will regret to his dying day. He owes every bit of happiness in his current life to her. Yes, she was wrong. But Akash has no right to judge her for it.
Payal did not uphold her promise to Akash and is now suffering.
Buaji and Garima made a decision that was never their's to make. They hid the truth from Anjali and they will have to face facts.
According to Doodleberry, the whole cycle began with Arnav's dad. He crossed the line and put his family in a very precarious situation. The result of his sin: The death of his wife. The death of the normalcy in the lives of his children. His children lost their homes and their innocence.
And years later, it began again when Arnav Singh Raizada overstepped his boundaries and sought to destroy a girl who he assumed was a menace. He ripped her pearls and ever since, each of his every one of his trials have been getting harder and harder. And unfortunately, he has failed more than he'd like to think. He still hasn't realised the magnanimity that Khushi has displayed towards and for him.
He hasn't repented, because he does not know. Simple. He assumes that all is well between him and Khushi and that things are on the mend. He is eager to establish the boundaries that Khushi has over him and vice versa. He wants to belong to Khushi and own her in return.
But.
He still is not tuned into her. And the lack of communication that has existed for so long is taking its toll. But they need time and they are running out of it.
On to Khushi. She has always overstepped boundaries but with pure intentions. A wrong with right intentions does not make the wrong right. She needs to learn that. By hiding the truth and by lying over and over and over again, she isn't going to help anyone. She is tuned into the emotions of people around her and that saddens her.
The only ones that haven't crossed lines are Shashi, Nani and Anjali.
Anjali however, is a special case. She, in all honesty, according to me only wants to maintain the boundaries, i.e. Arnav and Shyam in her life. She has realised that she cannot have both and so will cling to the one she can have. Yes, she is overjoyed that Arnav is in love. But it isn't because he is in love. It is because he realised it with her guidance and because she will always be number 1.
It was a good episode and I immensely enjoyed it!!! Loved everyone!!!
Thanks!
Nazifa