MY THOUGHT - Page 4

Originally posted by: Omoraboti

Dear Kh.

I really hope those who really need to understand read your post with an open mind .. I hope they understand.

Thanks for making an effort to make the post. Anjali's character & reactions are real .. I guess some of the viewers are just not very familiar yet with this part of life. So let us hope they understand .. eventually.

Thanks.

Originally posted by: Sheerinbanu

Khushboo... We understand your Justification on Anjali. But the question is though Arnav love Khushi when he saw Her with Shyam on the terrace what was his reaction. His Di came first. Her happiness was his priority. He even punished his lady love and himself. He tolerate shyam all these days for Anjali to protect her happiness though its fake. He wanted her to be happy. He sacrificed his happiness and life and mess up with his Love.

But see Anjali she is very jealous. Though she still believes Shyam, one fact is true that Arnav was kidnapped and the Kidnappers tried to Kill him. And everyone knows that Khushi rescued him. So She is not worried about the risk Arnav gone through and what Khushi went through to save Arnav. If she really dont Love Arnav why should she Hunt for him crazy and save him. She could very well enjoy the life with Shyam in Arnav's absence. Anjali didn't think about the well being of Arnav ans She didnt think about his happiness with his wife. She really don't have the mighty heart of either ASR or Khushi. She can be claimed a parallel lead Always the Leads will have mighty heart. Anjali is so selfish enough to put her pleasures first. Than her Chotey's .

Originally posted by: Lyraa99

harshita,

despite of everything, buaji is not a negative character. she is outspoken.. she speaks her heart out but she has her heart at the right place. When Khuhsi got married, they were harsh to her. but getting married is not the childs dream alone.. its the parents dream to see their daughter as well. when Khushi too a major step on her own, they were angry.. they reacted.. it is a very normal thing among conservative indian families... they shunned her for a while but came around.. because they loved her..buaji and others might have not taken right decisions all the time but they did what they thought was best but thye loved her like her own blood. So Khushi's upbringing has been different.. sheltered.. but in the scene of Arnav's flash back its obvious that their mom was murdered.. Anjali has a bad past and the reason u cannot connect to her character is because that past stays unveiled...

No just cause her life is in a mess doesnt make her love conditional.. the post itself explains why the grudge is against Khushi.. the fact that Khushi is arnav's wife makes it a mess.

Dont forget, she is a pregnant woman who has just realized that she has been living a lie

her husband is kicked out even before the baby is born

she has a handicap..

Her situation if u c realistically is enough to make her suicidal...

Originally posted by: Strawberrie

Since you seem to know Anjali's character so well, here's a hypothetical situation. Let's say Arnav was the one whose spouse cheated on him, and it was Shyam's birthday (basically a role reversal), I'm curious to know what would a character like Anjali do?

Secondly, If the CVs expected sympathy for Anjali, there's clearly some problem in the way they are showing her character to the viewers. I get it that she's very upset. Who wouldn't be? But for the viewers to sympathize with her character, she should at least be trying to figure out what the reality is. Why isn't she seeking answers? I can sympathize with someone who has got a rude shock but is wanting to know what actually happened. But if you show someone who wants to remain in her delusional bubble and do nothing about it, how do you expect viewers to connect with her? Strictly my POV, but her character does come out as self-absorbed and I just don't connect with it.