Originally posted by: Arhimaniac
Well written Bushy 👏... the family is too be blamed for creating this mirage for her... they did not let her mature emotionally... kept her illusions alive... fed her inferiority complex... and today when reality hits she does not know how to react... she has forgotten that her brother has had a near shave with death... all she can think is her sadness...she does not have the confidence that she will be accepted by anyone else given her physical challenge...or that she can lead a fulfilling life with her child and loving family...Every person every relationship has imperfections... the day Anjali makes peace with this she will unearth the righteous,affectionate elder sister of Arnav and willingly fulfill the void of motherly support in his life..
yes...see there is a major diff in anjali and arnav's character...
anjali takes each step for herself...selfish that she is...La acceptance or khushi acceptance was that Arnav doesn't leave her...plus she keeps her image squeaky clean with a sweet tongue so all listen to her
Arnav on the other hand gives a shit abt the world and does everything for di's happiness
sheesh mahal bought for di
khushi brought back for di
this is a first that he has gone against her wishes and sided with another
hence the anger at chotte...pehle jab khushi ko nikala tha she left the house and went to mandir...he brought her back along with khushi...now situation is serious so she will play a bigger hand at black mailing😃
I have a different take on this. From my perspective Anjali does not have a single mean bone in her. She is like an innocent child who lives in the world on rainbows and clouds. She desires happiness in everyone's life just like she believes she had found with Shyam.
All her manipulations in past were for a higher purpose- her chotte's happiness. When she manipulated Khushi into coming to train Lavanya, it was becoz she believed LA had better chance of being accepted by the family with Khushi training her and LA made her chotte happy. When she noticed the attraction between chotte and Khushi, she started working selflessly to bring them closer. Infact whenever she has noticed a rift in Arshi relationship, she has played a role in bringing them together my manipulating them. She has never wanted Arnav to sacrifice anything for her intentionally.
However she is not ready to sacrifice her heaven for a flimsy piece of accusation which may or may not be true.
From her perspective she and Arnav have worked very hard to reach the social ideal after having a disasterous childhood. Arnav became rich and sucessful while she became the epitome of marital sucess even with her disability. If she were to believe Khushi she has been living a sham all these year and she is an ultimate joke and a failure. All her penance, her efforts were for nothing.
Furthermore why should she believe Khushi...there was no proof. She can feel the love of Shyam and his dedication to her almost as an tangible object. Besides what is love without trust. Shyam has never given her any reason for distrust. She already has a small doubt at the back of her mind with all the inconsistencies in the story but it is not huge enough for her to make a decision as big as this. The viewers know the back story of Shyam but Anjali does not. Given the facts that she knows she is in same shoes as Arnav on terrace night. Arnav chose his head over his love and crucified Khushi, Anjali is choosing her love over her doubts and we cannot begrudge her that. Besides with the volley of shocks she has recieved in a day, i doubt she is thinking, at this point she is just reacting and is completely numbed down. She is lashing back at Khushi because Khushi forced her in that position.
I would consider her wrong or grey if she decides to stay in her world of illusions even after she sees the proofs.
Edited by dramacrazy12 - 13 years ago
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