Has anyone experianced a partner like ASR? - Page 5

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I wish my one was a bit more like ASR..although i do see a similariy between the two... Asr and my Boyfrend both get angry quickly... jaise gussa uske naak peh he betha hai 😆... and teh word sorry doesnt even exist for him... He is caring but never shows it ... he tends to hide it wen his upset about something and never tells me eventhough he knoes i am able to catch his lie out 😡...
his not possesive like asr... ( i wish he would be as possesive as asr would love it ! 😆)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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The idea of ASR is complex because ASR is embodiment of all traits a man has. Every men posses certain trances of ASR, Arnav, Barun, Akash, Mamaji or Shahi babua. Only thing is amount of traces varies which makes them unique.

If you are talking about demeanor ASR of initial episodes then NO. No one wants such person but if your are dreaming about ASR who bought all pigeons for a small girl, or paid for Shashi's medications then Yes everybody wants piece of that.

But if you see closely you will get all these traits in your partner / men. They just act differently in different situations. You will not get the ideal Arnav in your life but you will get to see characteristics of Arnav, ASR in your partner for sure.

So if ask if ASR is in one's life answer is not definitive.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hell ya.. got married to him almost one and a half month back after dating him for almost 8 years.
He has around 60 percent traits of ASR.. He is pretty intelligent unlike our ASR though..lol..and we both are have huge egos and anger issues..but i cant do without him...He is the best!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
#44
my hubby has many similarities . infact after watching this show i understand my hubby better. i thanks to barun for that. i think he saved my married life.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I wish I get one 😍 ... but then I wouldn't know what to do that time... *confused just like Khushi*
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: serialjunkie

I am going to step out of my comfort zone here and piss a whole bunch of people. nothing new for me.

Thank God, NO, not even remotely like ASR. And even if he did, I'd bid him adieu a la Sarah Palin - thanks, but no thanks

ASR is only good on screen. Every man has a streak of anger, possessiveness and arrogance in him, a matter of evolutionary need. But an evolved man knows how to control his meanness and treat the woman/women in his life right.

A relationship is based on true partnership, not on control, anger, violence (however mild) and misunderstanding. If partners cannot converse or discuss their issues without resorting to violence, then the relationship is moot, however hot the guy.

The strength of character is not to be good/nice when things go your way, the strength of character is to be good, honest and forthcoming when things DON'T go your way.

In that respect, I find myself extremely blessed that I DO NOT have an ASR in my life. And thank God I am NOT a khushi in real life either.


Well said SJ!
I agree, if I had someone like ASR, I'd be out of there in a jiffy! Or he'd be out of our home.

I guess people do mistake screen characters for the real person.. It is hard to reconcile the 2, Arnav and ASR. Not to mention that people see Barun in interviews and join that too. Barun has himself often said that he is nothing like ASR! I had read somewhere that he felt he was a lot more like Shravan in Baat Hamaari Pakki hai.

I've said my bit.. Now I can breath.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#47
My brother was one. JUST like him. Nearly as good looking too i must say
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Posted: 13 years ago
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mine is like a tamed ASR...I've never been thrown out the car you see...although he does threaten jokingly if I piss him off too much.

He's an arrogant, rich bas***d who never EVER apologises even when he knows that you know that he's wrong for most things...although with emotional issues he's the most understanding person I know.
-Sarcastic with an annoying tendency of making me feel blonde and stupid around him...even when I get better grades than him. But all in good humour

Can be very aloof at times; hates overcrowded rooms and generally big groups of people.

He's at Cambridge but plans to takeover his dad's business and dreams of getting his MBA from Harvard Business School...I've also seen him wear three-piece suits at events and died:P

Differences; he's total opposite of a diabetic...actually binges on chocolate and sweets.
He's rude sometimes but never purposely or inadvertently cruel
He likes music and dancing..well he goes to clubs :P
I love him but he's not better looking than Barun
He doesn't garden

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Posted: 13 years ago
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If I had a partner like ASR, I would get him psychologically examined .. I'm sorry, I adore and love ASR (I am not bashing his character!) but living with someone like that who can swing from one mood to another in seconds would be infuriating to live with😆 .. in fact impossible. In the real world, he'd act too bipolar and most people are not as patient however on screen it's interesting and enthralling to watch the layers of his character being pulled back and also the contrast to Khushi's character.

Having said that, if a man wooed me like ASR, it's hard for anyone not to go weak in their knees😆 but is that enough to stay in a relationship that could be so volatile? ... I don't quite think so.

Plus, I don't like Buzzkill Bobs, no matter how little they speak or how respectful they are .. one-liners, sarcasm, wit (for me) would be much appreciated in the daily battles of life, whether it be doing the mundane things or aspiring big!😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
#50

Originally posted by: -Delicious_BS-

no i didnt! aur abhi meri umar hi kya hai *giggles* 🤣but i really hope and pray to get a partner like ASR.. powerful..confident..and thora gusse wala 😳 and caring..romantic..emotional like Arnav.. i dont mind if he doesnt own AR or rich..but as a person he should be like Arnav! 😍

same here...and praying 4 the same...

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