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Posted: 13 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: zeeba60

If i ever got married like that, i would make his life HELL! Maybe get rid of him and run away.



Finally someone on this forum who thinks like me haha! Seriously, a guy who has never told you he loves you, has been pretty mean to you for 8 months, then 2 days before you get married gives you bangles and acts all lovey dovey, then on the day of the wedding forces you to get married through blackmail, then throws you out on the suhaag raat, and that isn't even half of it!

Oh man, my head hurts just thinking about it! And yup most of the forum seems to have very airy fairy notions of love. I'm a bit of a cynic when it comes to love myself hence why I find it easy to see both sides of the coin.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sana_ar


I have a feeling people here on the forum can't see a girl's point of view even though most are girls. Most of the girls here are young and have ideal perspective of love---like any pain caused in love is not pain. Anger towards one wife is acceptable because he ultimately loves her. Which is how most people view love until you get older and are surround by love and see that it simply a feeling combined with respect, when one person puts you down, abuses you there is no room for forgetting it even though they claim to love you and here arnav has never claimed to love her. Lastly, the whole thing about the abuse/humiliation being in private being justified baffles me. That is the most hurtful kind, because she is suffering alone.



I totally agree with you, to be honest most of the time it is ALL about Arnav - Opposite attraction i guess. I do feel sorry for Arnav and i do blame him for not asking Khushi about Shyam - but thats his character. He doesn't need to ask anyone, he will do whatever he wants to.

Just the way i understand his character. I understand where Khushi is coming from aswell. Shes childish, silly and immature. Just allow it

I don't expect Khushi to be nice to Arnav or even fulfill her duties as a wife. Why should she? When they're only married for six months and this marriage means nothing to Arnav.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: PinkPari


Finally someone on this forum who thinks like me haha! Seriously, a guy who has never told you he loves you, has been pretty mean to you for 8 months, then 2 days before you get married gives you bangles and acts all lovey dovey, then on the day of the wedding forces you to get married through blackmail, then throws you out on the suhaag raat, and that isn't even half of it!

Oh man, my head hurts just thinking about it! And yup most of the forum seems to have very airy fairy notions of love. I'm a bit of a cynic when it comes to love myself hence why I find it easy to see both sides of the coin.



haha seriously, i would kill him first and then kill myself. I would hate myself for loving a guy like Arnav. Please don't fall for his looks and lets admit he doesn't have a brain.

He has said so many HORRIBLE things and shes still loves him.

The suhaag raat scene was just out of order.


Edited by zeeba60 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Two wrongs do not make a right! What ASR did was not acceptable. Neither is this regardless of the reason! Marriage is supposed to bring maturity! Payal can raise above her challenges with dignity and class, why not Khushi?
Weak scripts are weak scripts!
I do respect your opinions so I reserve the right to disagree,
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I have a feeling people here on the forum can't see a girl's point of view even though most are girls. Most of the girls here are young and have ideal perspective of love---like any pain caused in love is not pain. Anger towards one wife is acceptable because he ultimately loves her. Which is how most people view love until you get older and are surround by love and see that it simply a feeling combined with respect, when one person puts you down, abuses you there is no room for forgetting it even though they claim to love you and here arnav has never claimed to love her. Lastly, the whole thing about the abuse/humiliation being in private being justified baffles me. That is the most hurtful kind, because she is suffering alone.


I totally agree with you, to be honest most of the time it is ALL about Arnav - Opposite attraction i guess. I do feel sorry for Arnav and i do blame him for not asking Khushi about Shyam - but thats his character. He doesn't need to ask anyone, he will do whatever he wants to.

Just the way i understand his character. I understand where Khushi is coming from aswell. Shes childish, silly and immature. Just allow it

I don't expect Khushi to be nice to Arnav or even fulfill her duties as a wife. Why should she? When they're only married for six months and this marriage means nothing to Arnav.


To some extent I don't blame him for doing what he is doing-by verbally abusing her and not being kind to her. I also don't blame him for not asking her about it. Why should he? Arnav has been shown to do as he pleases and he believes that he is always right. why would he ask her when Shyam told him clearly that khushi and him are in love. And even if that was the truth and he did ask her would he expect her to admit it. No, she would deny it so what would be the point in asking her in his point of view. right now he is doing everything he can to save his sister's marriage because she is who comes before anyone else in his life even khushi. So, khushi unaware of this is trying her best to do what she can to get out of this marriage. There actions are justified according to their characters and perspectives. He feels like he has been betrayed by the one he loved, and Khushi is suffering from humiliation, abuse and loveless marriage. Nothing is out of character, and things will sort themselves out soon enough (spoilers say so). we just have to be patient.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#26

Originally posted by: mayad

Two wrongs do not make a right! What ASR did was not acceptable. Neither is this regardless of the reason! Marriage is supposed to bring maturity! Payal can raise above her challenges with dignity and class, why not Khushi?

Weak scripts are weak scripts!
I do respect your opinions so I reserve the right to disagree,



I don't like what she's doing right now but i'm not complaining at the same time. I never liked Khushi silly acts or her plans but now seriously i understand her character. She will always stay like this.

Most of us want silent treatment from Khushi but that girl can't do that for long,she cannot be sad or upset for long. Shes always up to something...

I hope you get where im coming from.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sana_ar



To some extent I don't blame him for doing what he is doing-by verbally abusing her and not being kind to her. I also don't blame him for not asking her about it. Why should he? Arnav has been shown to do as he pleases and he believes that he is always right. why would he ask her when Shyam told him clearly that khushi and him are in love. And even if that was the truth and he did ask her would he expect her to admit it. No, she would deny it so what would be the point in asking her in his point of view. right now he is doing everything he can to save his sister's marriage because she is who comes before anyone else in his life even khushi. So, khushi unaware of this is trying her best to do what she can to get out of this marriage. There actions are justified according to their characters and perspectives. He feels like he has been betrayed by the one he loved, and Khushi is suffering from humiliation, abuse and loveless marriage. Nothing is out of character, and things will sort themselves out soon enough (spoilers say so). we just have to be patient.







Awesome post, you should definitely make a thread on this. Explained everything so much better!
Like i said before, it is all about the promo... so we should be patient. Sure she will stop after finding out the reason.
Edited by zeeba60 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Nice to see someone with a different set of opinions. Barun's been shirtless before, I think it's foolish to suggest that the CV's are pressurising him to strip. That's just part of the job and it's not like he has anything to be ashamed about eh? :P

No seriously though, I completely get where you're coming from and these little annoying acts of hers are absolutely NOTHING compared to the torture he's put her through. Getting disowned, publicly humiliated, dreams shattered, sleeping outside in the cold etc is just part of the humiliation that Khushi's faced. The problem I have with her acting the way she has been lately is that a girl who has been through so much crap doesn't act like that. I know she has a bubbly personality and she's only around 18yrs old but I feel that the CV's aren't doing justice to her character based on the morals and values that she's been shown to have in the earlier episodes. Then again it is not in Khushi's character to be so mean and spiteful, even if she wants to be. But that doesn't mean she goes ahead and ignores the past.

Regarding the new promo..there's probably a certain incident that triggers it off where Arnav gets angry and let's Khushi know the truth.
Edited by hindu4lyf - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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If it weren't for mishti's spoilers, I probably would have been dreading the episodes this week but her spoilers have left me hopeful that Khushi's antics will soon come to an end. These antics were used as a driving force to bring out ASR and for him to finally give her the answers she has deserved to know from the start of their marriage.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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OH MY GOD...i just yesterday said this very same thing to someones post in regards to khushi bringing him water and tripping over the split body wash...n we get a rabba ve moment...

I if i recall correctly i had said dont underestimate khushi...she may just as well.take him to the well in the compound and have him bathe there...

and dang thats exactly what KHUSHI is doing. THIS particular stunt shes pulling is for surely goin to make her jealous for all the female ogling Arnav will get in the mohaulla...maybe we are certainly getting closer to Khushi's THE moment of realization.

i just hope the misunderstanding twist i predicted doesnt come true...or else Devi maiyya help Khushi...:)
Edited by highonshows - 13 years ago

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