Please help me understand this...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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How is it that the same khushi who is so innocent and couldnt get the measurements of the male models is so comfortable with the close proximity of her husband. A husband who she loves thus is definetly attracted to and is so HOT. I wish they had shown either one of them remembering the last time they were in this bed together. would have atleast carried the essence of the original IPKKND. I miss arnav and khushi.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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You won't understand this unless you are married. I have a husband whom I love very much and very much attracted too. When you love someone that much, you feel comfortable around that person. Khushi loves Arnav whether she knows it or not and accepts him as her husband. She would only be uneasy if she never accepted him as her husband as then he would be a strange man for her.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

You won't understand this unless you are married. I have a husband whom I love very much and very much attracted too. When you love someone that much, you feel comfortable around that person. Khushi loves Arnav whether she knows it or not and accepts him as her husband. She would only be uneasy if she never accepted him as her husband as then he would be a strange man for her.

Agree...It shows that Khushi accept Arnav as her husband wid her unconcious mind...she is comfortable to sharing bed wid him otherwise she never been easy wid him..it is very TRUE...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

You won't understand this unless you are married. I have a husband whom I love very much and very much attracted too. When you love someone that much, you feel comfortable around that person. Khushi loves Arnav whether she knows it or not and accepts him as her husband. She would only be uneasy if she never accepted him as her husband as then he would be a strange man for her.


Don't go by what SP serials show. That a woman has to giggle and shy away from her husband. Think about any husband-wife relationship in real life (Your parents, uncle-aunt, bro-sis in law, sister-bro in law)... They are comfortable with each other. The only man, a woman bares her heart, mind and body for is her husband. Why would you be uneasy or uncomfortable with the person who is that close to you? Agreed, Khushi and Arnav has not consummated their marriage yet. But they have both subconsciously accepted each other as husband and wife. Why do you think Khushi annoy him so much and why do you think Arnav puts up with it? The ASR we knew would never do that and the Khushi before marriage used to be scared of him and avoid him like plague...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o


Don't go by what SP serials show. That a woman has to giggle and shy away from her husband. Think about any husband-wife relationship in real life (Your parents, uncle-aunt, bro-sis in law, sister-bro in law)... They are comfortable with each other. The only man, a woman bares her heart, mind and body for is her husband. Why would you be uneasy or uncomfortable with the person who is that close to you? Agreed, Khushi and Arnav has not consummated their marriage yet. But they have both subconsciously accepted each other as husband and wife. Why do you think Khushi annoy him so much and why do you think Arnav puts up with it? The ASR we knew would never do that and the Khushi before marriage used to be scared of him and avoid him like plague...

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Even I myself is not married...but I kinda understand what you are saying...what IPK is showing is reality between the relationship of a husband & wife...like we see in our own families...we should not compare IPK with other shows where they show over the top shying of the wives from their husbands...& this scene should not be taken awkwardly.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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but she has been this comfortable from day one. I am married but even it took me time to get that comfortable even though mine was a love marriage to start with. i just found it strange that it took so little time for her to get comfortable :) personally i think khushi should be shown a bit more flustered and would love to see ASR use it to his advantage!!! :)


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Posted: 13 years ago
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I was thinking the same yesterday, she could have slept on the floor and let him sleep in the bed rather than sharing the bed...
But she loves to be Arnav's wife.. It is very evident from the 1st time she was very happy to introduce herself as KKG singh raizada.. Since the forced marriage she is always very happy to accept her position as Mrs Raizada infront of others and also behind closed doors.. She wants to annoy arnav but sub conciously want to feel him closer and feel his love for her...
He threw her out of the bedroom and he made her sleep in his bed and he slept outside near the poolside... So it is Arnav who doesn't want to get attached but she wants this relationship to work.. The way she is annoying him is a way for her to make him miss her, which he does when she is not around as shown before...
Even when I am angry at my husband I prefer to have him next to me...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: adiraj07

I was thinking the same yesterday, she could have slept on the floor and let him sleep in the bed rather than sharing the bed...

But she loves to be Arnav's wife.. It is very evident from the 1st time she was very happy to introduce herself as KKG singh raizada.. Since the forced marriage she is always very happy to accept her position as Mrs Raizada infront of others and also behind closed doors.. She wants to annoy arnav but sub conciously want to feel him closer and feel his love for her...
He threw her out of the bedroom and he made her sleep in his bed and he slept outside near the poolside... So it is Arnav who doesn't want to get attached but she wants this relationship to work.. The way she is annoying him is a way for her to make him miss her, which he does when she is not around as shown before...
Even when I am angry at my husband I prefer to have him next to me...


this makes sense :) i just love these two...probably cuz i have more or less the same kind of relationship with my husband...that is he is an introvert while im an extrovert!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: dormant

but she has been this comfortable from day one. I am married but even it took me time to get that comfortable even though mine was a love marriage to start with. i just found it strange that it took so little time for her to get comfortable :) personally i think khushi should be shown a bit more flustered and would love to see ASR use it to his advantage!!! :)




I understand what you are saying. I guess it depends on person to person. Some people needs time to get used to, some people are comfortable from day one. I was the later, you were the former. However, if you remember,.Khushi was comfortable with him since after she came back from her pag phera. I think by that time she knew how he reacts to things. She will get flustered, when he behaves differently than she predicts. As in when he behaves romantically rather than with anger. People get flustered with unpredictable, not with predictable.

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