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Marybarton

@Marybarton

Rocker

+ 8

Posted: 13 years ago

#101

Originally posted by: barun_arnav

Sorry to say..but are you in your full senses(I apolozise) while writing this post of your's. I wrote no negativity, only positivity is allowed. There is a saying" If you squeeze a lemon more it becomes bitter" so more and more criticizm for one episode or one precap I think too much. If you all can criticize then some time shower words of Love also for your fav show.If I love some one and by any chance that person becomes disabled so what will I do? criticize for his/her mistakes or give support and immense love. Love is magic and it can do wonders. Some people do not have trust on CVs of IPK but demand to show us trust track.We should learn to Trust Cvs and appreciate their hard work. That is called positivity.

Yes I am in my full senses. Life is not a bed of roses. I can love the show when it is good and criticize it when it it bad. I don't have to coddle the CVs, they are adult, working professionals with a global show on a global network. Having high expectations of them is normal and competence cannot be excused just because they work hard. We all work hard in our own jobs and people have expectations of us to fulfill that job. When we fall short, we are open to criticism. That's what the CVs are like. Don't think they are asking to be wrapped in a blanket and sung lullabies to. We don't have to shower them with fake positivity when we don't feel it. If IPKKND falls short of the precedent they have set, I will criticize it and no one will dismiss my well-meant criticism as bashing.

If sensitive people who feel like bursting into tears if someone criticize IPKKND, don't read the criticisms, head to the happy posts. It is a forum, there will be the positive and the negative, you cannot tell people to not comment on your post or IF just because you do not like their take on the show.

Given that you haven't read all the posts I have written defending the CVs and expressing my love for Arhi and the show in the past, your argument about my lack of positivity is also null and void.

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Deboleena Chakraborty

@Deb_05

Rocker

+ 7

Posted: 13 years ago

#102

Gawwdd some people are going too far. It is really crazy. This is a fiction. Keep yourself in their shoes and work 12/13 hrs each single day including weekends no time for family, functions and still if your hard work is not appreciated, only you receive lectures and criticizm how will you feel? one day or few days are ok but everyday..I can challenge you will be Pissed of.I guess you know better.Let the week over, let us wait for next week. Gawwd some people are really out of this world😆

My support and love for IPKKND and Arhi will remain same each single day. No matter what ever episode they show. At least I will appreciate their hard work and respect that. I know very well "life is not bed of Roses"

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arshi-forever

@arshi-forever

Navigator

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

#103

There are some people who voice across constructive criticism, and there are some people who literally bash. I think most of the forum is full of constructive criticism, there are a few people though who don't have the common courtesy or manners in the way they talk. Thank you for your post :)

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Marybarton

@Marybarton

Rocker

+ 8

Posted: 13 years ago

#104

Originally posted by: barun_arnav
Gawwdd some people are going too far. It is really crazy. This is a fiction. Keep yourself in their shoes and work 12/13 hrs each single day including weekends no time for family, functions and still if your hard work is not appreciated, only you receive lectures and criticizm how will you feel? one day or few days are ok but everyday..I can challenge you will be Pissed of.I guess you know better.Let the week over, let us wait for next week. Gawwd some people are really out of this world😆
My support and love for IPKKND and Arhi will remain same each single day. No matter what ever episode they show. At least I will appreciate their hard work and respect that. I know very well "life is not bed of Roses"
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Oops I just posted a reply after the end of the topic. Only the mods can really end a thread. So till then...

You didn't reply to my response and just calling me and other "bashers" unappreciative and ending the topic does not cut it. It just proves we have made our point. I have written almost 2000 posts now only on IPKKND including love posts, symbolism dictionaries, fan fictions (!) and more. I am NOT and neither are the other critics unappreciative. We would not take time out of our busy lives to be here if we did not love and appreciate IPKKND, but does that mean we will clap for it if it looses its grip? No.

By the way, the CVs aren't the only ones working 12-13 hours a day. Try being a doctor for a change. Forget docs, even a CHILD factory worker in any of the multinational companies works harder and no one is appreciating them there.

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---Nisha---

@---Nisha---

Voyager

+ 7

Posted: 13 years ago

#105

So its everyone agree or get the heck out. I dont understand how you are defending your views of agree or dont comment. Dont you see the inherent problem in your views. Everyone will not think alike on anything. Hell not everyone agrees on the fact that Holocaust happened. There are deniers 😲. If people can deny that than how the heck do you think everyone will agree that this show is just amazing and I will only say good things and spread positivity. Critics, whether book, food, theatre, movie, would be out of job in such a positive world.

You may blindly love this show, but dont expect everyone else to. I am thoroughly shocked by your views. 😲

Btw, psychology experiments have shown that a certain amount of negativity is good for performance, meaning it enhances performance. So if we provide healthy criticism, it should only help improve the CV's.

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kiara

@Karan.G.king

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 13 years ago

#106

When a show becomes a huge hit like ipkknd then there are some people from other forums who start bashhng hit shows out of jealously as trp of ipk is very good.

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Jyo.

@Jyo.

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 13 years ago

#107

Originally posted by: barun_arnav
Please don't use the word "Crap" I can name many crap shows but no I am IPK fan I will stick to it. Tell me if your best friend is upset, or trying to do something good. You will discourage that person or encourage. True friends encourage.I cannot change your point of view. But this much I can say saying "Crap"is proving what a strong Fan you are? Lack of patience very sorry to say.

Answer this question sweetheart > Would you encourage your friends to do things that may very much NOT be liked by a majority of people? Who doesn't like comedy. Everyone does. But three weeks of it? It's a love-story that's meant to be intense. And lack of patience? I, like many others, take out time from my busy schedule, spend 22 minutes of my day watching this show because I simply love it! But three weeks is too much. It's called testing our patience. And yes, we will speak out because we don't want our show to go downhill. And this is why we tend to criticise. Like Fari quoted Barun in her post, I quote him too "Those who criticise me love me the most." Hun, we don't think this show is crap. We don't think it's not worth it. We are not bashers. We are fans who criticise for the good of the show. Hope you get what I mean?

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Inaya Haya

@lilmzsunshine

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#108

My 6 year old told me one day that I didn't love him enough and that's why I criticized him when he didn't do well in school ...

I told him -

I loved him SO much, that I chose to take his anger and accept his foul mood when I criticized him, just so he could do better and NO ONE ELSE would criticize him. Nevertheless, if it bothered him such, I would change the WAY I did it, but I would absolutely not stop loving him, and therefore never stop correcting him ...

It took him some time to understand that difference, but he did eventually, as he's 6.

I'm hoping for the same with the audience who thinks constructive criticism is bashing.

This IS fiction, yes, so different scenario, but the idea behind criticism is the same.

Oh, and there IS a special category in most award functions now - the critics awards. Since the time of drama, critics have existed. And their opinions valued.

I believe it was RIddhi Dogra who said - comment about the show, if you like it, dislike it - whatever you like or dislike, tell us. So we know what to fix and what not to.

That's what real acting is about, and I'm sure that is how Barun, Sanaya, and the entire IPKKND team feels. Criticism is part and parcel of acting, they know it. We should too.

Love,

-S