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Hi dearest Gals,

Another day ends with another episode dedicated to romance, comedy and a little tension ..Was it the best episode ..Indeed it was not !! Was it a good entertainer , Yes It was !!..Since I am not in a mood to analyze or decode, I'll simply list out the scenes I liked

The episode opened with Arnav lying atop Khushi , a match stick alight on his, A magical match stick , Mind You !! cos Arnav took a tumble and fell down and the match stick never extinguished ** while it always does for me * both fall on the bed ...The flame approaches nearer , while Arnav appears to be lost in the lovely planes of her face, Khushi alert and all her faculties intact notices the approaching fire, yells out a warning and flings the fire far away ..But the flame does not fall very far , it lands right on the bed , the bed flaring up immediately with no other thoughts , Khushi rushes in and brings out heavy artillery ..She fetches buckets of water and manages to douse that poor flame...


Two things I liked in this segment, The quick reflex of Barun as he ducks the buckets .. Arnav allowing Khushi's penchant for dramatics a free rein before firmly catching her and pointing out the obvious ...Khushi's instant concern for Arnav's hands


The battle for recliner begins in deadly earnest with both doing a 5 meter hurdle race...Khushi aided by her duppatta practically flies on to the recliner and claims half of the lounge chair, pushing Arnav to the edge of the chair ** while the eternally sacrificing SP Bahus close their eyes in despair at this very Un SP Like attitude ** Arnav being a fair man and not having any stamina to indulge in a shriek fight with a virago wisely closes his mouth and settles down for the night !!




The scene I liked ; Arnav even in his half sleepy state tenderly adjusting Khushi's posture, unwilling to see her in pain ...

The slow progress from the end of the lounger to finally claiming his rightful spot by her side..Lovved it


T Ponders if they could open those French windows , why then could not they go out and into the hall using the Poolside entrance or reconnect the wires in the fusebox ??


THE MANGAL MANGALSUTRA MOMENT

A brief moment but enduring in its significance as Khushi's MS gets caught in Arnav's shirt...bound together for ever ...


Notice the change in Arnav's demeanor, not very long ago .. Khushi's earring had caught on to his lapel .. Barely controlling his fury, holding on to his temper by a thin strand, He had clasped Khushi's hands quite firmly, tugged away her hand from his vest and pulled out the earring but now, His fingers close around her hands gently, an action full of love and softness, gently pulls it away with her hands still in his grasp ...

T Ponders , why did Arnav leave bent like that ..**watch the scene when Arnav leaves the recliner**


The TOWEL MOMENT ;


*Thud* Thud* Thud * ...There now I have paid due obeisance to the THUD God ..Shall we get beyond the abs now...<<THEN >> Here was a small town Girl , uptight , screaming her head off when a fully clad Arnav Singh Raizada entered her wash room ... There was a small town Girl who grew intensely conscious when a bare bodied hunk ** her Husband** loomed into her view ... << NOW>> Not only has she become comfortable , but she can even tease him ...A very nice way of showing the growing level of comfort between these two ** lateral Thinking, I wonder if Akash would even remove his chashma and come in front of Payal..would Payal swoon **

Anjali's love for make believe continued even today...The contrast was more marked today when it was juxtaposed between Khushi ** A lover of illusion herself** and Anjali ...what struck me forcibly was the fact that Khushi knows that it is a illusion and pretends to live in, she never forgets that reality is different, never allows herself to be seduced by the glossy dream world whereas Anjali gets so immersed in it that she forgets that the world she has created is a Phantasm , the real world terminates and only this perfect world exists ..when reality interjects then Anjali's reaction is one of petulance..Talk of arrested development !!

I liked the alacrity with which Arnav seized on the Bathroom usage bonanza 😆😆 Also Khushi's irritation when Arnav is gargling loudly disturbing her convo...very wifey like ..


The BUTTERY CONVERSATION ;


what a lovely way to show that this couple understand the silent language of love better and are thrown off track by verbal sounds ...Khushi can understand what Arnav wants to say and what he even thinks before even Arnav can articulate it in his mind .. For a girl who does not like Arnav, who is desperate to leave him...she has paid very close attention to his mannerisms, is attuned to his moods, his thoughts ..Khushi can even hear her name being called inaudibly when her back is turned but cant sense the love he has when her back is turned or when he goes silent... CV's answer me this riddle ??


Loved Shyam's ineffectual jealousy, his helpless anger and his feeble attempt to block Khushi tangoing with Arnav..but he ahd not reckoned on Nani who sanctioned the idea of combined working and vetoed Shyam's input..


Kudos to the PH for continuing the independent streak of Khushi by keeping her employed... Another round of applause for showing a hubby who although is not a active supporter has not thrown any road blocks in her way and has allowed her to be ..



The bond which had become strained , The thread which had become frayed is undergoing rejuvenation ... The dead skin is peeling off exposing the new fragile shoots , Feelings long buried, shattered to smithereens is sending slender tendrils above the surface, trying to break the brittle hardness, finding the chinks ..Emotions that were supposedly burnt to ashes has begun to arise like a phoenix being born from its own ashes ..Understanding which had gone for a toss in the stormy ocean has begun to find anchor again Unfortunately All this is happening under the hawk like watchful eyes of Shyam who stays quiet awaiting his chance to strike a deadly blow ..Can Arnav_khushi's love withstand the onslaught of Shyam , can it weather the tsunami that Shyam will wreak or will it succumb and be ruined !!


EDITING ERROR

This was a Matchlight shot, what is it doing in the midst of the recliner close up, Huh ??




T's Shot's of the Day !!




BODY LANGUAGE



That Slouch is not ASR but Barun ... Be alert and in character .. Barun..


Will C Ya , Girls tomorrow Night as work will keep me away tomorrow too ...Till then Hugs to remember me !!


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Might be its just me!!! I am one confused soul. Whats with this inconsistency. Why CVs why. A piece of advise for you. Take a deep breath. Get things straight. Give us few fillers. Thats fine. But get the script straight. Just when we saw the story getting momentum, ASR has mellowed. Khushi seems to have forgotten what ever has happened.Might be I am the one who is to be blamed here.. Its becoming hard for me to comprehend what exactly you want to convey.
One thing what I could is Shyam is one restless being. He is losing patience. The person who used to just wait for an opportunity to strike is becoming all offensive now. In Arnav's mind its very evident that his Jijaji is not to be trusted. He is speaking without thinking. Good for us... bad for him.Digging his own grave.

Edited by mommamia - 13 years ago
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Tant nice synopsis and liked the brief description of the entire episode. Yeah it was kind of filler but then I really applaud the creative team for correcting the characters. As usual you leave me speechless and thanks always for giving me the pleasure to read a wonderful piece of writing. It's TANTASTIC. 👏 👏 👏

Finally an episode where there were no much bloopers and BD except in Arnav's bedroom scene where Anjali did shoot that separately in the beginning and in the end when Shyaam was there. The rest was fine with all the characters intact. Wow the battleground is prepared and the first move was made by the Devil straight to the other players. I loved the episode just because of the DEVIL's move.

Before I get into the essence of the episode one thing I would like to say here that by now 4 Lions you must have understood what the mess you all have created before. Right??? Naa I will not talk harshly today as I know you really have worked hard to clear up the mess. From keeping the characters intact to moving the storyline; from getting Khushi to legally enter AR for the so called demanded "Office Romance" to paving the way for Anjali's future track; from starting Shyaam's moves to building on Arnav-Khushi Equation; EVERYTHING. I know there were many flaws in today's episode but since damage was already done earlier, you cannot run away from it. Just think if there were mosquitos earlier existent around the Pool area then how did Arnav and Khushi slept so peacefully by the Pool. Right??? Then editing flaw again but not major as yesterday. Once or two that Tant mentioned but it's ok since there were not close up shots taken earlier.

Now, as I am describing the corrections of today's episode I'll explain them one by one. When on Friday, Mar 23rd I showed my displeasure about Khushi's OTT behavior and how you have used the old archive to carry forward on that track. What did I say there??? Do it methodically. Old ideas are never bad but before scripting we always need to figure out what the back grounds are. Right??? There, no love was involved and here it is involved; here sympathy and compassion both are involved. We know "Devdas" was made by many filmmakers but it is the treatment that made each one of them unique. Same way the actual novel "Parineeta" never had Lalita worked in Shekhar's father's company as she was a teenager but the way Pradeep Sarkar treated is so unique.He designed it to fit in today's generation; it had the 21st century mentality yet not a 21st century film. That should be a treatment when you use the old concept. I am really glad that you listened and today's bed scene was exactly that. A very old wine in a new bottle concept yet again, but, treated to fit in the characters and situations of Khushi and Arnav. Yes, in your earlier project the same way the bed was made wet and one slept on the floor and the other one slept on one side of the bed. Remember??? I still remember. Today we saw the flame made Khushi put buckets of water and so they ended up on the lounger. There, they were not married and here, they are and share same emotions, at least deep down their hearts. I loved that scene as Tant mentioned it in details so I will not touch base on that. But I loved the treatment of this old idea. I hope tomorrow when Khushi makes the announcement at AR you treat nicely as that is also an old idea. Remember???

This Khushi what we saw today is the Khushi Arnav loves and not the Khushi that was in last week with her OTT antics. I think have mentioned this earlier, Arnav loves that Khushi, when after the deal papers scene, the next morning she said - "aur aap ke liye bhi maine rang socha hain.." Arnav then asked - "Kya"??? Then Khushi ran towards the bathroom and said "Kaala". Yes, that is the Khushi Arnav loves and not the Khushi who intrudes a workplace and promotes her jalebis. Today we saw that sympathetic Khushi when she checked his hand and at the same time that bubbly girl who wanted to laugh but asked for apology first from her DM on Arnav's helplessness. This is our Khushi and thanks for bringing her back. Now judge yourself Creative Team, when you showed Arnav's anatomy to his fans it was logical and not like the one earlier where only to show her soap clad bare torso you degraded Khushi's character by turning off the valve. Today, it was logical and I didn't mind it. Otherwise I would have chewed you up. I must say here though Sanaya did really good and not at all OTT at the bed scene which was an old idea but she didn't remind me at all about the other show's female actor. Good Job.

Next comes another scene where Khushi's legal entry to AR was shown. Yes, I know I mentioned this on Friday that I have no qualms for her to enter AR Designs or your track on "Office Romance", because this is needed to establish the "Arnav-Khushi Equation" but I wanted it logically. She should enter AR in a logical and legal way and not intrude there because whatever it is the situation where she is right now, for her to enter AR like she did last week was "UNJUSTIFIABLE". That was so not Khushi. Today, 4 Lions have corrected. I know I said if the script writer would have known KKG's character then they would have made her start the business somewhere outside and when Anjali and Naani would have come to know of this new venture like they came to know on Friday, then they would insist her why start outside when there is AR and she is the Raizada bahu so she can easily start her venture at AR citing the reason when she has a readymade platform then why look outside. With their insistence, MIND IT, with their insistence, and Arnav's request (as Arnav never declines Anjali's request) then Khushi would have also supplied the food to AR employees and outside AR. Now, today exactly like that upon Naani's insistence Khushi entered AR. This is how you should do and I am glad you all listened. I loved that dining table breakfast scene and also another correction you did is Naani didn't comment on Maami's jiber jabber but what came out of the table was Maama- Mami's little hubby wifey fight which was "Adorable". I loved that and I want to see more of that. It's not insulting of any character but with these little little scenes, the younger generations do learn that "love never dies".

"Beauty is mysterious as well as terrible. God and devil are fighting there, and the battlefield is the heart of man" ~ Fyodor Dostoevsky

The above quotation by Dostoevsky, is in one statement, the summarization of today's episode. Perfect. The entire 5% message that this episode contains is in this one quote. Yes, beauty is mysterious and terrible; some of us see it as good and some of us try to acquire it illegally; the fight between the just and unjust always happens in our heart; we fight for it within and the decision maker for it is always our "heart",which is our battleground; but who is the winner here??? The Devil or the God??? A human being always consists of both the sides - dark and fair. Dark signifies the Devil and fair signifies GOD. Our actions are the makers of our character and today we have seen how the devil made his first move. It is our thought process on which one to choose; the person who chooses the dark is called Devil 'coz he portray himself as Devil where as the man who chooses the fair is portrayed as God or rather "Just".

If we define beauty here then for Arnav this beauty is "Love" which is terrible right now; for Shyaam the beauty is "Khushi's anatomy" which is mysterious to him; for Khushi the beauty is "Truth and Love" which is mysterious as well as terrible.

Shyaam's character is back and I think Mr. Roy's paper, which I guess is the "Transaction Statement" of Anjali-Shyaam joint account will correct whatever damage been already done and rectified; because if that is not done then it will be very difficult for the CVs to justify Shyaam's character and his move that he started today at the dining table. Or, it can be the legal contract of 6 months of Khushi-Arnav wedding which will be absurd as Mr. Roy is their family legal advisor and Arnav cannot disclose the deal behind their wedding. Or, something else that Arnav planned to check the status of dealing between Shyaam and Khushi. Or, it can be the deal papers that Aakash signed at the restaurant for Khushi to be seen later and her brains will start working on the "Chot" that Arnav mentioned earlier, which also will make way for the "Promo" to fit in. Now, this one I will want, as the only player that needs to join the ongoing game is "Khushi".

I don't know what the papers contain as of now but this scene was important for future when Anjali will be forced to think of Shyaam's manipulations, which in turn will be instrumental in opening her eyes.

Let me come to the triangle theory now or rather to the battle ground. The first move by Shyaam - "saale sahab kuch maangna chahatein hain lekin aapne aawaz ke karan majboor hain" to Arnav and the best move was "Makkhan dene mein aur badi deal sign karne mein bahut farak hota hain" to both Khushi and Arnav. Oh Wow. His first hint and I guess no one's ready to pick it yet. Whatta Irony??? Arnav will take it as Shyaam's displeasure in Khushi accompanying him to AR and Shyaam used that against Arnav based on his knowledge of Arnav's judgment regarding Khushi's "Low Intelligence". Fantastic. Here is the drawback in both of their thought processes. Let's see -

1. Arnav is unaware of "Shyaam 'Khushi Equation"

2. Shyaam doesn't know the depth of "Arnav-Khushi Equation".

But today we saw both the equations been started. How??? Always remember when you love someone you may save him/her from stepping into a bad situation but never would degrade him/her. Arnav may think at this moment that Shyaam tried to save Khushi from being with him but what he needs to realize that in turn he made a mockery of Khushi's intelligence. Which itself is a weapon against Shyaam. This will help in confusing Arnav when he will connect the dots.


The best track that started was "Arnav-Khushi Equation" and I am glad the CVs showed it separately and Shyaam has no idea about it. For some, it is Rabba Ve moment but for the story it is just the beginning of their equation. Many would think if she senses so much then why not she senses her love for him or his love for her; how will she??? Whenever she senses he thrashes her heart; put yourself in her position??? Can you??? Can you even dare to think that way??? Every person needs some confirmation and when she will get she will realize and believe me we are heading towards that. Today I saw the game is moving with Shyaam stopped to portray that he is changing. Yes, what happened in the dining table Shyaam witnessed but that can be taken as Khushi's good upbringing; he knows Khushi's philanthropic nature and he will take it that way. "Arnav - Khushi Equation" is the most important key factor in this game-plan and this we witnessed today outside RM on their way to the office. Remember one thing as much this equation is important in the game it is that much important that these two players understand this; they feel this. As I had written in the analysis of "Subconscious Confession" episode that whatever Shyaam does there is one very important equation that he will NOT be considering here. That is "Arnav-Khushi Equation".


Today we saw when they were leaving for office Arnav called her from behind and she even in a conversation still could figure out that he called her. Yes, remember in the Holi confession analysis I had used this quote of Sigmund Freud to describe the conscious and subconscious state of mind - "The conscious mind may be compared to a fountain playing in the sun and falling back into the great subterranean pool of subconscious from which it rises". Yes, whatever the confession that happened in the Holi episode was in intoxicated state but deep down it was their feelings for each other that already exists. They will always sense each other for their souls are bonded together. Logically, how can he/she, but in real life too we just sense certain things and sometimes it's the "Connection" that's brings us closer and not the amiability. This is the clue that Khushi had dropped in Shyaam's ears and he didn't pick up that day when she spilled the beans. This clue will prove why after knowing the truth Khushi will forgive ASR in a snap of a finger; this clue will prove why Khushi understood all the words that ASR couldn't even voice it today; this clue will prove why Khushi realized Arnav's decisions even when he didn't talk; this clue will prove when Khushi will learn the truth between Shyaam and Arnav she will support Arnav even after what Arnav had done to her for she understands him and his actions; for hurting him is what she would never think of even in her worst nightmare.

Yes, Shyaam Manohar Jha,the Devil, is only thinking in one direction just to save his stance for he doesn't know the Love that Khushi and Arnav share is "Unconditional" and will feel as if he achieved triumph but that will be temporary for as Martin Luther King, Jr. says ~ "I believe that unarmed truth and unconditional love will have the final word in reality. This is why right, temporarily defeated, is stronger than evil triumphant".

P.S. I Know I know 4 Lions - "aap chahein ya naa chahein hum aapke gale padh hi gaye".

Edited by doodleberry - 13 years ago
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🤣🤣I was waiting for this post Tanthya! Loved this part of your post:

"The bond which had become strained , The thread which had become frayed is undergoing rejuvenation ... The dead skin is peeling off exposing the new fragile shoots , Feelings long buried, shattered to smithereens is sending slender tendrils above the surface, trying to break the brittle hardness, finding the chinks ..Emotions that were supposedly burnt to ashes has begun to arise like a phoenix being born from its own ashes ..Understanding which had gone for a toss in the stormy ocean has begun to find anchor again Unfortunately All this is happening under the hawk like watchful eyes of Shyam who stays quiet awaiting his chance to strike a deadly blow ..Can Arnav_khushi's love withstand the onslaught of Shyam , can it weather the tsunami that Shyam will wreak or will it succumb and be ruined !!"

Btw, Doodleberry I loved, loved, loved your analysis yesterday as well. I can't even pick a certain part, as I felt the entire thing was spot on!

Before I mention the scenes individually, I really am getting confused about the layout of this track. One episode is dramatic. One is passionate. One is sweet, and comedic. Why are the CV's so bent on trying to portray their characters as being bi-polar? One moment they are happy. One moment they hate each other. One moment they are warming up to each other.

PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE keep the consistency of the scenes. Stop sacrificing the story for the sake of comedy! I enjoy the comedy but there is a time and a place for everything. I got hooked on IPKKND because of the passionate love story. The Diwali episode, and the few episodes in the aftermath are my personal favourite. Every scene that I have enjoyed watching time and time again have been the ones where ArHi show the volatility of their emotions for each other. Please remember the essence of this love story, and stop sacrificing it just to get a few more weeks into this watered down storyline.

Now onto the episode. Overall, I liked it a 6.5 out of 10. The loss of marks is because of the lack of consistency in Khushi and Arnav's behaviour. If you want to stretch the marriage MU out longer then at least show continuity in episode scenes. Did they suddenly develop Alzheimer's and forget Monday's confrontation?

Anyways...back to today.

The entire sequence in the bedroom oozed of that of a married couple. The jibes between husband and wife were hilarious. You can tell that the comfort level between the two is growing.

From the beginning of the episode onwards we see Khushi demonstrating time and time again how much she cares for Arnav. Thank you CV's. I have known that Khushi cares for him, but I am glad that you are finally taking the initiative to show it clearly on screen. From the match to the coil. She continues to put his well-being before hers. It is quite endearing, and so typical of Khushi to let go of past wrongs and not hold any grudges. Please CV's, remember this characterization of Khushi. She is a caring woman who doesn't make remarks like "apka gala dabadein" without trying to alleviate their pain as well, especially to Arnav. She didn't hold any grudges towards her family and how they abandoned her after the marriage, nor does she hold any grudges towards Arnav (she didn't have to get the coil as the mosquitos weren't bothering her). Why? Because she will always forgive those she loves. It is becoming clear to me with each passing day that Khushi really won't hold any resentment towards Arnav once she finds out the truth behind the MU.

It really shows what a ways we have come since the beginning of the marriage, where before Arnav refused to be even in the same room as Khushi - now he is willing to share a couch with her. His resolve is weakening. His heart is slowly overriding his mind. I just hope that he begins to use that master brain of his soon and deduce that the person who has been living with for the past while could never be capable for what Shyam has stated. The trust between the two is slowly building to a point where I don't think that Arnav will be able to deny any longer that HIS Khushi could never do what he had once believed.

Also, the editing at this point was so awkward. You're right Tanthya. The insert of the bed scene during the couch scene totally ruined the flow of the moment. I would rather see no close-up shot of Arnav as opposed to seeing one inserted that clearly doesn't belong. Especially the same one over and over again lol.

"Nafrat paas ahne na de. Mohabbat door jaane na de."

To me, their journey up the couch symbolizes this exact statement. They start out on opposite ends and soon, despite their every intention find themselves face to face. Chest to chest. Heart to heart. Supporting each other. Loved it.

The manglasutra scene is exactly that of the promo shot. Now I understand exactly what the CV's are trying to show. What is a manglasutra? What does it represent? It is more than a symbol of a woman's married status. It is a symbol of the love that a man and a woman share. A love which proves to be the REASON, the impetus behind their decision to marry. A woman doesn't just place a manglasutra around her neck - her husband places it there. He gives his love with this action, and by accepting it - she not only receives the love, but she also demonstrates her love in return. Each time Arnav and Khushi try to part - out of anger/hurt/hatred...the love, represented by the manglasutra, doesn't let them move away. Loved, loved, loved the symbolism of this scene.

Tanthya, loved your mention of the gentleness behind his actions when removing the necklace. Last time he didn't even want to look at Khushi when he was removing her earring from his shirt, but this time? He couldn't look away the entire time. His resolve is weakening.

I can't tell you how much I am loving Arnav's warming towards Khushi, and vice versa. Not because it is symbolic of this MU nearing an end, but mores because I think back to when Arnav was asked by Anjali and Nani in terms of Khushi and marriage. At that point he was unsure. I truly believe that he was still earnest in his confusion, as he was not prepared to take a step towards marrying Khushi. Yes, he loved her, but he didn't know if they could ever suit long term. Similar was Khushi's fear when she dreamt of how it would be to be married to him. These moments are demonstrating to all of us that a marriage between these two CAN work out. They are slowly realizing this as they begin to depend on each other more and more.

Just like Arnav always said, "Khushi tum sab kaam kudh nahin kar sakti." Well the same applies to you ASR, and it looks like this road that they are on is helping them realize that.

Kudos do the dialogue writers today. Loved the dialogue. I know many have appreciated Khushi's remarks, but my personal favourite was that of Anjali's when she was commenting on Arnav's calligraphy capabilities. "Jab chotey likhte hain na? To aise lagta hai ke keerde makorde mare hain."

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I won't say much more about the rest of the show. Others before me have explained their views so beautifully, and I just have to say I totally agree. The line regarding how whether he wants it or not, she is going to be at his side is so true. No matter how hard he tries to fight it - heck, how hard they BOTH try to fight it. They can't escape each other. They've become ingrained into each other's very soul.

Now what are those papers that Arnav has in the safe? Is it the marriage contract? This will probably be the cliffhanger on Friday as I am sure that Shyam will find out, and set forth another flop plan that will only bring ArHi closer together. I just hope that the CV's keep some sort of consistency going. It seems that they have dropped the Shyam turning a new leaf storyline. Please, let's keep it that way.

Also, PLEASE BARUN GET A HAIRCUT.
Edited by TeriMeriKhushi - 13 years ago
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"Khushi can even hear her name being called inaudibly when her back is turned but cant sense the love he has when her back is turned or when he goes silent... CV's answer me this riddle ??"

Tanthya, this is exact question I had when I saw this scene. The girl cannot understand his love nor pain when both are staring at her in her face but she can understand his mute call at her back. But apart from that, I loved that scene, especially ASR shock conveyed beautifully by Barun. Another thing that I want to add is, currently he hates her and still he is so sweet and caring, imagine how he will be when the whole MU is cleared.😍

So let me say my daily mantra, "Fantastic Synopsis, Tanthya" especially the last paragraph.

Below is my analysis:

Baat to samajne ki hain, chaye badi ho ya chhoti


This one sentence has many innuendos but I am only going to addressed only two today:


First is the family, who through small things that are happening between Arnav and Khushi, are understanding the love that is existing between these two people. They are witnesses to their closeness, their passion, their rage and their love. When this whole fiasco blows up, they might not be so understanding. They will blame Arnav, for his behavior, his actions, his sins and the injustice done to Khushi. Arnav has never defended himself and he will not defend himself even then but it will Khushi who like today will be conduit, who will explain his intentions, who will justify his actions, and who will be voice to his spoken and unspoken thoughts because in the end its all about understanding.

Second is Khushi: There have been many questions in his thread that will Khushi understand Arnav and his motives, will she be able to forgive him and the answer always has been that yes, she will understand and she will forgive him. It will be Arnav who will be not be able to forgive himself.

Today Khushi understood everything that Arnav said or implied, she has become attuned to him, to his moods, to his expression, to his thoughts and even to his speech. If she can understand this, will she not be able to understand his past intentions especially when she has been a witness to the depth of his relationship with his sister. Will she not be able to understand his actions when she knows how important Anjali's happiness is to him? Will she be not be able to justify them, when she will know that he did them for the exact same reason she kept her mouth shut and that is for the baby. She will because in the end its all about understanding , which is nothing but the first step to forgiveness.

Who would have thought "Takniki Kharabi" can be a ray of hope.

Many of us have been questioning, yes even me, that how can she forget the past two days of confrontation. I really cannot answer that question, but I can say that it is there in her mind. We have seen that with Shyam, that as soon as she got a hint that something is wrong, she connected the dots in a few mins and without stopping she went forward with the confrontation. Similarly, tomorrow (today in IPKKND calendar) is important as today she is going see Arnav in his playground and he is going to see the actual Khushi.

Purely speculating, I think three things can happen and only if Arnav's and Khushi mind is back from vacation.


Khushi will observe Arnav, she will know how ruthless he can be when dealing with people, how manipulative he can be when he is decides on a course, how conniving he can be to make things go his way, how swift he can be in initiating things without worrying about the consequences but she is also going to witness to his subtle change in behavior towards a cheater or an innocent. She is going to file all this and when the whole fiasco of Mr Roy comes out (she is in office, high hopes here), when she knows that it was nothing to do with Payash's divorce papers but something to do with Shyam, she is going to start the process of connecting the dots, hopefully.

On the other hand, Arnav confusion is increasing, not only about Anjali-Khushi relationship but also about his relationship with her. He has started noticing, her attachment to him, her acceptance of him, her affection towards him and her comfortableness around him. The realization is going to grow and the moment he sees her hesitance, her avoidance, her un-comfortableness with Shyam, he is going to start connecting the dots.


Or she will know they were never Payash divorce papers, she will threaten to leave, he will blackmail and we all will be right where we started.


Whichever way the CV's go (there can be a fourth way), I hope we are heading towards the terrace.


Anjali: I just want to write about her today.


In this forum, there are many different views about her that she is weak, she is blind, she is dumb, she is sweet, she is cute but today the only emotion I feel for her is sympathy and this emotion was triggered when I saw Arnav and her interaction when he tells her about his bad throat. That scene was beautiful in its own way, like a son cribbing to his mother and I loved it, so let me explain:

Anjali has built this world around her and in our journey with IPKKND, we have seen many times, her negating situations which even hint at breaking this glossy world of hers be it Lavanya, Khushi's marriage or yesterday's honeymoon. She is not strong but she makes sure that her world remains floating in cloud of happiness. But the two main pillars who keep her world floating is Shyam and Arnav, two people she cannot survive without.

One is the person, who is her "pati paremeshwar". A person for whose happiness she can sacrifice anything, a person who she is so possessive about that she start panicking even if he leaves her sight for a min, a person who even if hints on leaving her sends her into a state of despair, a person who she is totally linked to for her emotional well being, a person for whom sometimes her need is greater than her breath.

On the other hand we have Arnav. We all know that Arnav and Anjali have a very weird relation almost an unhealthy relationship. They both are dependent on each other. She is a mother to him, and he is like a father to her, both in a way filling that gap, that was left by the death their parents. She cares about Arnav a lot, she is not possessive about him, but she always has that underlying worry about him , so that even a small hint of danger or hurt to his well being fills her with terror. Sometimes it even seems that her concern for Arnav is more than Shyam itself and why will not be, mothers always care more for their children than their husbands. Suffice to say that if shyam is her breath, Arnav is her heart, both essential for her to live.

Saying this what will be the impact on her when she knows that her world is standing on shaky pillars, that her world is just a hoax, that the reality is as different from her dream as it can be That her two pillars are not in harmony but infact have become enemies. That, to keep one she has to let go another.That she has to choose between the husband or the son. A choice that can scare even a strong willed woman, then this is Anjali , a person whose reality starts with betrayal and ends with betrayal, not only by her husband but also by the brother she so adores.

I always thought that Arnav's repentance is going to be painful to watch but today I feel that Anjali's Agnipariksha will be doubly painful to see.

PS:

  1. What happened to the two extra chairs that we saw during the Mehendi tea scene or were they removed so that "Chhoti Bahu" remains standing. What an injustice to her!!!
  2. Use BD's but please use the one that are believable like someone whose age, hair and hand color at least matches to the leads.
Edited: PS - How many more times will we have to see Barun's shirtless body,pray tell? Its amazing but do we really have to see it again and again...
Edited by pamk06 - 13 years ago
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I think for the first time i got a reservation on first page at your thread.😃

Beautiful description of episode sathya.Tantasitic 🤗 🤗 🤗

Today episode was good.Entertaining keeping the story and logic a side.i think Cv's are using the charm and talent of our lead pair Arhi to extend the MU track as much as they can.

The episode was totally about Arhi.so the Dilli may bali tittle track finished in one episode glad.

Can Cv's explain why they started HM track after a Intense episode shown on Monday.if they want Arhi to dance they can simply arrange a party and than make them to dance why to tittle it as HM track..simply to make Arhi to sleep on recliner..

Arnav who hated her presence in the room on the Sr Night now sharing the same recliner with kushi.Good progress in the track..But we are not sure how long this mood will be maintained by Arnav character the continuity problem irritating me alot.suddenly his mind strikes Terrace scene than again he will show his pain angst on kushi,where is the continuity.

Loved the cute pics you posted sathu..really they are made for each other while sleeping too😆..

i really was surprised when Kushi went to open French doors..what about anji saying all doors are closed.if the water supply pipe of bathroom can appear at poolside why can't fuse box..weird.

When anajali can scene the mosquito coil smell why can't arnav..😆 ,i was like where the Cv's get all these silly reasons to continue the track.

Loved the kushi dialogue..yeh kud bath nahi kar sakthe ,hum may bhi bath nahi karne derahehe..🤣 🤣,she is such a cute wife.

Most Favorite scene of the episode at dinning table.even anjali can't guess what arnav want to say but kushi did.loved the way kushi understood each every Move of Arnav..do Arnav know all these simple minute things of kushi.than only we can see so called trust building process is running.

Last scene was adorable,awesome Barun expressions are excellent even sanaya too damm good expressing innocently that she heard him calling her😍 😍..ASR expression was like unbelievable, speechless,happy i felt like he just wanted to hug her at that moment.

so Cv's giving us each and every moment after marriage steadily.if this episode is about trust building process between these two i really hope when again shyam tries to spoil ASR thinking about kushi,i hope ASR will think well about kushi and choose not believe shyam.


Edited by vasiraju - 13 years ago
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Honestly i am like a stalker on IF until i see your post!!! 😆😆😆

Loved the scene she was putting the fire out, with the second bucket of water ASR had to duck to avoid getting soaked, he is used to her antics by now, I also loved her concern about his hands. Arhi set the bed on fire – ROFL loved it it was always going to happen, though yesterday it seemed like it landed on the laptop/couch but it settled for the bed. That worked out better because they were closer together, less space and more closeness between them.

He asked what was burning and she replied your ghamand, is his arrogance/pride going to go up in flames in front of her soon???

Is the couch symbolising that they are turning a new page and there will be less distances between them. ASR catching and holding her head to symbolise that he would never let her fall., and the mangalsutrer binding the two of them together, regardless of circumstances even if they want to move away from each other they are connected, bound together. i hope all this signifies a closer relationship and a start of a better understandng betweent the two and you have said beautifully it shows the slow progress from the end of the lounger to finally claiming his rightful spot by her side.

I noticed that the windows that they seemed to have opened appear to be the doors to the poolside, but if that was the case why could they not have gone out the same exit that Shayam entered on Holi when he snuck in to have a conversation with Khushi, what a question to ask i forgot this poolside is magical for a reason.

I found the seating arrangements at breakfast interesting. There were 8 seats, 6 taken, 2 free. Mami and Khushi came and took the two empty seats, i could not see an empty seat for payal to sit at. Is this to show that in the not to distance future that one less chiar would be needed and tht there would only be 8 people in the house? Because i assume that they have all eaten at the table in the past at the same time – i have started to find symbolism and meaning in everything!!!

I had mentioned in previous posts that for ASR to start overcoming the MU it would not be words but actions that would start him down the path of thinking he was wrong. I loved how the CVs have chosen to try and show him that he is wrong, that it is not Shyam that Khushi loves but ASR himself. ASR himself said at the sangeet that he never realised just how closly she observes him. At Holi they had said Dhadkanay ek ho gaye hai, and today they have started to show that they are one. It was beautifully done when she heard him calling her silently and loved the look on ASRs face.

I love the fact that she is still working and is independant, and with time he will appreciate that, i can only remember a conversation in regards to her working and my impression was he was not happy with her working at AR designs and it did not seem to be an issue with her having a job initself.

Shayam Anjaili in ASR bedroom i just hope she suspects something, but he has a glib tongue and, i expect him to cover it up but the cvs could surprise me..

Edited by sarra0 - 13 years ago
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awesome analysis!! aaww i loved how u wrote about the quick reflexes and the "** while the eternally sacrificing SP Bahus close their eyes in despair at this very Un SP Like attitude **" hahahaha i myself was laughing so hard when i came to this part! in the episode as well as the post! loved it Sathya!!

Now i was thinking while watching that little 100m hurdles across the room, and a bit of a long jump...ASR what has happened to u!!😲 and not in a bad way either!!😆
lol i just told myself, good lord 8 months back had anyone told me Arnav Singh Raizada was going to run across the bedroom and lunge at a recliner just to land at the bottom half of it and relinquish the upper half to Khushi Kumari Gupta i might have laughed out loud at that person's face!! heck ASR himself would have said 'What Crap!'
even that childish taking of the chance to use the bathroom 1st!! i mean seriously!
so now the point is!!, man Khushi really brings a completely alien dimension in this man and even he doesn't know it is happening!! i mean i doubt Arnav finds his own actions/reaction such as these weird in his own personal standards!!he doesn't even notice all the silly, half witted things he does cz of khushi!! she really is taking him on a rollercoaster ride back to childhood(his reactions at least)!

aahh now the shared sleep..the sensuality as well as the comfort in it;..how could a certain image be erotic as well as comforting soft as well at the same time!! cz that snap u have used...aahhh...😍
and really that tender caring even in the subconscious state of mind was lovely to witness...

hm..on a serious note..well i found a small symbolism..he starts at her feet untouching her..and slowly he rises until he is on par with her..her equal and her partner as they mingle their bodies entwine..
this would be the exact future once he falls from her eyes and thus slowly tries to climb higher on her trust and esteem of him and finally attain the equal position with her and then slowly become her partner..and become one..to be exact..

Mangalsutra moment was truly wonderful simply cz of the tenderness and love contained in those small gestures..caresses as that was what it was..both eyes each other while the hands softly untangled it...

hmm..mosquito coil incident..well i'll take it that some people can actually lose their voice thanks to it, only cz i get difficulty in breathing and have bouts of coughing when one is lighted..but really this is the 1st time i heard any1 losing the voice thanks 2 that!!

ahhh...now here i loved ur explanation of her becoming comfortable of his bare torso and all of his male glory(ok ok half) but still that certainly spoke volumes for their familiarity with each other..they truly have traveled very far in that sense to share this proximity and behavior towards one another..i just love so much just like u how very much Married these to act!! it is so natural! they have taken to this marriage as fish taken to water!! seems like they were preparing for it all life long!!the comfort, natural behavior, daily routines...wonderful!

hmm..now my fav part of the episode..the merger of thoughts..her astuteness where he is concerned..and really he doesn't even have a form a coherent thought..he just have to get the basic idea and she would interpret form the full thought and also express it by the time he starts to actually begin to formulate..it truly is wonderful...

and well i enjoyed this for one more reason..here khushi showed clearly to both Arnav and family as well as Shyam that there was indeed a deeper bond b/w them..this will be a vital point when the shit hits the fan and the family has to get involved..just like the holi bhang confession of Arnav to Anjali, i believe these scenes will also work in favour of AsHi..and specially brownie points to khushi that she indeed loves her husband..
and when the confrontation b/w Shyam Khushi eventually takes place (which i believe would be pretty soon) these would be ammunition for khushi to use to show shyam that despite arnav not loving her (as shyam would obviously put it to her) she loves him..and it might convey to him that she does love arnav and this might aggravate Shyam to do something drastic...

and hmm...that question u asked..well i think her being oblivious to his love towards her is i guess the confusion in himself..well i say this cz before the marriage happened and they were falling in love khushi knew...khushi knew clearly he was in love with her..but then she was proved in the worst possible manner..and this happened not once, not twice but many times over..so i guess on that specific route Khushi has closed off her instincts and is ignoring her intuition..so that is why she is confused on that front..


haha and finally made me wonder how cute the segment would be if khushi is the mute one and arnav had to interpret..i somehow doubt his success..cz he is a man and not very astute in basic makeup..so he might find it harder..n now i am tempted to find out..wonder if the CVs will one day treat us with a reverse treat..

waiting for Dood's analysis too..

Edited by princessunara - 13 years ago
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Thank you Tanthya for another amazing analysis.

I have to say overall the episode was a mixed bag for me mainly because of sudden shift from intensity of last two days. Today's episode seemed to be a continuation from last Friday. Maybe it has to do with Sanaya on vacation. Things you said in your post worked for me except I guess the towel scene. Maybe I am missing the point of them getting comfortable with each other, shirtless or not, but for a girl who till just a day ago (or two? in IPKKND time) was uncomfortable with him shirtless albeit with a towel draped, is suddenly showing no reaction at all when the rest of us are fainting in heap!? But I am grateful that CVs did not give us another Rabbe Ve there.

Liked your Akkash's chashma comment a lot 🤣
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wow.. I always love to read your analysis and I so loved it👏

Wow you really got a hawk eyes to catch that slouch of ASR...damn you are so attuned to him😳




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