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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: sunflower52

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You know many of the so called feminist did not agree with my statement. They think all the women are innocent, no but there are some women out there who are worse then men.

Thanks to the Indian shows who only show that men have grey shades while the women are sati savetri types. Sometimes it make me especially the leads.

I want Khushi to fight but not to the extent that she becomes like ASR then what will be the difference.

They say that to forgive the person who did bad to you is the biggest punishment. Why because that person will always remember this and feel guilty. That I did so much bad to him/her still they forgive him/her.


Women are never innocent. Men never create problems its always the work of the women! 😆 😆

Women are never sati - savitri in real life! See any relationship in reality and its quite evident. Being a feminist does not mean I will turn a blind eye to the fact that women can also be the villain😆

I want Khushi to know the reason first. Because in this situation for me both of them are to blame -- and Khushi more again because she hid a secret not once but twice. Its been 1 day since the marriage so I am kinda of keeping hopes that in a couple of days Arnav should tell Khushi the reason -- she deserves it!

Rest lets see how this goes! 🤔



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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: --Anna--


@Bold: so true 😆, you know with this statement we will be bashed for being a woman enemy.

I agree with you, women are not sati savetri types in real life, there is a saying " A WOMAN CAN MAKE AND BREAK A HOUSE". We have that power and so how can we say we are powerless. Just because we are weak in physical way.

Even I pointed out Khushi had no right to keep the truth about Shaym from ASR. If she could not tell Anjali she could have at least confided in her brother.

Why do you think I was against Abhay, was the same very reason.

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Posted: 13 years ago
@Salma : True that! We are not weak - maybe yes physically but mentally its us who are strong! And all relationships that I know of between a man and a women the problem is always the women. We like to believe that we are the saints when we are not. I have seen this from when I was at school and now at work and in other relationships as well.

Oh we are so going to be bashed for this ;D :D

I know why you dint support Abhay - but for me Abhay was a different person all together. ;P

But I support Khushi blindly - because she got the chance twice and she took the wrong decision twice! But still I would want Arnav to tell her the truth because she has to know it. Also abhi tak I can forgive him for not telling her - he needs to process everything - but he should. Nahi toh he is making the same mistakes as of Khushi. :/
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: --Anna--

@Salma : True that! We are not weak - maybe yes physically but mentally its us who are strong! And all relationships that I know of between a man and a women the problem is always the women. We like to believe that we are the saints when we are not. I have seen this from when I was at school and now at work and in other relationships as well.


Oh we are so going to be bashed for this ;D :D

I know why you dint support Abhay - but for me Abhay was a different person all together. ;P

But I support Khushi blindly - because she got the chance twice and she took the wrong decision twice! But still I would want Arnav to tell her the truth because she has to know it. Also abhi tak I can forgive him for not telling her - he needs to process everything - but he should. Nahi toh he is making the same mistakes as of Khushi. :/


Abhay was trying to be like Khushi.

Yes, ASR should disclose his reason for marrying her, I have heard she is going to find out, hope by his own mouth.

Khushi did make a mistake twice and was a foolish thought that Shaym is going to change because of a baby.

Arnav needs to tell her no matter how painful it is for him.
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Posted: 13 years ago
@Salma : I know that! Its just that Abhay was a vampire and not a normal human being and that is what was the difference that I considered! But well I still get ur point!

I hope he tells her the reason! Khushi behaved like an idiot, I dont want him also behave like one! But knowing him and his anger issues -- one cant expect much I guess! 😕

Ufff! And had such lengthy discussions on Arnav in the other post! Phewww!! I have completely broken my record of defending Abhay as I have defended Arnav! 😛😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
ok. for the record, I dont agree with both of you - on women being the greatest enemy of women.
bad people are the enemy of bad people - nothing to do with what their gender, sometimes its a man sometimes its a women. .. generalising like this is the problem.
human history moved in a certain way hence power aggregated to the male and women therefore had to find other means of soft power.. sometimes it became twisted..

And Salma, this thread is completely inadequate for me to try and explain or even argue with you on the history of the humanist movement, power politics and the patriarchal society and its intricacies. But trust me, saying women should bring up their sons properly and if they dont then they are to blame for men not being nice to women is ummm... doing a wild sweeping generalisation methinks..

however, that's all from me on this subject. I would have felt too bad if I had just left it at that.. but no more from me on this one...
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Posted: 13 years ago
awesome i loved ur post so much thank u buddy really u have made my day
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: PrasRas

I would like to know your views if you were in Khushi's place



i would feel bad, lonely, betrayed, confused, everything.. and for that i don't need to be in Khushi's place..i already feel that for her..any general woman can feel that.. i can more cause apparently both of us are 18..

i do not know in what sense you have asked this.. maybe i did not make my point clear.. or maybe you did not follow the discussion from first page.. i am not saying Khushi should not have felt bad.. or ASR has done right.. i am not.. i am only saying that 'hate' is a harsh word and i won't be able to hate him for one day's actions.. that way, i wouldn't have watched this show from so much time.. i would have died crying everyday then..
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Rita.C

ok. for the record, I dont agree with both of you - on women being the greatest enemy of women.
bad people are the enemy of bad people - nothing to do with what their gender, sometimes its a man sometimes its a women. .. generalising like this is the problem.
human history moved in a certain way hence power aggregated to the male and women therefore had to find other means of soft power.. sometimes it became twisted..

And Salma, this thread is completely inadequate for me to try and explain or even argue with you on the history of the humanist movement, power politics and the patriarchal society and its intricacies. But trust me, saying women should bring up their sons properly and if they dont then they are to blame for men not being nice to women is ummm... doing a wild sweeping generalisation methinks..

however, that's all from me on this subject. I would have felt too bad if I had just left it at that.. but no more from me on this one...



i did not read the full conversation and maybe our views will differ on this one.. but i am glad you brought up this point in bold.. maybe i am agewise inadequate to say that.. but i agree with it.. it is due to what history i don't know but it is because of some evolution that it happened that way..power is lying with men.. and women do have softer ways.. best example in the scenario : ASR melting for KKG's tears.. thats it.. both don't you think this power is greater than that power they have? two drops of tears and they just melt like molten lava.. however hard they maybe.. (asr for instance..)

i always felt women have a stronger play at something most men lack : emotions.. 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: uniquebluerose


👏 Kudos to you a very valid and point...but hey criminals are given a chance to justify themselves and their side of story is heard...they are tried on court...none of this was done for Khushi...and i am still upset that he thinks all will be rosy in six months for his sister and then he can throw her away...no idea who is he to decide that!!!!



i think he said cheh mahino ke baad tum "azaad" ho..😊 i am sure, in fact

i never expected him to give a chance to her, he is just like that... but i don;t think he wants to use Khushi and throw her away.. he thinks that she wants to be with shyam..so she is free after six months.. there is a post by a member that i liked on this point.. read it if you find time and patience :

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/iss-pyaar-ko-kya-naam-doon/2793275/i-got-it-reason-for-the-contract

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